ART OF SPEAKING

Communication is a key to delivers your emotions and expression to others . According to the Definition " A process by which information is exchanged between individuals through a common system of symbols, words ,signs, or behavior is called Communication.

we are humans and we are part of social life . we can not disparate yourselves from the society. We needs words , " GOOD words " .Have you ever notice a person who is standing road side and homeless and usually beg for money ? A person who works in the office ? or a person who is admired star or a leader .

lets not confuse you . What about Adolf Hitler ? Hitler had a great power in his words , he know very well how to speak ,what word he must to use and what can turn the mind of people with him . Usually people says that he is the great mind washer in the history of politics ,but this line leads us to the another truth also That " He is the best speaker ."

his speech left an impact to the listeners . According to the sources only 1500 people came in his first speech . He gave total 1525 speech in his career .

So can words left impact ? yes no doubt . you should learn and observe what suits on you . Play with Good choice of words , smile ,hand gesture and good manner .

How to greet

Greet is the commence part . lets begin with a mini smile .(you can practice with mirror ) Good morning /good evening/hello/hi/good to see you/ pleasure to meet you ./nice to meet you /i am just thinking about you /

Art of compliment

Its a fact that human like compliments , even the complimented words stay longer in our mind . Be nice to others even you don't like them . You look nice today/ your eyes are so shiny/ you smell so fresh/you have lovely smile /i appreciate your time and effort . Try to at least one compliment in your conversation.

Mark your words

To becoming a good speaker you must listen first , This is important too . you should gave others a first chance to speak so then they can complete their words after that try to speak clear and soft , so many people are having harsh and us not so clear words . Try to gave pose between words .use smile and eyes expression too . use "ok so i think you guys should rethink on my opinion /you are correct but let me give a chance / you guys are so kind towards me always and i know you gave this chance to me / i am very strong with my opinion .Try to impress other with just word choose good words from your dictionary .Remember don't try to put the butter in conversation be clear and impressive with your personality.

Public speaking

We are very much familiar and comfortable with the unformal conversation ,we face problem with the public speaking .Among the students/on college stage /in a office meeting/ in gettogether parties / .

If you are a learner try these things .

Be prepare- It sounds so technical but this is effective . Trust to yourself and prepare in front of the mirror and then perform in front of your friends .

Take criticism- when we try something new with all heart we accept only appraisal but the reality is not so acceptable , same we have to be ready for the criticism and harsh comments.

Eye contact -Make eye contact with everyone .Don't look at only one person that can create embarrassing moment for you . look at the crowd or any center object pass smile then perform .Try to be comfortable in your space .