HOW TO READ PEOPLES MIND | Accurate tips to read body language and gestures
Understand individual thoughts and feelings
Three strategies are necessary to read someone's mind. In a small village long ago, two brothers lived. The older brother was blind and spent most of his time at home, while the younger brother worked as a farmer. However, their farm was constantly being destroyed by the many animals in the fields. The younger brother was troubled by this issue, but he eventually thought, "Why not ask my blind brother for help?"
These techniques are essential to master because once you master them, you can easily discern and grasp what anyone is pondering. After giving it some thought, the younger brother constructed a small hut in the field and put the older brother inside. He told him that if he heard any animal noises, he could sit there and shout to get the animals to leave, which would save our crops.
After accepting his younger brother's suggestion, the older brother started sitting in the field and shouting at animals to scare them away. They did this for several days. At one point, a deer went through a field and burst the fence. fleeing Soon after, a king who was hunting deer also arrived at the field and asked the blind brother if he had seen one. The blind brother replied, "Your Majesty, I am blind. How can I see a deer? But I can tell you that the animal that left my field is not worth chasing. You are wasting your time."
The King was shocked by the blind brother's statement and asked how he knew this. The king asked the blind brother if he was lying because he claimed to be blind, but he talked about the deer's worthiness. A dough that is pregnant I've never heard of a king hunting a pregnant dough, so I'm telling you that she is not worth your pursuit and you shouldn't waste your time chasing after her. The King was shocked to hear this and couldn't understand how the blind person could recognise the dough as pregnant.
He wondered how a blind person could know whether the deer he was pursuing was pregnant or not, and how he could confidently tell me of this information despite being blind. The king felt the need to confirm this, so he told his commander, "I want that animal alive, but I need to make sure that it is a pregnant do the blind man seems to be very certain about this, and I need to look into it. Please go and find out if she is pregnant.
The commander who came before the king received the orders, and upon his return, he informed the king that the blind brother was right and that the doe was pregnant. The king was filled with wonder and was unable to understand how the blind person had learnt of the Doe's pregnancy. The king had a lot of questions, so he decided to ask the blind man to get to the bottom of this.
I may not know whether you are actually blind, but I have come to ask you one thing: will you give me the right answer to my query in answer The blind brother said, "Your Majesty, you can ask me anything you want, and I will answer you honestly." The king replied, "You are a wise man and you seem to have a keen understanding of many things, today I have called you to find out whether my wife is faithful to me or not."
The blind brother replied, "Your Majesty, what kind of question is this? Your marriage has lasted for many years, and now you want to know such things, why are these questions arising in your mind?" The king insisted that you answer this question, and that if you do not, I will punish you with the death penalty." The blind brother said, "Your Majesty, if you want the answer to this question, you will have to do me a favour."
The king asked, "Tell me what I need to do," to which the blind brother replied, "You will have to leave your wife alone with me in a room." The King was initially incensed, but he eventually granted the request and gave his Commander the order to leave the blind brother and the queen alone in a room at that moment. The blind brother then expressed his desire to touch the queen, which infuriated her, and she began beating the blind brother with her hands, feet, and all of her strength.
After that, the blind man successfully The blind brother told the monarch, "Your Majesty, your wife is unfaithful," after he had escaped and gone to the king. The king asked the queen if she was faithful or not, and the queen replied, "Your Majesty, you may as well kill me but I am not faithful." The king was overjoyed because everything the blind brother had said was true, and he went straight to the blind brother to ask how he knew that his wife was unfaithful.
The king was furious, so he pulled out his sword and went to the queen. "Your Majesty is fairly straightforward," the blind man retorted. "I told your wife that I wanted When I told her that I wanted to touch her, she became so angry that she started beating me. She could have refused, but instead she hit me all over. Now you tell me, he went on, how can such a woman be faithful? The king said, "You are quite wise, all right, then let's proceed." He added, "If you answer one more question correctly, I will let you go from here."
