Face the people who despise you

There will always be all kinds of people in this world, we will deal with different people every day, which some people like us, there are bound to be people who hate us, these are things that can not be avoided, and we are learning a subject in this life, is how to get along with people who do not like us.

Many times a person hates you for no reason, you think you have not offended him, but there will always be some people who will target you everywhere, and always will not give you a good look.

Sometimes even if you try your best to prove yourself, even if you've become very good, but there will always be someone who despises you from the bottom of his heart, contempt for you.

When you are a little younger, it is often difficult to restrain your temper, can't stand the slightest bit of contempt for yourself, can't help but want to have a theory with the other party, or will use the other party to their way back to him.

He said derogatory words, you immediately sarcastic back to him, he talked about you behind your back and people, you do not show weakness, his face damage you, you will not be able to stand, and he decided to argue about it, you do not want to be with such people, but they easily turn you into the most annoying people.

When a person is easily affected by the outside world's voice, there is no way to focus on their inner world, to do well for themselves, how outsiders see you are never important, the key is how you see yourself.

Those who are easily angered by the attitudes of others, in fact, because of the bottom of the heart, will use temper and others to compete, independent and abundant people inside, often not because of the words of others in the heart the fluctuations.

In this world, there will always be people who despise you exist, do not have to turn the other cheek, not to mention put into the heart, the only silence is the best way to respond.

You do not have to care too much about the eyes of others

Life in the world will always encounter some of the surrounding people pointing out, there will always be some good people who like to say a little bit of gossip and like to stand in their perspective on other people to evaluate.

We can not live in isolation, we need to deal with people, which will inevitably live under the discussion of others, what others say is never just from their point of view of the comments made, not at all objective, you do not have to care about the vision of others, and do not have to easily because of others' words and self-doubt.

Many people care too much about the vision of others, the self completely built in the evaluation system of others, easily because of others and shake their own pace of life, so that they live a very unhappy.

Of course, we can not completely block out the voice of the outside world, to properly accept the opinions and comments of others, but not overly important to the words of others, not to be completely swayed by others, thus interfering with their own words and actions.

The words of outsiders are never just a reference, and should not become the key to your dealings.

We all need to know that even if you are good and excellent, there are still people who are not used to you, we can not guarantee to win the likes of all people, if you always take the vision of others into their standards, even if you can please some people, it is impossible to make everyone like you, since there is no way to please all people, then it may be better to do well for yourself, and attract people with your frequency, how others see you, are It does not matter.

Don't win or lose with people who despise you, it's meaningless!

I like the phrase "Ode to Joy" which Q Xiaoping said: often compete with the same good high and low, not with the fool on the short and long.

Sometimes you talk to some people like a chicken and duck general, it is difficult to speak, because they have a certain solid impression of you in their hearts, the heart has identified you as an incompetent person, has despised you, this time you even say more with them, will not change their impression of you, just a waste of words.

Do not have to explain yourself to them, and do not have to fight with those who despise you win or lose, because whether you win or lose, they will have a certain amount of rhetoric waiting for you.

We must have heard such remarks in life, if a person suddenly achieved good results, there will be some sour voices behind the scenes saying "he must be relying on relationships to get to the top", simply unwilling to admit their ability.

Even if you win them, you will only get another comment, it is impossible to shake their evaluation of your past.

We do not need to waste energy and despise our people to prove ourselves above, people's energy is very limited, just to maintain a sincere friend, do what they want to do are no time, do not have to waste time and despise your people to carry out any dealings, pull away, do not take care of it.

Calm down, force yourself to work quietly, jump out of that circle

Sometimes the more incapable people are, the more they will suppress the people around them, and find their sense of existence by fighting others.

The more those who have made certain achievements in a certain field, the more they can maintain a harmonious atmosphere, know how to appreciate each other's strengths, not belittle others, not suppress the same good, learn from each other and grow together.

There are always some people who do not have any skills but like to pull the pedal around the people, mocking others as a kind of fun in their lives, their lives are too idle, only to always focus on others.

Think about those who have something to do, they are not enough to refine themselves every day, they want to break the time in half, and how will have the leisure to pay attention to others?

Many times you have some people around you who like to suppress and pull the pedal, you need to look around your circle, and take a serious look at yourself, is there something wrong with your circle?

Instead of arguing with those who despise you, it is better to be silent, calm, spend time on improving yourself, forcing yourself to work hard silently, jump out of your circle, away from those who despise you, to become a better self, when you stand in their unreachable height, then what you get will only be envious, no more criticism.

You do not have to care about the eyes of others, after all, we are not RMB, how can we let everyone like us?

Life in the world, some people appreciate you, some people like you, some people belittle you, some people mock you, this is a very normal thing, we have no way to make others shut up, mouth grows on them, freedom of speech.

We also do not have to go and argue with them, then argue, argue is the best way.

Silence to face, silently do what you should do, forcing yourself to keep trying to become a better you, so that is the most powerful comeback to those who despise you.