The fewer things you care about, the better your life will be

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The gentleman is open and honest, open-minded, while the villain is calculating, and suffering from loss.

The gentleman and the villain are always in thought, you have in mind how much life's obsessions, may have how much pain in life.

People who know how to put down at the right time will naturally live a lot easier, always moving forward on the road, everyone's baggage will get heavier and heavier, which also constantly throws away those dispensable, insignificant baggage, in the arena of life to lighten up.

Life is a state of mind, the more things you care about the more pain is often, and the less you care about things, the more happiness you reap in life naturally.

The quality of life often depends on our ideas, everything should be thought of first, the only way to live up to the life of a passing.

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The fewer things you care about, the better your life will be.

In this world, no matter how well you do things, there will be people pointing at your life, no matter how hard you try, it is difficult to make everyone happy.

If you live in the opinion of others, your life will naturally be miserable.

Happiness for us is often a feeling inside, which is a kind of ability, but also an emotional experience, often the key part lies in what kind of angle you cut, from what kind of ideas to start.

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The old saying goes: "the belly of the prime minister can hold up the boat", life has to have this kind of mentality, if their inner life into a needlepoint, that is the sadness and misfortune in life.

There is no need to hang on to some things, some things can be dealt with calmly with a slight smile, sometimes it is strange to say that the human heart is sometimes too small, even a little bit of small things can make us sulking, worrying all day.

When we analyze it from a different perspective, sometimes the choice to do so is taking things from others to punish themselves and make their lives unhappy, so that the loss is not outweighed by the choice, in the end, is our loss or our burden.

The content of life is often always painful, one after another, life is either this kind of bitter or that kind of bitter, Zhao as the ancient people say, the sky has unpredictable wind, people have the day and night, and control of their life mentality to fundamentally the right medicine to cure the disease.

When you can care less about things, the more happiness you will naturally reap, so this life for us is to continue to cultivate their mindset so that they can care less and less so that the trials and tribulations of life can do nothing for you.

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The root cause of the trouble is to care too much about others and not do well for yourself, the more a person cares about the outside world, the easier it is for the mind to be chaotic, and the more tired you are of living.

Learn to let go, and know how to look down, to live a good life at the moment.

Everyone's life can not be smooth sailing, either through the wind and rain or through trials and tribulations and hardships.

The poet Su Shi's open-mindedness is a model for us to learn from. Even though he had many twists and turns in his career and was depreciated, he still did not give up his desire and pursuit of life and was able to reconcile with life no matter to which place he was deported.

He once wrote in his poems, "Never listen to the sound of beating leaves in the forest, why not whistle and walk slowly? Who is afraid of the lightness of the bamboo stick and mango shoes? A straw rain and smoke can be used to live a peaceful life. The spring breeze blows the wide awake, it is slightly cold, but the slanting light on the mountain welcomes you. I look back at the place where I used to be, and I go back to the place where there is no storm and no sunshine."

There are always too many voices in this world that can disturb your mind, and there are always too many traps for you to guard against. In the face of life's changes, the best attitude is to cultivate your attitude of favor and disgrace, when you can care less about things, though armed, invulnerable to all poisons and guns.

If we look too much at the eyes and opinions of others, we can only end up living our lives differently.

Do not take others' comments to heart, to become the helmsman of your own life.

Learn to block out the noise of the outside world to take every step of life in your rhythm.

When you can care less about things, the better life will be.