The king then asked, "Tell me, am I truly my father's son or someone else's?" To which the blind brother replied, "Your Majesty, why do you bother with this question." The blind brother replied, "Your Majesty, I can tell you right now whose child you are, but before that I want you to promise that you won't get angry with me." The king replied, "I promise I won't get angry with you." The blind brother then told the king, "You are indeed your father's son, but you are also under the shadow of a miserly merchant." The king insisted that "no, no, I want the exact answer to this question otherwise this question will always bother me so I want to know the truth."
In response to this, the mother of the King said, "Son, you are indeed your father's child, but you are also under the shadow of a miserly merchant." The king was delighted and immediately went back to the blind brother, asking how he knew that the shadow of a miserly merchant was on me. The blind man replied, "Your Majesty, you asked me many questions, and I gave you the correct answers to all of them. If you were any other king, I would have received many rewards by now, but you haven't given me any." One cent for me Thus far, this has led me to conclude that you are quite frugal.
The blind brother said, "Your Majesty, I am blind by nature. If I had ease, I could easily understand anyone's thoughts." The king erupts in laughter and says, "Whatever you ask for, I will give it to you. But tell me how do you know what is right and what is wrong. How can you provide such a curate and precise answers to this?" The mind has its language, and one can see it in a person's actions by looking at their eyes, lips, and the way they work and their activities." This allows us to know what someone else is thinking, but since I am blind, I see things through their actions.
If I want to know something, I have to give the next person a task to observe how he works and completes it, and then I can infer what is going through his mind. Fe the King asked, "Does that mean I can also know what people are thinking?" The blind brother replied, "Yes, you can understand what people are thinking, but first you need to work on yourself, which is to bring your mind into the present and calm it down. For that, I'm going to tell you three ways today, and they are really simple and easy, but first, your Majesty, you must do one thing.
Focus your mind The blind brother then told the king, "Your prayer to yes your majesty I will," because when we focus our minds and merge them into the present, we can understand the thoughts of others because that person is thinking in the present and we also have to bring our minds into the present only then can we understand their thoughts. If we are thinking about past events, how will we know what the next person is thinking in the present because we are immersed in past events. I don't have eyes myself, but I learnt this skill from the revered Gutam Buddha many years ago. He was my teacher and guide, and I used to have eyes back then, so I could understand.
When the blind man tells the king, "Oh King," he says, "The first method is to pay attention to the eyes. The most important thing when we talk to someone is to look them in the eyes because eyes don't speak but they say a lot. If we learn to understand the signals in a person's eyes, we can know what's going on in their mind, what they are thinking, and what they are about to do." people's thoughts only through their eyes, so if you want to know what other people are thinking, you should pay attention to their gaze, where they are looking, and which way they are looking. If their eyes are moving around while you are speaking to them, it indicates that they are trying to find a way to get out of the conversation, and if they are avoiding direct eye contact, it indicates that they are afraid that their lie will be discovered and people will find out.
However, if their eyes are fixed on you and they are likely sincere and interested in talking to you and sharing their thoughts, you can tell by the way their eyebrows move. go down while turning their head away; they may be thinking deeply or worried about something else; if their eyebrows rise and their eyes enlarge, they may be surprised or intrigued by what you say; additionally, observe the size of their pupils, which are the black portion of the eye; if they are larger, it indicates that they like you or that they are happy or excited; if they are smaller, it indicates that they dislike you or that they are uncomfortable or angry; additionally, observe how red or white their eyes are.
The scara is the white portion of the eye; if it is red, it indicates that the person is exhausted, anxious, or ill. They might not want to talk to you. I recall meeting a tired traveler once. During our conversation, his eyes were constantly searching the surroundings, never looking at me. This indicated that he was anxious and wanted to leave quickly. I assumed he might be hiding something, but after asking him more questions, I discovered he had a covert plan. Similar to this, other facial expressions can make it easier for us to decipher someone's thoughts.
