"Don't think I'm a virgin? What gives you the right!

With the changes in modern society and the openness of people's minds, there is a lot of "premarital sex", "premarital cohabitation" and other phenomena that occur. On the one hand, this phenomenon is more and more common, on the other hand, there are some people "who criticism" and "reprimand" this phenomenon.

She is a college girl, and the boy chasing her said he could not guarantee that he would marry her in the future, what should she do? Should she be angry or should she thank him for his honesty and accept him?

What a girl needs most is to feel safe! You love each other now, he said so, huh ~ he simply does not have expectations and confidence in your future, then he can not fight for it! Think of this age, should be struggling for love, huh think about it! But his honesty does have merit, I believe you know him best as a person, is he the one responsible? hehe

"Too I am not a virgin? What do you have!" The girl angrily rebuked her fiancé, how should the man reply?

"I'm not a virgin? Who are you?" The girl angrily rebuked her fiancé

Just under the arrangement of her mother, Ally met her matchmaking partner. About this meeting, the two sides are quite satisfied, the other party is a career unit, good-looking people, and the young man looked quite honest, and motivated, not the kind of flowery words.

So she thought and each other to try for a while, and after a few months, the two are also very happy to talk. And both sides have met their parents, and both sides are quite satisfied, the nail in the coffin, waiting to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register the matter. The three views are also similar, and the temperament is also quite suitable, but just a few months before the wedding, the man raised a question to ask Ali.

"Lili ah, there is a problem I have held in my heart for a long time, are you living with your ex-boyfriend?" Hearing this question, Lili's heart still hurts a little, before him, he did talk about a boyfriend and a full five years of talk. From college to work, and their ex-boyfriend, it is also true that the goal of marriage is to go, but after graduation or separation for various reasons.

Hearing the other party's question, Ally also did not think to hide: "Yes, before you, I had another boyfriend, I hope you do not care." "I'm happy that you can be honest with me, I will not take it to heart" Hearing this, Ally can feel the other party's emotional changes, but also did not take it to heart, thinking that in the future, as long as you can love each other well, the two can be together on the good.

But I did not expect, after this incident, this man seems to be a different person. Not as good as before to Ali, and in a drunken quarrel between two people, the other side directly said a sentence: "You are not the first time, why should I be good to you? I've never had a girlfriend, I'm an honest man, a receiver!"

The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into. But did not expect that this in turn is the man in front of you, the excuse for their bad. Desperate, Manly resolutely put forward a breakup, the man sobered up, about how to salvage the relationship can not be salvaged.

See here, also let a lot of people have fallen into deep thought. And also randomly asked some male netizens, theif y can accept their girlfriend is not a virgin. A part of some netizens said that they can not accept, they want to occupy the complete girlfriend, and it is impossible to accept.

But there is also a part of the opposite attitude: "Instead of caring about her past, I look forward to a future with her. Every girl has the right to be loved, even if it's not her first time, shouldn't she be cherished?"

The truth is that some girls are simply "indifferent" to the matter of living together, thinking that it is "your wish", there is nothing to make a fuss about. Some girls are also "confused" for a moment by the "sweet talk" deceived so that after the breakup is very regretful and sad, for their own wrong choice, should not be cherished.

See this answer, can not help but be very moved, instead of caring about the past we look forward to the future with her (him). But even so, here I still want to caution the majority of women, self-respect and self-love must be responsible for themselves. About the "sex" thing, must understand these points: 1.

1. hold responsible for their attitude, must wait until the time is ripe

2. In the attitude of responsibility for the future, must do safety measures

3. I hope that girls should respect and love themselves, and not easily entrust their bodies and minds to hand over at will

4. maintain a peaceful state of mind, no matter how they deserve to be loved

I also hope that each male, can take care of their girls since they are ready to accompany her for life to old age, it is responsible for each other to the end! I hope that each girl who has self-respect and self-love will not easily give their body and mind, freely to a person who does not deserve it. Because a boyfriend or girlfriend does not cherish you, it is not worth paying a cent for each other.

Both boys and girls are the same, only self-respect and self-love will get the respect of others, only know how to "self-love" to get the love of others. Otherwise, it is easy to be labeled as "immodest" and "not self-love". Finally, I hope that everyone can get happiness, and I hope that every pair of true love can be long-lasting.

Do you dislike each other as not a virgin? What do you think about this matter?