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6 Secrets Men Just Can't Resist: What Women Need to Know

Men are visual creatures. When it comes to dating, that means they’ll judge you almost immediately based on your appearance

By otmanehmidiPublished 3 years ago 6 min read

If you want a man to give you more than just a first date, here are some sneaky tips on how to get him hooked from the get-go. Let’s face it, not all men are created equal when it comes to their taste in women. Some guys dig supermodel types; others prefer petite blondes with big blue eyes. Once you understand your guy's preferred type, dating will be so much easier for you. After all, why waste time and energy trying to win over someone who’s not into you? Men have different tastes for many reasons. Some are genetically predisposed to preferring certain physical attributes over others (that is, their DNA influences those preferences). Others form their tastes based on past experiences and relationships (this could be something as simple as having the same group of friends or a past girlfriend who had a specific feature that he found particularly attractive).

Don’t do anything too crazy on your first date

A first date is a delicate interaction in which you’re trying to get to know the guy while also putting your best foot forward. By making a few smart decisions, you can ensure that he leaves your date with a great impression of both you and your personality. First dates are tricky because you don’t know the guy yet, so you have to learn as much as you can about him. It’s important to get his story straight, but don’t forget to let him know a little bit about you, too. By letting him know that you’re interested in what he has to say and asking him thoughtful questions, he’ll walk away from the date feeling like you’re a great match. There are a few small things you can do to make a huge impression on your first date, like ordering your drink a certain way (no, not with extra cherries) or leaving a small, thoughtful note for your server. While it may seem trivial, those small gestures can make a huge impact on the way your date views you.

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Research his favorite things

If you’re trying to get a guy to fall for you, one of the best ways to do that is by learning about his interests. If you can somehow incorporate his favorite books, movies, or sports into your normal dates, he’ll feel even more connected to you. This is a great way to get to know him better without having to ask too many personal questions. By doing a little research before your date, you can incorporate some of his favorite things into your date. If he loves surfing, try to talk him into taking you out on the waves. If he’s a bookworm, take him to his favorite author’s reading at the local library. If he’s into cars, find out what kind he drives and look it up online; then, share with him some cool facts about his car. By learning about his interests and incorporating them into your dates, he’ll see that you’re the type of person who pays attention to details.

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Show off your best asset (it doesn’t have to be your face)

We’ve all heard that you should put your best foot forward when dating someone new. That kind of goes beyond your appearance, but it definitely includes your clothes and makeup. While you don’t want to show up to a date dressed like you’re going to prom, you also don’t have to be so overdressed that you look like you’re going to the Oscars. You want to look like you care about your appearance, but not like you spent three hours getting ready. When dating, a lot of women try to hide what they believe to be their flaws. Don’t do that. Your partner is supposed to see you as a person, warts and all, and if he doesn’t like what he sees, then that’s his loss. Instead of trying to camouflage your flaws, show off one of your best assets. For example, if you have long legs, wear a pair of sexy boots or some knee-length heels. If your hair is long and healthy, wear it down. If you have a beautiful smile, don’t cover it up with dark lipstick.

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Make sure he knows you’re smart (and that you know what you want in a man)

Most guys love to be around smart women. It’s actually one of the traits that they look for when they’re dating someone new. By being a bit more confident and engaging on your first date, you can let him know that you’re a smart, interesting woman who he should keep around for a while. While you don’t want to come off as bragging or being condescending, you can show him that you’re an intelligent woman by asking him thoughtful questions, sharing your opinions, and making him feel comfortable in your presence. This doesn’t mean that you should be nervous on your first date. In fact, if you’re nervous, you may come off as being a bit unsure of yourself, which isn’t a very attractive trait. By engaging in a back-and-forth conversation with your date (and not just sitting there waiting for him to ask you questions), you can show him that you’re confident and you know what you want.

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Don’t forget the importance of exercise and good nutrition

This is something that may seem obvious, but you’d be surprised how many women don’t put any effort into looking after themselves. Men will often notice your physical appearance before anything else, and if you’re not taking care of your body, you’re not going to get very far in dating. Before you even start dating, make sure that you’re eating healthy and exercising regularly. It’s hard to find someone who wants to date someone with a slow metabolism, bad breath, and unkempt hair. You don’t have to be a fitness model or a 10/10 by any means, but you do have to make sure you’re putting in the effort to look after yourself.

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Exercise

If you want to get a man to fall for you, start exercising. Not only does it release natural chemicals in your brain that make you happier and less stressed out, but it also makes you more attractive. Exercise not only helps you maintain a healthy weight, but it also boosts your metabolism, improves the tone of your skin, and reduces your risk of heart disease. If you’re not sure where to start, try finding a class or a workout routine that you enjoy. Not only will it be easier to stick to a routine if you enjoy it, but it will also help you make new friends who encourage you to stay active.

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Good nutrition

Along with exercise, good nutrition is the best way you can boost your energy and feel your best. It’s important to get the right amount of calories, fats, proteins, and vitamins and minerals. Try to eat whole foods and avoid processed foods as much as you can. You don’t have to become a vegetarian or vegan to eat healthy, but try to avoid processed meats as much as possible. If you’re not sure where to start with eating healthy, try to find a diet plan that works for you. You don’t have to completely cut out all your favourite foods, but try to eat as healthy as you can.

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Conclusion

These are 6 secrets men just can't resist: what women need to know. If you’re trying to get a guy to fall for you, you have to make sure that he sees you for who you are. In order to do that, you have to let your real personality shine through. If you try to be someone you’re not, he won’t be able to see the real you, no matter how many of these tips you follow. Plus, he won’t be able to fall in love with the real you.

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