Is Your Relationship Doomed? 8 Red Flags You Need to Know

If you're in a relationship, it's important to know the warning signs of a doomed relationship. Knowing what can go wrong can help you prevent problems from developing. And if you do notice issues cropping up, it's best to address them sooner rather than later—before they become full-blown problems that threaten your happiness and well-being.

Lack of communication.

This is a big one! If you and your partner aren't communicating well, your relationship is probably doomed. This doesn't mean that you need to talk about every little thing that's bothering you; it just means that when something comes up, both of you need to be willing to listen and talk about it.

It's also important for couples who are having problems in their relationships or marriages not only keep the lines of communication open between themselves but also with friends and family members who can help them through difficult times.

Jealousy.

Jealousy is a feeling of suspicion and anger that occurs when someone thinks you're trying to take their partner away from them. It's a natural emotion, but it can be destructive if it gets out of control.

Jealousy can lead people to lash out at their partners or friends, which is why jealousy should always be taken seriously and addressed as soon as possible. If you find yourself feeling jealous often, try talking about your feelings with the person who makes you feel this way (if it's safe for them). You may be able to work through the problem together--or at least get some relief from having talked about how angry they make you feel!

Dishonesty.

Dishonesty is a big red flag for any relationship. Not only does it betray your partner's trust, but it also creates an environment of mistrust that can be hard to overcome. If you're not honest with yourself, then you're probably not being honest with your partner either.

You need to be able to communicate openly and honestly about everything--from how you really feel about something (even if it's negative) to what your intentions are in certain situations. If there are things that are bothering or upsetting you, tell them! And if there are things that make you happy or contentedness in life, share those too!

This isn't just about avoiding conflict; it's also about keeping each other informed so both parties know where they stand at all times. If one person has been hiding something important from their partner because they're afraid of confrontation or looking bad--that's not good communication at all!

Disrespect.

Disrespect is a huge red flag for a relationship. It can be hard to spot at first, so you need to pay attention when it happens. Disrespecting your partner's needs, feelings, values and boundaries is disrespectful behavior.

It's also important that your partner respects yours as well--so if they don't respect your opinion or time (or any other boundary), then this is another sign of trouble ahead.

Disrespecting physical space is another sign of disrespect: If someone pushes past you into an elevator when there are plenty left behind them? That's an issue! Or maybe they're always barging into your room without knocking first...that could be a problem too!

Selfishness.

You should be aware of a relationship that is being controlled by one person. If your partner is always making decisions for the both of you, or trying to control how you spend your time together, it's a red flag.

Selfishness can manifest itself in many ways: A selfish person won't ask how their actions affect others or if someone else needs something; they only care about their own needs and wants. They may also be very controlling and manipulative (which can lead to abuse).

Controlling behavior.

Controlling behavior is one of the most obvious signs that your relationship may not be right for you. Controllers try to manipulate and control others, often without even realizing it. They want things their way, all the time--and they'll do whatever it takes to get them that way.

They can be very persuasive, so if you've been with someone who has shown controlling tendencies before, it's easy to fall under their spell again and again. Here are some signs that someone might be using controlling tactics on you:

• They tell you what to wear or how much makeup looks good on you (or doesn't).
• They say things like "I don't know why I'm dating someone as dumb as [you]." This kind of comment tells us that our partners have low self-esteem about themselves but expect us not only not have any doubts about ourselves but also agree with everything they say about themselves at all times! Talk about unrealistic expectations!

Lack of trust and respect for boundaries.

Trust is a two-way street. It's about being honest and open with each other, and it's also about respecting your own boundaries. If you don't feel like your partner respects your boundaries, then that's a red flag.

You know how you feel when someone asks too many questions? Or pokes around in places where they shouldn't be poking? Or does something else that makes you uncomfortable? You might say something like: "Whoa! Back up there! I don't like it when people touch me without asking first." In most cases, the person will apologize or move away from whatever he was doing before--and if he doesn't do these things on his own accord (or responds by saying something hurtful), then chances are good that this person isn't trustworthy enough for any kind of real relationship with anyone else besides himself.

Your relationship's success depends on how well you communicate, understand each other, and respect each other's needs and values.

If you're in a relationship, communication is the foundation of your success. It doesn't matter if it's your first date or your fiftieth anniversary--if you can't communicate with each other, then the relationship won't work out.

Communication is not just about talking; it's also about listening and understanding what the other person needs from you. If you don't know how to listen properly, then there will be problems in the future because both of you will feel like nobody understands them or cares about them enough. In addition to listening well when we're together face-to-face, we also need communication tools like emailing or texting so that we can continue our conversations when we're apart (and make sure that nothing gets lost along the way).

But wait! There's more! Not only do relationships require good old fashioned face-to-face talking time together where both partners share thoughts without interruption (so no phones!), but they also require constant communication outside these times as well: checking in daily via phone calls/texts/emails etc.; letting each other know what kind of day they had at work; asking questions about upcoming plans so both sides know exactly where things stand before making decisions together etc..

Conclusion

When you're in a relationship, it's important to be able to communicate with your partner and understand how they feel. If you don't have this ability, then there's little chance that your relationship will survive long-term.