Ex Says I Just Want You To Be Happy (When Your Ex Says You Deserve To Be Happy)

If you've remained in some form of contact with your ex, you might be wondering whether your ex still has feelings for you and perhaps if there's any hope you can get them back. If you're looking for sure signs that your ex wants you back and you have a feeling it's not just wishful thinking on your part, here I've tried to outline a few things that's looking in the green in this department:

#1 Your ex makes an effort to stay in contact.

When your ex consistently puts effort into keeping contact with you, that means they still care about you and think of you on a regular basis. Their interest in your life shows that despite your romantic relationship not working out, they still hold you dear in their heart and wants to keep a close bond with you for the future.

#2 Your ex is still dependable when you're in dire trouble.

If you know your ex will put their life aside to help you if you're in dire trouble, it shows they still deeply care about you and they want you to be able to rely on them. Of course this doesn't mean to say they should come running no matter what you call them for, but as long as its within reason, this is a big sign that despite the break up, they have a soft spot for you.

#3 Your ex talks about you in their future.

If your ex talks about their future and assumes you'll be a natural part role within it, it's a sign they still hold some possibility of having a relationship of you. It might also mean they treasure your friendship and wants to remain friends in the long-run, but chances are good if you can be friends after a break up, you could get back together again also.

#4 Your ex is in no hurry to find someone new.

Not immediately running into the arms of someone new shows a maturity and also a disinterest in relationship altogether for now. This sign by itself won't quite hold up but combined with the few points above it's a pretty good indication your ex still hasn't gotten over you yet. Especially if the opportunity to date has crossed their paths and they showed no interest.

#5 Your ex is obtaining positive habits and changing their perspective.

This is a great sign especially if coupled with a few points above. If they seem generally happy around you and still want to remain close friends, it shows they still want to share their life with you and treasure your relationship dearly. They might subconsciously want to improve themselves to appear in a better light in front of you, but it's not always the case. Nevertheless, if they're happy AND happy being with you, it's a good sign things could develop into more quite easily.

A thing to remember with these signs is that, alone they don't necessarily say a lot, but more of them combined will give a stronger argument of their true feelings for you. Of course it depends on where you want to take this information. On the one hand, if you want your ex back, to really know where you stand, it's best to be upfront and tell them. On the other, if your relationship is fine the way it is, then why ruin it?

Get Your Ex Back and Keep Them Hooked to You Forever

When you fell in love with your now ex, you had never thought that you would ever break up with him/her. Now that has happened, you often wonder how it came to pass after all. There was probably no fault on either side, at least not too serious to cause a break-up.

You consulted your friend, who guessed that probably your lover wanted some space and you were too possessive to allow any. That, according to your friend, was the basic reason, which your lover did not openly admit and devised some pretext to go away.

But then a voice inside you answers: Of course not. You did not stop your lover from reading his favourite book all through night without sparing a few minutes' intimate moments with you.

You did not stop them from watching the TV programs that you did not like. You cooked and served food for your lover that you could not share because you had no taste for it.

You never interfered with his love for sports although you hated them. You can go on counting how liberal you had been in allowing your lover to pursue his interests and hobbies, your dislike for them notwithstanding. How much more space could you give?

But this is your idea of space, not his.

The bitter truth is that he wanted much more 'space' than you were liberal enough to give.

Here is why?

The initial passion that the lovers feel for each other tends to cool down after sometime. This is human nature. Somewhere in your heart you too might have felt the same way, although you do not feel like admitting the same even to yourself. Sameness becomes boring and monotonous over a time.

But here is a subtle yet important difference in the meaning of 'cooling down'. It only means that the desire for sexual relationship starts subsiding. It does not mean that your lover stops loving you at mental or spiritual level.

To explain the point: How often do the mature couples indulge in sex? But still they love and care for each other more than their own life. Over the time, the basic nature of love between even the caring and affectionate couples starts changing. The original sexual love tends to become a kind of fraternal love.

But the sexual urges do not subside especially when you are not yet old. Everybody wants change in routine. This is the law of nature. It is like getting bored with staying at the same place. You wish to go to other interesting place, seasides, mountains, exotic destinations and so on. This is also true that you cannot stay over the exotic and tourist places very long. You tend to feel homesick and come back to your moorings. And when you come back, you love your home all the more than before.

This is true of physical relationships also. This is the 'space' that each partner starts needing after sometime. This is the kind of space which the lovers hate most to allow each other.

Are you ready to allow that kind of space to your ex if they come back to your life once again? This is the kind of liberty which can keep your lover hooked to you forever. He/she will love and care for you all the more for your generosity and understanding.

You just need to fix up the meeting with your ex and show the generosity and assurance of allowing the free space to each other.

It appears to be a very bitter pill to swallow at first thought. But sometimes you have to take bitter pills for long-term benefits.

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