Attractive women

Love can be said to be the purest and most beautiful, the greatest existence in this pale world, even Napoleon said "you do not see me bent on conquering the whole world, but I was conquered by love first", so we can see the "power" of love.

But the same love, everyone's love is different, especially after the washout of time love, always reveals their end.

Some women love to love on the worry, constantly want to confirm their position in each other's hearts, and finally make men tired and bored, and finally become the "mosquito blood".

And some women have been able to keep the man's enthusiasm for their own, never leave, always the same, until old age is still the "vermilion mole" in the heart of men.

Men are "addicted to you for life", what does it mean?

01), love in the "addiction", that is, can not be extricated, there is no escape; and if the "addiction for life", it is this life, regardless of the sea, the sun, and the moon, you will always be his irreplaceable.

The industrial age, the information age in improving people's standard of living, but also began to lead to materialistic flooding, desire, that "only enough to love one person in a lifetime", the slow era of love as faith is gone.

It is also in this era if there is still a man willing to promise you a lifetime, will love you as the faith of this life.

Then you will have the most precious love in the world, and you can even say - you will be happy for a lifetime.

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Her cleverness and flexibility, and defiance for love made Ciao Feng deeply infatuated, and more importantly, she died under his palm to make him enlightened and let go of his martial arts grudges - and this, too, made Ah Zhou eternal in Ciao Feng's heart.

In the future, there is always A Z to him to love and care for, but Ciao Feng never hearts; because his heart is only A Zhou, "A Zhou is A Zhou. The four seas, a thousand generations, there is only one Ah Zhou." There is no more room for any other woman.

Unfortunately, the times are wrong, the times are difficult, if Ah Zhou is alive, they will be able to go to the "cattle and sheep on the cattle" of the appointment, blandly together for life.

So, can make men "addicted" to a lifetime of women, what are the common denominators?

A sober view of love: can love to the bone, can also turn around at any time

Smart women know that "loyalty to love is not the same as obsessed with love, not to say that life is to love", they love, brave and sensible, do not love when it is also dry and decisive, and do not drag the water.

For men, it is precisely this kind of woman most charming.

Zhou Wen jun and Siam Xinjiang's love can be said to be poignant and moving.

In the beginning, for the sake of the beloved, widowed Zhou Wen jun defied her father's obstruction and public pressure, determined to elope with Siam Xinjiang, and willing to live a life of poverty.

But later, when Siam Xinjiang had other thoughts and wanted to leave Wen jun, Zhou Wen jun responded unambiguously to her husband's change of heart with a "Farewell Letter": "Whitehead chanting, sad to part, try hard to add meals, don't miss my concubine, brocade water soup, long farewell with you!

This is a woman who dared to love and hate, even today she is a frank and bold woman.

The irony is that it was Zhou Wezen's courage and determination in love that once again brought Siam Xinjiang back to her side.

This is because the need to spend a lot of effort to maintain things is always worthy of preference; the same, a woman can love to the bone but also can turn away at any time, more men feel a sense of crisis, thus more stimulating men's desire to conquer.

Second, do not cater to the non-dependent, do a personality independent, come and go freely woman

A woman can not be beautiful, can not be cute, but not without their ideas.

Men do have a primitive desire to conquer and are more likely to soft and docile women, but too docile women will only let men stay for a short time; what really can make men "addicted" for life are those who have an independent personality, never attached to anyone woman.

After her marriage to Ian Zhengzhou, she kept her habit of reading and working, and even when she was pregnant, she kept her passion for reading and writing.

Ian Zhengzhou called her "the most talented woman, the most virtuous wife", and I think this should be the evaluation that countless women are eager to get.

As Zhou Groping said, "If a person has a persistent self, he will have spiritual coordinates in this world, and will be able to find his way home no matter how far he walks."

A woman should be herself first, then a wife, mother, and other roles, not only love, all things can not deprive a woman of the right to be herself.

And it is this proud and independent spirit, not dependent on external objects of personality, to make a woman more and more charming glow, the more men are attracted to their dreams, fascinated for life.

Third, always have a good heart, gentle and calm

(01), a woman who can make men always think about the heart, can not let go, she does not necessarily look beautiful and delicate, and not slender; but she must be elegant like an orchid woman, fragrant but not strong, giving people a sense of gentleness and calm.

In addition to her independent personality, Yang Jiang was also an extremely calm and kind woman.

Her husband, Ian Zhengzhou, was like an overgrown child who always liked to get into little trouble.

Every time he broke something, he would rush to Yang Jiang to tell him, and every time Yang Jiang would just gently reassure him and say, "It's okay, I can take care of it.

Therefore, Ian Zhengzhou was very much dependent on Yang Jiang, in addition to being very fond of her.

He knew that as long as Yang Jiang was there, all problems were just minor incidents.

02), similarly, confident women, even if they see the man they loved fall in love with Zen Hun, her heart even though there is sourness, never resentment, is how calm atmosphere ah.

It is their kindness towards human nature and their calmness towards life that finally let them harvest the heart of their beloved man - a heart of unswerving sincerity.

"Every woman should be a brocade, the flower of her personality makes her unique." And what can make men addicted for life is precisely this unique, independent personality, the strong and calm woman inside.