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Stories from a Stripper
For much as you’re praised and ogled over, lusted for and professed love for, and gave presents to...It can mean absolutely nothing when you, yourself, feel like garbage inside. I see these women and girls that I am not attracted to one bit. To each their own, right? But some of these girls in the field are so blazingly in love with themselves it inspires me to live more authentically and not give a fuck. They are teaching me how to make what you don’t like about yourself seem like the most natural and beautiful aspect of your personhood.
By Charlie McGnarly8 years ago in Filthy
I'm Addicted to Porn
I am addicted to porn. And I’m female. Does that shock you? For many it does. There’s a general misconception that porn addiction is exclusive to men, as if women are invulnerable to the habit. Consider it another double standard in regards to sexuality and the expression of it in men and women. But as a person living through the experience, I don’t believe anyone is exempt from its temptations.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in Filthy
Watch the Porn, Bro
TMI? Never. I was six years old the first time I masturbated. Sounds weird, right? A child knowing how to do something like that? Makes you think, was I raised in a weird home? Was there something wrong with me? Did I experience something I shouldn't have? The answer to all of that is no, definitely not. I grew up in a completely normal household, with four siblings, a dog, and parents who loved and still love each other to death. I went to regular public school, had birthday parties, barbecues all the time, went on vacations and shit, I was even a Girl Scout. I wasn't deprived of anything, and I had a regular, small group of friends. To be honest, I’m not sure when it all started. But, what I do know, is that my young fascination and love for pleasure has led me to be one of the not-so-many people who are comfortable watching and talking about porn, sex, and masturbation.
By Niki Bambi8 years ago in Filthy
Exploring Yourself. Top Story - June 2018.
People often wonder about their sexual desires. They often wonder at what age should one prowl into their desires. I believe at the age of 16, everyone should understand the basic concept of sex. Now, should they partake in sex? My answer is that’s a conversation for you and your parents to decide. And if you are at a reasonable age then, the world is your oyster. So to everyone out there, I say, just think about it. At what age did you begin discovering yourself? And just know, that no matter what age it may be, know that you are not alone. There is nothing that you should be ashamed of.
By PsychedelHippie Smith8 years ago in Filthy
What Do "Wet Dreams in Men" Mean ?
Wet dreams that are more formally referred to as nocturnal emissions entail occurrence of a sudden orgasm, particularly while sleeping. This refers to either ejaculation, in the case of a male, or the wetness of the vagina, for females. These emissions occur most commonly during one’s early years of adulthood, but in certain cases, can also come about soon after the age of puberty. Men may either wake up while experiencing the orgasm or not wake up at all while it happens. So what causes this phenomenon to occur? The answer is simple.
By Brian Adam8 years ago in Filthy
I Wish the Slut Phase Was Just a Phase
As you're beginning to read this, you're preparing yourself for some sexual stories, and getting ready to please yourself to them. Well, my friends zip those pants back up and get ready for something far more intimate. The second someone reads the word "slut" they are associating it with the word "sex". Although recently I've discovered slut phases can be far more than just sleeping around, they can be "sexting" around. The woman often finds it easier to send sexual messages, than it is to actually act on them with someone. The honest truth behind that is we actually have the ability to leave the situation, no matter how persistent a man gets with us. We can turn our phone off, block the number, and screenshot the evidence to cops if the guy chooses to continue trying things with us. I've watched men get out of the situation by saying things like, "Well you wanted in the beginning, so it's okay."
By Amy Johnson8 years ago in Filthy
Things She's Thinking When You're Going Down on Her
Receiving mind-blowing cunnilingus is almost every woman's dream. Whether it be a relationship or just a hookup, getting oral is an ultimate act of pleasure. What many don't know, however, is that the act of sex, —oral, coitus, anal, etc. — is more emotional and mental than it may appear to be. That doesn't mean we get attached the instant you eat us out, but getting in the right mindset and thinking certain thoughts definitely helps us get that much closer to reaching orgasm. Of course, not all women think this, but many of us can relate. Note: This is mostly from the perspective of a straight woman getting head from a man, but many of these can be applied to other genders as well. Read on to find out what goes on in our minds during oral!
By Ankita Upadhyay8 years ago in Filthy
How to Be More Sex Positive
As a former adult actress, I am more than familiar with sex. I am also familiar with those that deem sex as some sort of demonisation of the body and mind. When thinking about sex and all the wonderful things that come with it, it is important to remember that every single person in the world is different; therefore we can expect peoples views on sex to differ.
By Samantha Bentley8 years ago in Filthy
His Big O!
Alright, so I'm sure we are caught up on Gabrielle Union-Wade's comments on sexuality and sexual activity, particularly analingus (or eating butt). Of course, she's received some flack for it, but honestly I agree with her. There is absolutely nothing wrong with analingus. Personally, no, I do not do it, but I can't really say what I'll do in the future as there have been things that I have told myself I would never do sexually, but I still ended up doing them. This is because I am ever evolving in every way, including sexually, and I would hope the rest of you are too. So on that note, let's get to the meat of this discussion (or in this case, the cake) — a man and his booty. To be more specific, his prostate. A man's prostate is equivalent to a woman's G-Spot, and ladies, as we know, a G-Spot orgasm is almost an ethereal experience. It is the same with a man's P-Spot. For men, the most intense orgasm comes from their prostate; however, not all men get to experience that, which is quite unfortunate. The reasoning behind this originates from our preconceived notions fueled by false narratives surrounding a man's hygiene, his body, and his sexuality. With issues pertaining to the latter, I'm only going to say this once: UNLESS A MAN IS PURELY ATTRACTED TO OTHER MEN, HIS DESIRE TO ENGAGE IN ANAL ACTIVITY DOES NOT MAKE HIM A HOMOSEXUAL OR ANY OTHER PART OF THE GSRM COMMUNITY.
By Ayyona Hatcher8 years ago in Filthy
Best Positions for Pregnancy Sex. Top Story - April 2018.
Pregnancy sex is not easy. It can be hard to deal with body changes and hormone fluctuations. In fact, you might not even be attracted to your partner during this time. This happens for the same reason that contraception can affect your sex drive.
By Lizzie Boudoir8 years ago in Filthy
