Do you need to consult an emotional specialist if you have emotional problems?

✨(1) How to pursue a person There are absolutely no shortage of technical posts for the pursuit of male gods/goddesses on Zhihu, and some even have some dark and dark strategy posts. However, in the relationship, the most important point, please remember - you If it blooms, butterflies will come. If you are not worthy of the other party or worthy of the other party's love at all, even if you try your best, you still can't get the other party's eyes. ✨(2) I choose the person with the A condition or the person with the B condition. Generally, people who ask this kind of question often have no choice between A and B. Therefore, instead of choosing A or B here, it is better to spend some time Take the time and energy to improve yourself, so that you are qualified to stand by A and B, whether from the inside, the outside, or from your economic status. When you are worthy of both A and B, you won't struggle so much at all - you will completely follow your heart, choose whoever you like more, or choose neither, but choose better C. ✨(3) Does this person like me or not? When you ask this question, it actually means that he doesn't like you. why? If a guy likes you, he will definitely let you know that he likes you. If you don't feel good from him, either he doesn't like you at all; or, he is extremely inferior and thinks he is not worthy of you at all, so he dare not let you know that he likes you, and the person who is extremely inferior, Believe me, with such a person, you will be very tired, so don't worry about it, find a confident and sunny person who likes you and have a good life. ✨(4) I feel that this person is not paying as much as me, should I choose to continue to be with this person? There are not so many gains and losses in a relationship. Since you are already with this person, you should work hard with each other and give to each other. If you are so good at calculating, you might as well go to the vegetable market to bargain with the aunt who sells vegetables. People who like to calculate the gains and losses too much are not suitable for discussing feelings. ✨(5) How to tell him implicitly that I like him and then tell him boldly! If you really don't have the courage to tell him directly and insist on being subtle, then you should be yourself and let him like you. (6) When asked "Why are you still single now?" "I'm happy, it's none of your business!" Of course, we have to be polite and cultivated. For example, in order to persuade the old mother who urged him to get married not to worry about his marriage, Mr. Wu Zhihong prepared his lines very seriously: on the first day and the second day, whenever he had time, he went to talk to the old mother: , I understand that you care about my marriage, I understand your anxiety and anxiety, I can understand you very much, and I thank you for your care and love for me. However, I also have my own thoughts. My thoughts are... balabala... Two days ago, the old mother was very happy: my son is willing to talk to me, really happy. On the third and fourth days, the old mother continued to listen to Mr. Wu Zhihong explain to him, feeling that what he said was very reasonable, but she could not refute it. On the fifth and sixth days, the old mother saw that Mr. Wu was going to talk to herself again, and it was too late to hide~ From then on, the old mother never asked questions like "When are you getting married?" Say "it's better to get married". ✨(7) Is it better to fall in love at first sight or be born over a long period of time, trust me, love at first sight is not reliable. ✨(8) It is too easy for him to get me, will he not cherish me? If you are valuable, even if you are together soon, he will always cherish you; if you are not valuable, even if you play hard-to-play with him for three years, he will still easily kick you. ✨(9) Am I getting a spare tire? When you have the feeling of being spared, congratulations, that's how it is, no doubt.