Don’t Worry, This Isn’t Depression 

They have always been, are, and will be. People of a certain type can only show their evil, perverse and unhealthy nature.

Sociologist Elvira Aletta said very correctly and briefly about this phenomenon: "Don't worry and don't be nervous, it's not your fault."

Don't rush to diagnose your depression or low self-esteem. First, look around and see if you are surrounded by hypocrites.

Let's think for a second: how often the behavior of others has influenced your feelings. Disappointment, anger, nerves? How many times have you had to leave the person you loved or break up with your friends because these relationships simply destroyed you?

1. Hypocrites are simply happy in their idiocy

The fact that a man is a true hypocrite does not mean that he is not intelligent. Of course, we all do stupid things sometimes, and no one in the world knows everything. Therefore, you should always start with yourself.

If you don't know anything, admit it honestly. And most importantly, don't start giving "educational readings" to other people about things you don't understand at all.

But with hypocrites, that doesn't work. They like to demonstrate their "knowledge". They reveal their stupidity, and that makes them happy.

2. Hypocrites are loud and hypocritical

Have you ever met at least one shy and silent hypocrite? Certainly not. Because they just don't exist! Most people in this category never want to hear from anyone.

I speak exclusively in high tones, without a trace of embarrassment, and invade your personal space.

And the saddest thing is that they don't even realize it! They fly on the wings of their stupidity, and what others feel, their perverted nature simply is not able to understand.

3. Hypocrites are selfish and wicked

It is impossible to express in words how egocentric they are. For them, other people's feelings, beliefs, achievements do not mean anything. There are simply no such people for them! They will intentionally reduce other people's successes to "bloom and smell" only themselves.

But if we understand that these people are just hypocrites, why are we depressed?

Why is there despair and a sense of despair after communicating with them?

What is certain is that when we are in contact with such people, our self-esteem suffers for a long time. In the end, our parents taught us to be well-educated and kind, to behave well, to listen to other people's opinions. And we were sure that in response, other people would behave in the same way.

By the way, good people are quite patient, they are not easy to get upset. Unfortunately, they are inclined to observe in others, only the good. This is a quality that hypocrites take full advantage of.

Their behavior makes us feel stupid. But not because we are not smart enough or insecure enough. But because we are too kind and decent!

Regular "communication" with hypocrites, over time, destroys self-esteem. We feel sadness, frustration, and despair. Such constant emotional abuse makes you depressed.

So how do you get rid of hypocrites?

We will be honest. It is enough to really look at the situation, to realize that we are dealing with a real hypocrite, and self-confidence will return instantly.

But you have to get rid of them as soon as possible! For starters, try to spend as little time together as possible. Limit direct contact to a minimum.

Of course, this is not so easy when you spend all day at the office with hypocrites and you have to work with them. But this is not fatal either! Think of yourself first and act exclusively to make you feel good.

Now that you know how to recognize a hypocrite out of a lot of normal people, it's time to get rid of doubts and complexes. Get rid of the influence of hypocrites and live happily ever after!