Don’t Let a Fake Girlfriend Ruin Your Marriage or Love Affair!

To be happy in life, you must avoid harmful friendships with people who are false and cunning. Friendships between women often become complicated because of envy that can never be cured. Aristotle said that "envy is a kind of sorrow for the happiness that our equals seem to enjoy."

In women, envy is like a secret desire or a habit to compare with another, to covet what his girlfriend has. It is a kind of jealousy, this negative feeling of disappointment will start in principle with a comparison, with a regret that another woman may be happier.

In general, women who are beautiful and well-groomed have toxic friendships with other women, or they may be the target of female envy. A woman with many qualities will be able to have a true friendship only with a woman who is on the same level as her, who trusts her and leads a decent life, of which she is proud and satisfied.

A smart and accomplished person will appreciate another person's qualities and will not be jealous of that person. A woman who doesn't trust her can become envious of another woman she thinks is richer, more beautiful, smarter, more successful, she can be a friend, a colleague, a neighbor, or an acquaintance.

Why is it good to beware of gossiping women? A gossipy friend will always have something to say about you, even if she claims to be your girlfriend. He will never be able to keep it a secret no matter who it is. If you make the mistake of trusting her, telling her something, and asking her to keep it a secret, it will be in vain.

It will soon be disclosed to relatives, acquaintances, various people you know and who may have nothing to do with your life. If you say something about your husband, he will surely find out, she will find a way to inform him to impress him somehow and attract his attention. It's very easy to get rid of such a friend: you avoid her, don't answer her phone, and end your friendship with her.

Remember that when you confess to a friend like this and tell her some secrets, you are wrong because you become vulnerable, you become a person who can be easily hurt and criticized, and this sensitive part of you will be speculated by your "girlfriend". Think twice before telling a secret or something about your life!

A gossipy friend will gossip about you too, she won't keep any of your secrets, you can be sure of that and that's why it's good to be careful in the future!

One type of girlfriend to avoid is the competitive one, who doesn't enjoy your accomplishments and can't congratulate you when you're successful, no matter what. She is always envious and tries to turn any aspect of your life into a competition.

Friendship is understood by her as a competition, as a contest between you and her, she sees you as an opponent and can even reach a pathological state of seeing you as an "enemy". Such a friend wants to benefit from everything you have, to surpass you, and of course, if possible, to ruin your marriage, to conquer your husband.

Pay close attention to such a friend! It will be just a rivalry between you and her, she will only enjoy your troubles and all her victories. Which is the solution? You can get rid of such a diplomatic friend, avoid her, treat her with indifference and end your friendship with her.

Envy has no logic and leads to the formation of a habit of criticism. If you notice that you have a girlfriend who always criticizes you and enjoys it, it is clear that you have a friendly relationship with her without empathy and mutual support.

Such a friend is attached to every word you say, to everything you do, contradicts you all the time, does not praise you for anything, and in addition has a tendency to make mischievous remarks to hurt you. If he criticizes you in the face, it is clear that he criticizes you in other people as well.

She may even criticize your mutual friends or your husband. She's glad to see you on the defensive, to see you arguing with your husband, and she'd be happy to ruin your love affair. Such a toxic friendship must be ended, otherwise, you will end up feeling tired, losing energy because it is difficult to cope with an unpleasant conversation with her and ruthless criticism.

Studies show that the number of divorces has increased in the last ten years and this problem is still growing due to infidelity. It often happens that the reason for the divorce is the fact that the husband left his wife and left with her girlfriend.

It all started with frequent meetings with friends, where a "girlfriend" who is attracted to another's husband also participates. A first sign that this is the case may be a simple "weird" smile that accompanies the two's frequent blinks.

The wife who notices such smiles at her husband and her "girlfriend" must know that this is an important signal to consider. Her husband may be sexually interested in her girlfriend and vice versa, she may find this if she notices simple body language gestures that are clear.

A man's sexual interest can be detected by the following gestures:

• running your hands through your hair

• touching the neck with the palm

• long glances with meaning

• deep breathing and swelling of the chest

• holding hands on hips

the tendency to arrange his hair, the collar of his shirt, or to pick up the lint on his coat.

In women, sexual interest is betrayed by other gestures, namely:

• looking over his shoulder at the man

• insistent glances at him

• it is played with earrings or beads around the neck

• he stretches out his leg and puts on his shoe

• she looked at the man's mouth

• he licks his lips

• he lowers his head slightly and looks sideways at the male

• he admires his fingers and nails

• he keeps his legs crossed

• he plays with the glass

• she arranges her clothes

• he always runs his fingers through his hair

• he arches his chest to make it stand out.

Pay close attention to such people who call themselves "friends" because there are enough signs to admit that they are false, you just have to look at them very carefully, and it is good to avoid them!