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Dealing with long distance love: Tips and tricks

It is hard but not imposible.

By Anders GonzalezPublished 3 years ago 4 min read
Dealing with long distance love: Tips and tricks
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Are you in a long-distance relationship? It can be a tricky situation to navigate, but it can also be incredibly rewarding. In this blog post, we will discuss some tips and tricks for dealing with long-distance love. We'll cover topics such as staying connected, handling jealousy, and maintaining trust. With the right approach, you can make sure that your long-distance relationship is a successful and fulfilling one. So let's get started!

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Communication is key

When it comes to maintaining a long distance relationship, communication is one of the most important aspects to focus on. Having an open line of communication with your partner is essential in order to make sure you are both on the same page and understand each other's needs. It's important to make sure you both feel heard and understood and that your expectations for the relationship are being met.

The key to successful communication is setting aside regular time for meaningful conversations. Whether it's through phone calls, texts, or video calls, find times that work for both of you when you can have real conversations about what is going on in your lives, your thoughts and feelings, and any other topics that may come up. Make sure not to forget about the small talk too - just talking about everyday life can help keep the connection alive.

If you need help getting started, come up with conversation topics ahead of time so you have something to talk about, like sharing stories about your day, sharing a favorite memory or story from the past, or even just telling each other what you're looking forward to. If you're feeling stuck, there are also plenty of online resources that offer interesting conversation starters.

It's also important to be honest and open with your partner about how you're feeling. Letting them know how much you miss them and how hard it is to be apart will show them that you care and want to make the most out of your long distance relationship.

Set some ground rules

When it comes to long distance relationships, setting some ground rules can be extremely beneficial. When it comes to communication, make sure you both agree on the frequency and type of communication (texts, calls, video chats, etc.). Set boundaries around the communication, such as no communicating after a certain time or for a certain length of time. This way, you won't find yourself too emotionally drained from talking with your partner all night long.

You should also establish some rules about how you handle issues that may come up in your relationship. For example, if there's a disagreement, do you both agree to talk it out until it's resolved or are you okay with taking a break? You may also want to talk about whether or not you're allowed to talk to other people while you're in a long distance relationship.

It can also be helpful to set expectations for when you will see each other. While this isn't always possible, it can help you both stay connected and look forward to the next time you'll be together. Setting some ground rules can help you both feel secure in the relationship and ensure that you are both on the same page.

Have patience

Long distance relationships can be tough, and one of the most important qualities to have is patience. It's important to remember that both partners need time and space to work out their own lives. Trying to rush into things or get too impatient could lead to problems. Feelings of loneliness, frustration and anxiety are common in long distance relationships, but with a lot of patience, you can make it work.

To help manage expectations, it's important to talk about the frequency of contact that you both feel comfortable with. Letting your partner know when they should expect to hear from you, or asking them when they would like to hear from you, is a great way to manage expectations and prevent any misunderstandings.

It's also important to recognize that there may be times when you or your partner can't reach out as often as you'd like. Don't take it personally, and remember that it doesn't mean your relationship is any less strong.

Above all, communication is key. Keep open lines of communication and be honest about how you're feeling. With patience, understanding, and open communication, you'll find that a long distance relationship can still be strong and meaningful.

Invest in your relationship

When it comes to long distance relationships, the commitment to investing in your relationship is key. While physical distance may make it difficult to spend time together, you can still put in the effort to ensure your relationship is strong. Here are some tips for investing in your relationship:

• Send thoughtful gifts. A surprise package from you can go a long way in letting your partner know how much you care about them. It also helps to keep the relationship feeling special and unique.

• Set up video dates. With the advancement of technology, you can still stay connected through video calls. Schedule weekly video dates and talk about anything and everything to ensure that you two stay close.

• Plan trips. Making plans for when you two can be together again is a great way to keep the spark alive. Even if it's months away, planning a future trip to see each other gives you something to look forward to.

• Send meaningful messages. Even if it's just a few words or a photo, sending small messages throughout the day helps keep your connection alive.

Long distance relationships may require more effort and time, but the rewards are worth it. Investing in your relationship ensures that you two will remain close despite the physical distance.

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