Are Distance Relationships, Possible or Not?

Many of those who form a couple or a family has to leave their home to work in the province or abroad. When there is love, the physical distances disappear. Some so many people continue to love each other by phone, email, or letters!

Nobody says it's easy to stay away from your loved one. Usually, these physical separations create optimal conditions for the appearance of doubt, jealousy… However, many couples come out victorious from this attempt. Let's take the good side of things and think that this experience can show us another facet of love between two people, like a catharsis, a purifying fire that clears their feelings.

Strengths that I never suspected!

One of the first advantages of a woman left in temporary solitude is that she can enrich her social life. Now he can dedicate himself to relatives and friends. Couples of this millennium care a lot about their identity. The emotions generated by seeing your loved one again, after a long wait, bring us other strengths.

Lovers are tempted to surprise themselves unprepared, to perpetuate the magic of the beginnings, and to rekindle the fire of passion, long calmed by the routine of habit in two. This is how, at a distance, the longing for reunion drives away the routine and we rediscover the qualities of the one we chose a long time ago.

Each meeting becomes a piece of a puzzle that is reconstructed over time, little by little. For 70% of this type of couple, the situation is temporary. The partners feel the urge to make plans together and are eager to make them happen.

Small inconveniences in everyday life

Among those who travel a lot between their workplace and home, some accumulate fatigue, stress, too long journeys exhaust them… Here is a way of life that could erode a relationship. What needs to be done? Despite the fatigue, when he returns home, he has to communicate with his partner, leaving the rest time for later.

He must not forget that the one who stayed in the locality also has sources of exhaustion and stress, he has to take care of the children, the house, the work. In other words, intimacy must be renewed, which is very simple for couples who already have a common past. Others, on the other hand, may become more distant, because the habit of two, non-existent before, can lead to a certain cold.

The feeling of feeling more and more alien to your home may deepen. Frustrations, misunderstandings can be installed due to lack of communication. The distance, the fact that the partners cannot bring their problems up to date because one of them by the nature of the service is always absent, can endanger the affection of the partners.

On the other hand, if you went through such a period in which you had to live for a while away from him, once back, you can consider yourself lucky, your relationship not only survived but also strengthened. Some people, after experiencing such an experience, appreciate their partner more. But at what price? The mother of two children, Corina (34 years old), tells how her husband, was seconded to work, for two years, at a company he is working for.

After half a year, during which time they saw each other only once a month, feeling that family life and communication with his wife were going badly, he resigned. Now he confesses to us: "This experience has enriched us, now I know that I can't live far from Corina and children". For 12% of couples, the absence of one of the partners leads to the feeling of failure, and some give up, ending up distancing themselves.

Remember!

What would be the ingredients of a successful relationship? The main thing for this kind of "distance" relationship is not to leave everything to the other, in other words not to let go of the desire, but to become active and deal with problems without waiting for the next meeting with your partner to solve them. To communicate better, to be faithful, to trust yourself and the other, here is the recipe!