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Idris Elba's Proud Story of Being 13-years old with an older Woman Brings Light to Pedophilia

Sadly many people think nothing of boys having sex with older women

By IwriteMywrongsPublished about a year ago 4 min read
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Wednesday, 11 December 2024

By: TB Obwoge

Before I get into the video of Idris Elba talking about being with an older woman, I want to catch you up on some similar life stories I've been told.

For many years I was very close to a man from Kenya who moved to the United States with his family when he was 14-years old. Many people aren't aware that most Africans attend boarding schools, they're away from their families for the formative years of their lives.

This is something European colonizers set up, the way they set up forcing young Black girls to shaving their hair off to be able to attend their public schools. Any way many African families are wealthy enough to afford a maid, they use the term house help.

When Kinoti was living in Kenya, his parents had house help, she not only took care of the house she was also home with the children.

Kinoti lived with me for about a year and a half, he was very problematic, but I made sure I loved on him as much as possible. However he was breaking my soul as much as he possibly could, it was like he tried to be as cruel as possible to me.

One day we were eating a meal, he was talking about the first time he had sex, he was smiling wildly, as he proudly proclaimed that he was 11-years old when he lost his virginity. I asked about it, he then told me that his house help was 25-years old.

He continues to smile and giggle, he seemed so proud, he then told me that she was also having sex with his cousin & other boys in his village in Meru, Kenya.

After he spoke, I sat for a while, I wanted to gently tell him something.

I said to him, "Kinoti, you didn't lose your virginity you were molested!, she was taking advantage of all of you little boys, it was pedophilia!"

He stopped eating, looked over to me and instantly dropped the piece of chicken he was eating and stared blankly. He could no longer eat, as we continued to talk.

I asked was it his idea, he told me that it was her idea as he wasn't thinking about having sex with this 25-year old woman who was employed to care for him, the house & other children.

He had been dealing with several behavioral and mental health issues, he was always drinking too much and using drugs. We eventually parted ways after 13 or more years of friendship.

However a viral video of Idris Elba talking about driving a car at the age of 13-years old as well as dating older women. The one woman he talked about was 19-years old, many people proclaimed its only 6-years but she in most countries is legally an adult.

Elba laughed, he spoke as if that relationship was something that he would applaud if it were his own daughters with older men. As a matter of fact his laughter was so disturbing I went to the comment section to read if others were disturbed by his story.

I found that most of the people who were born & raised in European countries thought nothing about children doing adult activities. Living in Ghana as well as Kenya I happened to hate that this was much of the same.

Children forced to do adult things, sexual abuse of children, beating them severely as if a child should know better at such a young age. Forcing children out of their family homes to go to boarding schools with adults who weren't very kind to them.

Screenshot of some comments from this Facebook Reel of Idris Elba

Children should be in your home, taught the morals that you feel they should be taught, not living with hundreds of other children and raised by strangers. Abuse is so common, while people just rail on about gun violence in U.S. schools and USA this and USA that.

For billions of people who hate the United States, they sure do compare their countries to it so much more than they should.

The "looking older part" is the problem in many countries for some reason Black children are always told that they look older, however most rarely age to where they look extremely old as seniors. However having a beard or being tall should not be a testament of being old enough to drink and have sex.

One man born and raised in Germany posts about being 16-year olds, living on their own.

He added being treated like a kid when he went oversees, because 16-years old is a child even if this person refuses to admit this. That is why so many things legally can't be completed by children under the age of 18-years old.

Screenshot from Facebook Reels

This last person thinks that driving a tractor or riding mower on your families farm is the same as driving a car on highways and roads where people from the public are driving. This shows how odd some people think about life.

So there are child soldiers forced to fight in many countries, since they can hold a gun and do it we should make all children fight in wars? See how stupid this sounds? Or maybe to you it is perfectly normal who knows.

Thank you for reading! Please consider buying a coffee for Lacey’s House efforts in Gender Equality & Children’s Rights.

©️TB Obwoge 2024 All Rights Reserved

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IwriteMywrongs

I'm the president of a nonprofit. I've lived in 3 countries, I love to travel, take photos and help children and women around the world! One day I pray an end to Child Marriages, Rape and a start to equal Education for ALL children 🙏🏽

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