Always be an interesting person

I just finished reading "Peacock Forest" by Cai Zhiheng recently. I don't know if the author himself is very interesting or he has had a very interesting student career, and the people inside are very interesting.

Fun does not only mean humor or funny, but the existence of soul.

For example, there is a character named Rongan inside. He lives in a dormitory converted from a container house. When the typhoon struck, the container house rolled over from a two-story high position. He said that his life was like a fast-moving movie. The scenes passed quickly in front of my eyes.

The protagonist asks: "Are these images in color or black?"

"Black and white." Rong An laughed, "Because my liver is not good, so life is black and white."

Rongan has always been funny, warm and kind.

For example, after the protagonist breaks up in love, he frequently puts on his head, and even appears six times a week, sometimes he simply stays at the protagonist’s house and does not want to leave.

Take the protagonist to different places to play, meet different people, don't say anything in particular, just be there all the time.

I often tell bad jokes, like: "Do you guess the dumplings are male or female?"

The protagonist was too lazy to respond, he said to himself: "It's a man, because he has a foreskin." Then he laughed like crazy.

I think each of us needs to have a friend like Rongan.

If you have Rongan, you will be so happy. After reading the whole book, I found that the protagonist himself is actually very interesting.

For example, he met Qiandu in a frequent bar.

Qiandu: "I'm getting married, come and invite Xiaoyun to the wedding banquet."

Protagonist: "This is a good thing."

Xiaoyun: "No one said it was a bad thing." (Xiaoyun is also very interesting)

Former time: "I also welcome you to the wedding banquet."

The protagonist smiled: "You know I won't go, why do you want to earn my red envelope?"

People who can talk and laugh in that situation are handsome and funny.

Every time I read a book, I will pick up the postcard or card I received before and use it as a bookmark.

In addition to bookmarking, I can also review the text that others have written to me.

When I watched "Peacock Forest", I happened to get a postcard from a funny friend.

He wrote: "There is an aurora while listening to the lecture, but at the same time it is not dark at around 10 o'clock. It's really an aurora, haha."

I couldn't help but smile when I saw it, so I took a picture of a postcard on whatsapp, who hadn't seen him in a long time in a foreign country.

He said that he did have a great sense of humor before, but I casually said that it is gone now.

He said it seems to be really missing.

I realized that when we grow up, it seems that we are not as interesting as before.

Just like a couple dating, every sentence at the beginning is very interesting, so wonderful that I want to cherish it. After a long time, it will gradually become tasteless. What I said on this day is appropriate for each day of yesterday, today or tomorrow, and it is no longer clear. The difference.

My friend said, because it's life.

Indeed, life is trivial, it is plain.

Only water can be drunk. If you drink honey forever, you will get diabetes.

Life is too tiring, we are too lazy to spend any more effort to be fun.

The longer we live, the unavoidable loss of freshness in daily life. We all rely on subconsciously to act, and our enthusiasm is buried.

However, it doesn't make sense to live for another ten or twenty years.

Just be an interesting person as long as you live.

This way of life is attractive.

Roommate's elder brother bought beef steak for frying one night, and they bought Qiup for those who don't like drinking.

When my brother cooked and brought out the dishes, Roommate and I both shined, not because of the steak, but the seven-up.

My brother poured 7-up in our goblet, and cut the lime and put it on the side of the glass.

Hedy suddenly became a cocktail, and Roommate and I couldn't help clapping our hands.

If I hadn’t thought of doing this, I wouldn’t pour 7-up out of the glass, and I would not buy lime because I was afraid of annoyance, just like some friends would admire me for cooking new dishes at every meal, they all cooked simply. Or repeat the same dishes.

Once something becomes daily, we seem to lose vitality.

But those details that we don't pay much attention to, those optional embellishments, are often the existence that can ignite the whole life most.

It is beyond the relationship of taste or actual effect, but brings us happiness that cannot be easily obtained.

It is the magic of the soul.

Hey, I probably haven't had such an experience when I lived for more than ten years, because there were so many unknowns and possibilities in the world at that time.

I remember that there was light in each of our eyes.

But we who have been alive for nearly 30 years, or you who are thirty forty-five and sixty...

Please insist on being an interesting person, and cherish the interesting guy around you.

Life needs to be fun to be interesting.

May you still be an interesting person.