Although people occasionally display a variety of behaviors through their faces, if you observe their facial expressions, you can quickly determine whether they are disappointed, very sad, or extremely happy. Their facial expressions can reveal all of these things, even if they are silent. Your majesty, the face is like a picture that depicts what individuals are experiencing on the inside, therefore you must pay attention to these silent indicators if you want to better understand them.
When you see someone with a small sad face and a downturned mouth, it usually indicates that they are unhappy, dissatisfied, or have lost something. You can also tell if they are feeling down by the way they look and their body, but a big, genuine smile that makes their cheeks and eyes pop is a sign of happiness, friendliness, and kindness. very important in this; if they get small and shiny, you can be sure that the smile is genuine.
See how the skin wrinkles between a person's eyebrows; if it gets deeper and tighter, it usually indicates that they are confused or trying to understand something new or difficult. You can tell a lot about a person by the way their mouth looks—a closed, squeezed mouth. A mouth that is open and relaxed indicates that the person is comfortable and willing to communicate.
As you get more adept at recognizing and interpreting these facial expressions, you will be able to determine what individuals are thinking and feeling. Regardless of whether they express their emotions verbally or in private, their features will reveal to you what's on their mind. With your majesty, you can read everything from their face. I'll share a story with you.
I once met a depressed person who came to me for help, but they pretended not to care. However, I noticed a small line on their forehead, which indicated they had a problem. I asked them to tell me about it, and they did, and I helped them. A genuine smile makes the eyes happy too, indicating they are kind and grateful, while a frown causes the eyebrows to drop, indicating they are Concerned or perplexed The blind brother informed the king about the third approach, saying, "Your Majesty," and you can tell how people feel by the way their eyebrows rise when they are shocked or intrigued.
In order to comprehend someone's thoughts, we must be able to read their hand gestures and body language, which constitute a third language. Your Majesty, you may have observed that when someone speaks, they frequently move their hands and make gestures in addition to speaking. Body language is a powerful tool for expressing what someone is thinking. Without using words, the hands and body may communicate a great deal; it's like a covert form of communication. where you may observe people's desires and emotions through the little things they consider when someone taps their fingers quickly during a conversation, it could indicate that they are bored and in a hurry or that they want to end the conversation quickly.
I recall an instance where someone tried to sell me something and made this sign. I knew he was nervous, so I made him give me a better price, and he was shocked. Additionally, when someone crosses their arms, it could mean that they don't like you or that they are keeping their thoughts from you; this way of holding their arms is like a wall keeping their protected from other people's views and feelings When someone leans forward, it may indicate that they are interested in you or what you are saying. If they are paying close attention to what you are saying, it indicates that they are interested and want to hear more. This body language indicates that they want to listen, learn, and comprehend what you are saying.
By observing this sign, you can be kind and cautious when speaking with them and help them feel more at ease and open. I recently met a clever teacher who did this; he was quite composed, but he leaned in with curiosity, demonstrating that he wanted to learn more about the subject. Sometimes, people who frequently touch their faces during conversations can reveal to you what they are pondering, which frequently indicates that they are anxious or have a huge idea.
These small but significant clues, like a quiet book, reveal the thoughts and feelings that are concealed inside them and help you establish a stronger connection. To be good at reading people by their hands and body, you must be patient, pay close attention, and value the things they don't say. We can rapidly determine how much attention someone is paying to our words and what's going on in their mind if we pay attention to these three techniques and comprehend them properly, but first you must You can only pay attention to all of these actions, comprehend them, and realise what's going on in the person's mind if you focus your mind and bring it into the present.
Otherwise, if you are distracted by plans or past events, you won't notice the person's body language or comprehend what's going on in their mind or thoughts. Because their minds are calm and focused, they are able to read you and understand you. This is the main reason why you may have seen many great saints and enlightened beings who look at you with great calm and can tell you what's going on in your mind and what you have learnt from them.
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