Cheated on by a narcissist

it is not your fault…

The other half will constantly try to make you feel guilty about a mistake they’ve made

that your coldness, behavior or slightese mistake is the reason they cheated on you

It’s not ... cheating is a choice

it only reflects their lack of self confidence and empathy. If it were the other way around , would you do it?

I’ve been neglected emotionally for years , but I’ve e never thought about cheating.

Each time we had a fight I would’ve reconsider my actions and try to behave better…

Narcissist will seek validation throughout other’s , and if you can no longer provide that they will replace you as fast a they can…

I was in a relationship for eight years; i moved to another country with my new husband, i had no friends no family…

A year after the marriage my husband introduced us to his friend and wife, who are our naibors

His behaviour changed…he no longer do activities with me ,i was replaced by this new friends … and i am not the attention seeking type, i have my own intrest so i didnt bother him

But some of his actions were suspicious … and he always gets mad if i cretics anything related to his friends wife

Always trust your senses

I was told that i was crazy, jelous, or hates his friends ; as a way to referse his own mistakes and make me feel bad for even talking to him about it

It was emotional manipulation, and i was exhausted

At the end, i gave up and avoided talking to him about what i sense or feel for the sake of my peace of mind

I was emotionally neglected for years , and its not natural trust me…

I thought i was too emotionally demanding and men are not the same but guess what!

Whatever you need in your relationship he needs it too, as long as you are not receiving love and attention, means that he is focusing them on someone else…

I was on a verge of getting divorced when one day I discovered by surprise conversation between his best friends wife and him ; sexual talk dates etc…

I would lie if i said i was surprised.. the weirdest thing that i was happy … iam not crazy i was right from the beginning

How low could you be to cheat on your best friend.. I took screenshots and send them to his friend

I promised myself that am not the one paying for their mistake .sad enough, I’ve wasted living my life with a controlling narcissist

The day i exposed them to that man it was the best feeling , revenge is indeed sweet

I was so hesitant to do it … because he is a good man i felt pity for him and his kids. But if i were him I would like to know that I’ve been living a lie my whole life

My husband scensed the change in his friends behavior snd came to threat me; that if i expose him i will suffer consequences

I am not afraid anymore… it took me years but, i know that his angery words are because he is helpless and weak

A narcissist doesn’t have the emotional capacity to love … not you, not her , not anybody

He is around as long as you satisfy his needs or do him favors

He doesn’t trust you, because he himself is not worthy of trust… he views other throughout himself

Narcissists behavior is just a mirror of how they feel about themselves

So be brave…. Walk away from toxic people… you are strong