Heartfelt Words

　　1. peace of mind, to be happy. Heart if the water, can not hold. Confinement will only deepen its desire for freedom; indulgence will only increase the length of pain. To live happily, you must first give yourself peace of mind. The real peace of mind is not to achieve your wishes, because the sea of desire is boundless, but to be calm. The wall is a thousand feet high, and no desire is just. A calm heart does not count gains and losses, knows how to forgive, and naturally wins a piece of peace. A quiet and happy life, to be exchanged for a quiet heart. 2.

　　2. we often can't help but compare with others, not knowing that comparing with others is meaningless, only comparing with yourself is the most valuable. Your today is better than yesterday, it proves that you have progressed; as long as you are close to your goal, it means you have succeeded. Happiness is a bowl of plain water, which we drink every day. Don't go envy others to drink a variety of colors that may not have us drinking plain water to quench our thirst!

　　3. we always have to see a lot of people who are much better than ourselves in this life. If you see people who are always worse than you, then you have to reflect on whether your state of life is not constantly sinking. If you are in the process of moving forward, you often encounter people who let you look back, then, congratulations ah, you are in constant progress. You will have an inferiority complex, but this inferiority complex can be turned into motivation. 4.

　　4. we have a bad time, many times are in self-deception, always in the fantasy of a distant dream, messing up the footsteps, envious of the happiness of others, ignoring the joy around us. The situation is created by the heart, the wrong direction of the mind, we will lose the opportunity to feel the joy of life for no reason, in the self-cast cage imprisoned in the freedom of thought. At any time, with less scrutiny of others, do not belittle yourself and run your day, this is the most wonderful way to live. 5.

　　5. many times, we live in other people's criticism, often care about the side of the flying short and long, for the inconsequential a word happy, depressed or painful, the nerve to make very sensitive, the body and mind to make very tired, the result of the loss of their own, but nothing to gain. We are living for ourselves, we don't have to be immersed in the words of others, huddled in the shadows of the world outside. If you do not move forward, someone snickers; if you break free, the spring ahead is bright.

　　6. we have natural inertia, always thinking to be able to eat the least pain, and take the shortest detour, to get the most benefit. There are things that others can do for you, but can not feel for you, the lack of this journey, even if you are successful again, the spiritual field is still barren. The joy of success, the satisfaction of the harvest, not at the end of the struggle, but in the process of struggle, so the road you take, to go on their own, others can not replace. 7.

　　7. happiness is a psychological feeling. Knowing how to be happy, and good at happiness is a kind of wisdom, a kind of verve. Pain and pleasure are twin brothers, the difference lies only in your choice. In this complex society, ordinary life is a blessing! People always put the pleasure of life on the affairs of the outside world, attached to the world's approval. Happiness is a kind of feeling, do not know enough will never be happy. There are no absolutely happy people in the world, only a heart that refuses to be happy.

　　In our lifetime, we have to experience many things, and the mind is like a sieve, in the world's ups and downs, slowly some people will be missed. However, the wise, miss only the faults and shortcomings of others, they will not deliberately remember to hate a person but will remember the goodness and kindness of others, and always fill their grateful hearts. A forgiving, atmospheric life will make it easier for us to feel joy and peace.

　　9. you envy others who earn tens of thousands of dollars a month but don't know how hard they work late into the night day and night. You envy the freedom of others to travel around, but you don't know what he gave up for this freedom. Everything has a price, whether it's wealth, career, love, or freedom. Someone else will always be someone else. Other places will always be other places, and when you walk past them, the place you are in now will become your other place again. So there is no need to be envious. Life is not elsewhere, it is here.

　　If we like a person we give our all to each other, giving our time and experience. Some people say that the couple in this life is because in the last life you received his kindness, so the Buddha let you love each other in this life, with each other's life to return each other, if not to forever, only to show that the person who helped you in the last life has not yet appeared! May cherish what each other did for you.

　　11. we once struggled to find happiness, and now we are still holding on as always, not knowing that happiness is all around us, a greeting from a friend, care from a relative, and a gesture from a lover are all representatives of love, so face the world around you with a grateful heart, and bless my family and friends with a sincere heart. Believe in beauty, believe in miracles, believe in hope, believe that the people who love me have never been far away!

　　Sometimes we care too much about the voices in our ears, making indecisive decisions and acting fearfully, eventually tiring out our minds and trapping our spirits. Even if you do a good job, there will be people pointing; even if you are a mess, you can also hear the hymn. The only thing that can save you is yourself, so you don't have to dwell on the judgments of the outside world, don't fall into the eyes of others, and don't have to distort yourself to please the world.

　　 13. if the heart is simple, there is no complicated confusion, so you can see through; life is simple, the goal is clear, and nature can travel far. The more desires, the more pain, and the more happiness will be far away. Only those who know how to moderate their desires can enjoy the real pleasure of life. Only those who know how not to count can enjoy the harmony of left and right. Only those who know how to let go of themselves can enjoy the ease of life.

　　14. friends are valuable to know each other. In the journey of life, some people met but did not come to understand, some people know each other but are too late to promise, some people promise each other but did not come to keep each other, these painful memories, these belong to two people's secrets, will pass away with the departure of the wind, remember that there are people you do not need to be with her every day, as long as she smiles happily, your world will not be black and white!

　　15. we have to learn the sunflower, is a positive absorption of positive energy. Life is not much of a big storm, most of the time life is self-seeking. The so-called self-seeking trouble is the absorption of too much negative energy. To learn about the sunflower, where there is sunshine where. More contact with good people, more talk about healthy and upward topics, and more thinking about the development of life are conducive to the problem. If the heart is full of sunshine, life will become spring rain even if it rains.

　　 16. many times, prefer to be misunderstood, rather than explained. A drop of ink can cloud a cup of water, it is difficult to muddy a river because the heart generously can accommodate; a word can destroy the mood of a moment, and it is difficult to determine a person's life, because the fate in their own hands; an accident, can make the steps heavy, it is difficult to erase the persistent pursuit, because alive, because strong, because of faith. Let your mood fly, let your heart fly free, and let the beautiful world in your own heart!

　　17. people, expensive atmosphere. Some words, just words, do not have to care; some scenery, just scenery, do not have to stay; some mood, but also just mood, not a lifetime. The lower, we must learn to gracefully turn around; get, we must learn to cherish a hundred. The people who understand you, do not need to explain; do not understand you, do not have to explain, and do not deserve to explain. Walk against the sun there is no shadow; smile at yourself everything is smiling. Touch the sea with your heart, the sea is in front of you; touch the world with your heart, the world is in your heart.