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First meeting

What women see in men first

By Seamons MahallPublished 3 years ago 6 min read
First meeting
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Many people say that now is an era of looking at faces.

Undeniably, people with high face value are indeed the very audience, but, face value also does not represent a person's overall external image, only that in all aspects of the conditions OK, face value plays a role of icing on the cake.

Or, to make up for some of the other deficiencies and defects.

Like, we all shout that this is an era of looking at faces, but if a person just has good features, you will not be so wonderfully appreciated and recognized.

So the main thing is only to talk about the outside or look at the overall external image of a person.

The overall external image is made up of many factors and conditions, the five senses are only part of it, but then, men are relatively more superficial, and aesthetic a woman will mainly look at her face.

So women's aesthetic and attention to men, the first look at what is it?

I have a good classmate, listen to her talk, if it is the first time to meet the opposite sex, will not first look at each other's looks, including her female friends around her also have the same order of concern with her.

During the first meeting, women are generally the first to see what the man. Not first look at the face!

First, look at the dress.

Face Value

As the classmate said, it probably means that when a person of the opposite sex appears in front of you, the first thing you will look at is probably what he is wearing, because that is what your eyes can see the most.

Although, it is said that everyone's likes are different.

Some people like to wear a suited gentleman, some people like to wear sportswear casual, but at least the overall dressing is coordinated, does not look so alternative, or directly is not classy, then even the interest in measuring down are not.

As the old saying goes, people rely on clothes, Buddha relies on gold.

Let people look good with the dress, which will give their external image plus points, do not care if you wear a brand name, also do not care what route you take, simple and generous best.

Otherwise, even if your features look good again, can not make up for the bad feeling brought by this aspect.

And human aesthetics will still have the illusion that it is easy to generalize to a series of overall characteristics because of a particular feature, according to the local information they have. Simply put, originally your five senses look good, but she first denied your dress in her heart, then for your five senses evaluation, but also with some prejudice.

Second, then look at health.

Did not expect it! After looking at the dress and then looking at the face is not, but personal hygiene.

Perhaps, this is the problem of human instincts, which tend to avoid harm, like towards the good things close, for some bad, and will have instinctive resistance and rejection.

A man dresses handsomely again, if not pay attention to personal hygiene, or will make women disgusted.

Or, is not even the courage to look at the second look, but also deliberately keep a certain distance from you, as if close, it will be infected to their own body.

Personal hygiene is also reflected in the dressing.

Many men will feel that as long as they have a brand name, they will be able to give their image, in fact, than a brand name, simple and generous, clean overall, to add points.

Otherwise, even if you are wearing expensive clothes, it does not show the value of the clothes.

Then you have to see the shoes, shoes not only represent a person's taste, more proof that a person is not about hygiene. Shoes represent the details, and the details do not lie.

Women will also notice the man's hair, if the oil is very strong, that is an immediate good feeling all.

Third, look at the height again.

How to say? In every woman, there is a fairy tale dream hidden in the heart of every woman, and there is also a little girl hidden in the heart.

They often have very beautiful fantasies about feelings, waiting for the appearance of the prince charming in their hearts, but also often bring the ideal into real life.

Just like once, there is a boy in line with her inner fantasy, she can not help but be attracted to it.

So if a man's height is her ideal type, he will instantly feel good, a moment of infinite reverie for the future, revealing a lovely gesture.

Her classmate said she likes guys between 175-180cm in height.

If a guy is too tall, it looks a little creepy, even if you walk together, it also looks so out of place, resulting in their hearts being also very stressed.

And if you can be in this range, just to be able to meet the woman's fantasy, but also make women feel very secure.

Can not say that height is not important, this is a problem that must be faced squarely, but height is the same as looks, and does not play a decisive role, whether you are too tall or too short, should know that your height can not let everyone accept, but there is always a person who can accept.

Then there is the body, too thin is to make women feel a little weak, naturally no those wonderful fantasies, and if too fat, it will look greasy.

Fourth, after looking at the looks.

Beauty is no standard, if you have to say that there are standards, then the features will be able to count as beautiful.

The main thing is to be able to give people a refreshing feeling, not only so that people look breathless, but do not need too stunning, simple comfort is very fascinating.

Some people have bad skin, a lot of acne on the face, or acne marks, there is also nothing about it! The "exquisite" man will make people feel that the lack of the true color of the man.

Women look at a man's looks, often relying on feeling.

Like many people, for handsome no concept, do not know how to judge, also can not be so professional art to give a series of nouns within the industry to judge.

So in the face without any major deficiencies, the first look at the eye, followed by a sense of comfort.

Some people are chubby and look cute, which happens to be the type that popular women like, while some people are chubby and will look old with a sense of aging.

Making people feel comfortable, is always the best kind of feeling and beauty on earth.

The above is a summary of the four major orders of female aesthetics for men, according to the students.

In heterosexual interactions, the first impression is still very important, if you want to get a woman's appreciation, it is best to know how to package their own merits and amplify their advantages.

Looks and height are natural and unchangeable, what may change is our taste.

These are only talking about the outside, but do not feel that the outside is not important, in the absence of a certain understanding, the outside is your business card, determining whether others have the desire to understand you.

If you first deny your external appearance, then even if you have a noble soul, people are not willing to understand, then it is also in vain.

The world is mundane, many things always escape the vulgar side, but also because of the vulgar, people have a lot of talk and laughter, the world is originally so, with no exceptions to who has.

Many times, only to a person's external judgment, clean and simple looks and height are more important.

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