But wait! Being a 'bit of a shit' is a game Everyone can play! Not just men! It only happens VERY rarely,

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I have a little issue of being a straight man that finds it hard not to feel bigoted against other straight men....

Causing an irrational logic loop within me of self-hatred.

(This was caused by a 'genetic father' beating mom thang.... and seeing many other big scary, hairy, macho men harming people when I was just a child) - Yes, I know it's stupid of me - but the main defining point of mental illness is irrationality!)

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This is not a unique pathology...

In my research on trying to navigate this issue,

I have come across other similar but different cases - Such as, for example, people hating themselves due to their own ethnicity and skin colour.

Or women hating themselves and other women for being female.

Including once case of a young Jewish man becoming a violent nazi antisemite.

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I have not found a "cure" for myself yet, for my irrational hate of my own sexuality and gender, and myself because of it - but I am working on it.

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But wait! Being a 'bit of a shit' is a game Everyone can play! Not just men!

It only happens VERY rarely,

But once in a blue moon a woman can be shockingly nasty

- IF Rejected! -

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By Ross E F Lombardi

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I am pretty dam vocal about my criticism of my own gender,

And how I fully understand - that men are largely the "Bad Guys".

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But wait!

Being a 'bit of a shit' is a game Everyone can play!

Not just men!

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It only happens VERY rarely,

But once in a blue moon a woman can be shockingly nasty to!

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And usually this sort of behaviour is restricted to a certain minority of conventionally "attractive women".

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Some Attractive women.

Not all,

Only those Who hang Their entire identity on thier looks.

Are horrendous when you reject them!

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Not just a bit,

but really, Really, REALLY epicly Totally nut job, psychoticly horrendous!

- They just can not psychologically cope with an average-looking single man rejecting them.

(Largely because most men are dogs and don't say "no" when they should)

This type of rejected woman's whole world suddenly falls apart!

As it dismantles and undermines their whole self-given value.

They become traumatised.

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They start screaming, shouting, and going to extremes to justify why they were rejected.

They will claim and say anything to rewrite the history of what just happened!

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They can not understand that...

- Not all men are obsessed with mere sexiness!

- Some of us (although I admit not as many as there should be) - Actually find things like ethics, integrity and values far more sexy than just a nice body and a slinky dress.

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Some of us, when we make a connection (although, again, I admit not as many as there should be) would never cheat and are iron-clad, unseducable!

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It is inconceivable to some women that,

Maybe he said "No", Not because you are not attractive and sexy,

Because you ARE both attractive and sexy - no one said you weren't!

Maybe he said "No" because he loves his wife!

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Some of us are masters of our dicks

- and not slaves to our dicks!

Yes, - We DO Exist!

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To be clear!

This only happens super rarely!

As Normal woman, or any 'hot woman' with more than just mere looks, would never act like a male incel to a polite rejection.

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But mostly this happens so rarely,

Because to many men are a bit shit at saying "No" even when they are married!

So, a certain type of woman never got used to it and, therefore, never developed the normal, everyday mature adult coping strategies of being rejected in the first place!

- - So at the end of the day, it comes down to being my gender's fault again!

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