relationships

Love, sex, single, committed.

Is it just an affair or already a relationship?
In the first moment everything between you was tingling, lust and passion. Even the second and third time you fell over the guy like a dessert. And you felt comfortable in his presence, even after sex.
By Omara4 years ago in Filthy
Why women really cheat
Living in a relationship is not always easy. At the latest when they both live together and everyday life overshadows the romantic times of being in love, many people question their decision — after all, it’s not just the one or other quirk of the partner that gets noticed. Housework also becomes more — and this is still mainly the responsibility of (the) women. What a nevertheless so old and now again confirmed cliché. According to a French study, however, this is exactly where the problem lies: because their husbands don’t participate enough in the daily household chores, women become unfaithful. Yes, you read that right. At least 73 percent of the 10,000 respondents gave this reason for a fling. Because of the lack of support from their spouse, most women (86 percent) were upset, and often there were arguments.
By Omara4 years ago in Filthy
Lovestruck
I can feel you, even when you’re not here. Every draw from a cigarette leads me to leaning on your shoulder in the night air, staring up at the moon from my balcony. When I inhale, I can smell your scent; you smell clean but masculine, just a hint of the vodka you just shot. As I feel myself lean into your shadow, I can feel the phantom of your body heat, the comfort in the strength of your shoulders, power brought on by athleticism, and manual labor. The tones of your voice are like honey to my ears while you remark on the shift of the seasons, once warm and comfortable when I came home to you just weeks before. Now there’s a chill in the air, but I welcome it if it means my body sinks into yours to stay warm. I’m breathless; whether it’s from you or the cigarettes we keep saying we’ll quit, I can’t be sure anymore. But every kiss steals the air from my lungs while it fills my soul, leaving me gasping for another.
By Evie Dahl4 years ago in Filthy
No.
No. That´s all you want when you come over.¨ was the first word to leave my mouth. ¨Itś okay, I don´t want to come over for that. ¨, he said ¨we can just talk, thatś all I want anyways. I missed you.¨ He told me as if they were the sweetest words to ever leave his lips. I believed the lies. He tried his hardest and kept giving him the same answer, which was no. I kept that word on the tip of my tongue anytime he tried something. He tried for like an hour and that alone felt like twelve hours. I let him in when I knew I should have kept him out. I let him in, I let him stay, and then, I let him hurt me. I let him make me feel the way I do. I let him make me feel like an object.
By Destiny Smalls4 years ago in Filthy
How she warmed up to the phrase "I'm yours."
I had been sitting in my desk chair for just over two hours when I glanced at the clock on the bottom right corner of the computer. I then blinked at it, as if daring it to move any slower.
By Tristan Palmer4 years ago in Filthy
Why Should We Talk About Sex With Our Partner?
There was a time when talking about sex was just as difficult as having sex for me. I was vulnerable, and I had been raped. Therefore any sex talk or action was percieved as disgusting to me. That was until 1998 when I met someone with who things became serious. I had a lot of issues with sex, it scared me and any discussion of it made me feel bad about myself until I finally found the courage to let go. It was only after learning how to let go that I started seeing sex as normal between two partner's who loved each other, and I eventually learned the importance of discussing sex openly with my partner.
By Carol Ann Townend4 years ago in Filthy
A Dom In My Eyes
Let’s face it we live a more risky lifestyle. I lot of excitement and rushes are so powerful that many just simply can’t accept the concept. We develop the highest level of trust and experience a one-in-a-kind strength inbound with the one completing our dynamic.
By NPR4 years ago in Filthy
Hot sex depending on your zodiac sign
When we want something specific, when we dream, when we are stimulated by certain impulses, when we expect from others "that something" that makes us happy, in fact we manifest as passionate beings influenced, among other things, by the zodiac signs.
By Maria Ostasevici 4 years ago in Filthy
Overthinking
Nearly a decade ago, I went through a divorce and started dating for the first time as an adult. When friends suggested I write about my experiences, I started a blog. I have been "revisiting" some of my former exploits lately, and decided to share, using my real name, for the first time.
By Allison Rice4 years ago in Filthy
The Man that Helps Me Believe in Polyamory Makes Me Think About Monogamy
I woke up an hour and a half before my alarm today with the intention of writing about the new guy. I had coffee. I had some food. I decided that I couldn’t type while eating so I went to Facebook. I played some games. I commented, liked, lurked…played more games. I finally opened this blog window as my alarm was going off. Oh, I know avoidance when I see it. Yes, yes I do. I have been avoiding you.
By Allison Rice4 years ago in Filthy
The Risky Prospect of Offering Your Love
Okay. I’m a lover. No, really. I’m not just talking about sex, dating & intimacy. I’m extremely demonstrative with my friends and…well…everyone. I’m the kind of person that says “thanks, hun, you have a great afternoon” to the cashier at the grocery store. I’m gregarious. I’m outgoing. I say “I love you” to lots of people.
By Allison Rice4 years ago in Filthy
Getting Dumped By Someone I Wasn't Even Attracted to in the First Place
Okay, kiddies – I’m going to try to get you up to date on recent events and may as well start with this one. We’ll call him the Little Pirate Bear & identify him as M41. Little Pirate Bear messaged me on OKC in a pretty bold and flirtatious fashion near the end of April. For those keeping score, I was still messing around with my young, hot booty call boys at that time and wasn’t that excited about this guy. He indicated that he’d just come out of a long-term relationship and didn’t know what he was looking for, but needed to start looking. Okay, there’s a warning bell sounding in there because I can be kind of a handful, but he said that he loved kickin’ curves and loving a woman’s body, so he brought enough flirtatious zest to the table to get my attention. Subsequent conversations seemed to indicate that we had quite a lot in common as far as our personal relationship history was concerned, and I felt like he was at the exact place that I was about 10 months ago – dipping my toe into dating for the first time in 20+ years, uncertain about what was available or what I wanted, lacking confidence, terrified but also excited to be taking those first steps in a new direction.
By Allison Rice4 years ago in Filthy