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I was in situationship with Aquarius and this is what I found out

I will tell you, no matter how trite it may sound, about the pros and cons of relationships.

By SMSMSPublished 2 years ago 2 min read

Hi my dear readers, today i wanna talk about this shit that happend in my life. To begin with, I want to say that I hope not all Aquarius are like that, but I did a study among my Aquarius friends and some of the things coincided to my surprise.

I have often heard that Aquarians are quite friendly with others, but they are clearly not built for strong relationships. I can start with a very interesting fact that I learned: Aquarians will always choose their friends, and especially Aquarius men. For them, their friends will come first, and even if his ex is on good terms with him, she will always be above you. For example: If you invited your Aquarius boyfriend to walk with you and at that time his friends invited drink a beer, This guy will tell you that he's going with his friends today. This is how you have to deal with it.

Now we can talk about the advantages of Aquarius. They have a crazy sense of humor. You will laugh with him all the time. They also support any dialogue well, even if they do not understand the topic of conversation. Also, to the pluses of Aquarius, you can add their independence, but do not rush to rejoice. Aquarians value freedom and independence, both in themselves and in a partner. They respect your individuality and don't try to limit you. I think that's where the positives end.

And so, dear readers, we again return with you to the topic of the minuses of relations with Aquarius. The worst thing for me in this situation was what I wrote at the beginning of the whole post, this is that you, like his girlfriend or boyfriend, will not be the main goal of his life for which he will develop and improve himself. I'm a Scorpio and in a relationship I want to be number one for my partner. So that first I was on his list, and then work and his friends.

Emotional distance is another decisive disadvantage. You will never understand what Aquarius wants, what he thinks about and what plans he has for you. In bad moments, Aquarius simply prefers to remain silent and close in himself without letting anyone in. We can go back, as I said, to the factor of independence. Remember that the same quality that can be a plus can also be a minus. Aquarians can be so independent that they sometimes forget to consider their partner's needs and feelings.

I think this is where our article can end. I want to remind you so that you do not forget that people are different and not all people fit each other in terms of types and character. Remember that each person is unique, and it is important to find a balance and compromise in order to create a harmonious and happy relationship. Aquarians are creators and inspirations, and if you're willing to embrace their idiosyncrasies and their weird stuff, you can enjoy a vibrant and interesting collaboration with them.

See you soon, my dears, and remember that each sign of the zodiac brings its own unique experience and lessons to our lives! Write in the comments what you think about this

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  • KJ Aartila2 years ago

    I am Aquiarius - I married, and subequently, divorced a man who was a Scorpio - not because he was a Scorpio, but because he was an asshole.

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