How Do You Get Out of a Relationship...
... Even When You Want to Stay With Your Whole Being
If you've never done that, you probably have at least one girlfriend who's been in a toxic relationship. Some women have a relationship at all costs that have no future just for the sake of the man they love.
Well, it's not okay to make sacrifices for someone who doesn't appreciate you and doesn't fight with you to save the relationship.
You don't have to give if you don't get anything in return. Here's how to escape such a toxic connection!
You accept the reality
The first step to getting out of such a relationship is acceptance. You need to understand that he does not feel the same way about you and that you should stay away from the situation as much as possible. You will realize that this man is not worth your effort.
You forget that it hurts
The next step is to forget everything you felt about him. It's not easy, but it's not impossible. Delete messages, pictures together, give up things that remind you of him. That's how you can realize that all that was once beautiful was just empty promises.
Remember what it was like before
You will get over it more easily if you try to remember what it was like before you were together when you didn't have to build all your dreams around it.
You can be happy if you are at peace with yourself, if you trust yourself and if you value yourself. Remember what your wishes and plans were before you were with him, and think about how good it felt to go out with friends, have fun, and not worry.
You have faith that you will find someone else
If it wasn't to be, it means fate has kept you from the wrong person. One day he will send you the man you deserve and who will make you happy the way you want.
We must go through such moments of absolute happiness to know the difference between good and evil. How will you know that he is your man if you did not have examples of "not so"?
Keep remembering that everything happens for a reason
Remember that everything happens for a reason, and a failed relationship can be a life lesson. There is no need to dramatize or suffer for someone who does not deserve you. The right person will bring you peace of mind and will not cause you any inconvenience or disappointment. Learn not to accept anyone in your life.
Talk about how you feel
Whether you choose to go to a psychologist or talk to someone close to you, releasing negative feelings is important. You have to say what you have in mind to be easier. It is not good to keep the suffering in you because it can develop and you will feel worse and worse. Talking to someone else helps to calm the soul and the mind.
You have to be aware that you did everything you could to save that relationship, but sometimes things don't work out. In a relationship, it takes two and partners to have to fight together to build something beautiful and sustainable.
Maybe you still love him and you wanted to be with him all your life, but what good is it if he doesn't want and doesn't love you? Let life surprise you, you will surely receive something beautiful.
Keep yourself occupied
No matter hard things are, keep yourself occupied. Find a new hobby, go out with friends, watch movies...
The worst thing you do is give yourself time to think about the past. Focus on the future instead.

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