Communication Is The Real Key

Nothing is better for morale than a "gossip" about light or more serious topics. Talking about our worries, our pains, and worries, we get rid of our nervous tension. There is only one condition imposed on this pleasure that costs us nothing: you must choose your interlocutor well!

Practical tips for gossip

In the family: Say what you have in mind!

In the family, while some discuss the health of children and grandparents, others change recipes or address topics such as where to spend your vacation. Everyone refuses to engage in serious discussion. The distance can lead to broken family ties.

A kind of modesty is installed and it can no longer communicate automatically. However, these meetings must rekindle the feeling of belonging to a family. Do not hesitate to go to the kitchen to talk quietly, away from the group.

What to talk about with your sister-in-law?

Do you think she's upset? Gently approach this topic as you discuss it with a friend. Tell her you to feel tired or sad. No doubt she is just waiting for a sign to start the confession.

Talk to your mother-in-law!

Does it bother you because she's trying to ruin everything? Does it bother you that she "allows" himself to give education lessons to your children? Try to calmly explain how you feel without "boycotting" family reunions. Adults and intelligent people accept contradictory discussions, suggestions, reproaches if they are tactfully expressed.

With the children…

Yes, they did their homework, they prepared their backpacks for the next day at school. Yes, they brushed their hands and teeth. If you stopped by the interrogation to tell them what you did at work?

Kids love to gossip. In these moments they talk about what worries them: "Sarah doesn't want to be my friend anymore!" or "I have emotions before the contest!" Start the conversation at the right time, take advantage of privacy and family rest, of course, provided the TV is turned off.

As a couple: Dialogue strengthens the relationship

When two lovers spend an afternoon together without communicating (each one is busy with something else, they have work to do), they appreciate each other's company. But when they spend a lot of time without communicating and they don't have any serious business, it's a problem.

Some people only open their mouths to convey concrete information. But a couple needs to give time to dialogue. Does your partner not participate in discussions? He is accustomed to your uncontrollable lust.

Silence worries him and makes him react. "You were talking, you have nothing to tell me, you have nothing to reproach me with?" Maybe you should still talk It's a problem…

In bed…

Feel the need to talk… Why not? Have expectations, tell your partner. Say clearly what you want. Sexologists believe that in bed women talk - the top! - Too little with your partner. Try to be open! You will see that it was worth the effort.

In everyday life

Do you have to reproach a friend? Do not hesitate. Speak calmly, motivate your statements and listen to his arguments. Avoid raising your voice.

With the outside

Always make new friends. Good communication allows you to get to know many people. Talk for five minutes with the lady at the post office or the lady at the supermarket.

Are you afraid to ask the young woman next to you where she bought her beautiful skirt that you are thinking about? Talk, talk. As children, we were much more spontaneous. Too bad we lose this when we become adults.

With friends

The partners complain about the long conversations that women have on the phone with their friends. Plus they have acidic comments when the bill comes on the phone… They often wonder what women are talking about for hours on end.

Communication helps us to overcome our problems, realizing that others are also facing problems. In order not to have a couple of discussions, shorten the phone conversations without taking your friends away. Meet and talk quietly, face to face whenever time allows.

At the office

The statement "Communication is a means of defense against stress", we hear more and more often lately. Information circulates among colleagues, even when we do not want it. Whether we are addressing issues such as new meal vouchers, or whether we are talking about the need to change accounting or move to a larger location, in all cases it is a matter of communication.

Try not to gossip in the wrong sense of the word. In such a case, communication does not bring anything good and may even be responsible for unnecessary conflicts. Avoid criticism and malice and be less grumpy!

With the bosses

An extra task, a problem file, a salary increase…! Request a meeting with your boss and talk openly. You need to present your opinions, worries and maybe you will get help.

Act the same way when you have a personal problem. Sincerity and common sense are appreciated by a responsible boss. Don't forget to thank me at the end of the conversation for taking the time and listening to you.