I was soaking in the rain and waiting for my husband to get off work, only to see him send his female colleague home with an umbrella

On that day, it suddenly began to rain as we were getting off work. Neither my husband nor I had umbrellas with us before going out this morning, so we thought we would go to my husband's office to wait for him and take a taxi home together.

Because I was ten minutes' walk away from my husband's unit, I walked in the rain to the vicinity of my husband's unit and settled my husband. I was waiting for him and had already arrived at the vicinity of his unit. My husband didn't respond to my messages.

Foolishly, I thought my husband was busy (I left at 17.30, he left at 18).

However, when it was time for my husband to leave work, I saw him and his female colleague getting into the same taxi, holding an umbrella. Heart instantly cold. Then I took a taxi and went home.

After getting home, I angrily cook in the kitchen, after about ten minutes, my husband arrived home. Husband: I texted you, didn't you see it? Husband: I saw it on the way back. I: you and female colleague how return a responsibility? Husband: How can it happen? I just need a cab on the way. Me: Don't you know I will wait for you at your work? Husband: I didn't ask you to wait for me. At this time, I just put the rice to the table (the rice left at noon fried), when her husband took chopsticks to eat, I was angry not hit a place to: I did not let you eat the rice I want to do ah. Then I snatched the chopsticks from my husband's hand.

I admit that in the adult world, the relationship between husband and wife will gradually fade over time, and I am not really a sentimental woman, but feel that it is raining, my husband and I do not have an umbrella, at this time, I can think of my husband care, how he does not care about me a little?

Maybe he was just carpooling with his female colleague, but the selfishness he displayed in front of me really chilled me.

Emotional analysis:

In a relationship, there is rarely an equal liking, or men and women have different attitudes towards relationships, so more often than not, women feel that they are acting unrequited in a relationship. On a rainy day, your husband got into a cab with a female colleague, which, as FAR as I'm concerned, meant carpooling and going home together. To ignore you, of course, your husband is objective existence, or because the husband and wife together time is long, lead to your husband for you some fatigue, or because your husband did not love you, didn't think you care about that thing, or because your husband lived inside selfish, only care about his own feelings.

I can tell you are a particularly good-natured woman: you didn't cuss at your husband on the phone as he carpooled away with his female colleague, but you made him a lousy meal when you got home (albeit with a few leftovers). A reminder to you: In later life rather than let oneself too good temperament, too independent, when you are wronged to vent in front of your husband, in a timely manner so that not only can show the presence of the your husband, will be on you because your husband must pay increase, let him more, of the relationship, after all, for the vast majority of people, Only when he gives more to certain things and certain people will he value these things and certain people more. In addition, you also need to act in pettish for your husband once in a while to make him feel your tenderness.

The harsh truth is that men are more comfortable and protective with women who are weak, coquettish and sensible. And who did not want to bother for her husband, and a strong reasonable woman, often let a man have oppressive feeling, leads to the formation of a man who will like this thought: anyway, anything you can handle, so that when meet some special things, men instinctively does not give you care about, and believe that you can be more tricky things in order at the moment. Once a man becomes accustomed to your "ignoring", the bonding effect will be a deterrent, making you think your husband is selfish.

Remember, the daily behaviors of women men hate include the following aspects: 1) loser, the most important reason is that men need money, and their earning power is more popular; 2) The most important reason for not being filial to their parents is that their parents are their close relatives. There is also a strange phenomenon during this period. He may not be filial to his parents, and even often contradict his parents, but you should never do that. 3) Swearing all day will not only upset a man, but also make him less interested in you. 4) Promiscuity, women need to understand that the most intolerable behavior of a man is that you cheat on him, even though he has many shortcomings in his marriage, as long as you betray the marriage, and he has the capital of divorce, he will basically choose divorce without discussion.

So, what should a woman do to make a man feel comfortable in the marriage process?

1) Affirm the contribution a man has made to the family. Even if you are struggling with a man's life, you should not mock his ability to make money, otherwise it will discourage his enthusiasm and even make him less confident because of your denial. During this period, give men more encouragement and praise, will play an unexpected effect.

2) To a man's parents must be kind, at least to face passable, to know that a man to a woman when judging, will you have filial piety as a very important indicator. Normally, the woman that has filial piety, the man is not quite able to live up to easily, two reasons, can feel such a woman is the woman that suits to live, also be afraid that after he became a white eye Wolf, the meeting is reprimanded by parents.

3) You need to be reasonable with men, but never aggressive with men. A woman to be liked by men must have the qualities of acting spoiled and showing weakness. In fact, engagement is really important in working on a marriage. Those who are coddled out of the hands of the shopkeeper, often will not love you, but those who let men participate in the housework of the women will get men's care and love.

Although men tend to be rough in the emotional field, men also need to understand that women are sensitive species. Once you're married, you don't have to pay too much attention to the details of your life, but there are some things you should pay attention to. So what details should a man pay attention to in his life?

1) A man should never forget a woman's birthday. On this day, there can be no expensive gifts, but there must be a gift, so that the woman will feel that you care about her.

2) When a woman is sick, you should give the minimum care, do not ignore her at this time, let alone when she asks you to help her buy medicine, pour water in a state of impatience.

3) When you have dinner, you should inform the woman, at least give her a general idea of your daily whereabouts.

4) Keep women in mind during bad weather; You have to be there for a woman when she's in trouble.