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I was sitting on the sand a bit far from you, as you're walking in the water. I couldn't help staring at your amazing body, but I didn't expect you to turn around and notice. To not make it weird, I walk towards you acting as if it didn't matter. "Hey hun, how's the water?"
By Forest Greenabout a month ago in Filthy
When You See Your Partner As Your Future, Not Just Your Present
At some point in a healthy relationship, you come to know that it is not your relationship with your partner at the moment, but with everything you can see yourself having in the future. Love is not momentary any more, but thoroughly intended. You do not want to think of your partner as a person you like to spend time together with; you envision him or her as a part of your long-term plans, your dreams and development. This transition does not occur in dramatic gestures but by emotional congruency and joint allegiance.
By Kellee Bernierabout a month ago in Filthy
How To Build A Relationship That Stands The Test Of Time
Good friendship is not created by chance, instead, it is formed deliberately, with feelings, and choices made every day. Once you understand that you have to create lasting love, rather than it just occurring, then your attitude towards partnership will be more mature. You know that the relationship is strengthened with regular activities, sincere dialogues and respect. Chemistry might be the beginning of the love, but it lasts as the two partners keep determining that they are the ones to love over and over again, even when times get hard.
By Kellee Bernierabout a month ago in Filthy
How to Discuss Hard Topics Without Breaking the Bond
In every relationship, there comes a time when contentious issues have to be raised. Such discussions usually cause fear, nervousness, or unwillingness but are necessary in long-term affiliation. Difficult issues do not undermine a relationship, evading them does. Once they learn to discuss challenging issues in a gentle manner, couples will have a chance to become closer to one another. These discussions may turn out to be channels of better comprehension instead of conflict. They discover passions and emotions, demystify anticipations and reinforce faith.
By Kellee Bernierabout a month ago in Filthy
When You’re Finally Ready for Mature Love
You will come to a point when you realize that love does not have to be chaotic, overwhelming and emotionally draining. You no longer want intensity but rather you want steadiness, dignity and emotional richness. This awakening is a starting point of being prepared to adult love. You put a stop to confusing passion with turbulence and begin to enjoy the comfort of the light that is steady and comes to you time after time. Adult love does not submerge you, it makes you stable. It teaches you that deepest bonds are founded on mutual understanding, trust and considerate communication - not on the highs and lows which are unpredictable and painful.
By Hayley Kiyokoabout a month ago in Filthy
Why Healthy Boundaries Strengthen Love
Good boundaries make love an overwhelming experience and a grounding one. They enable you to feel secure enough to be as yourself, without being under the pressure of always living up to impossible ideals. Boundaries will help you not feel like you have to give more than you can or carry emotional burden that does not belong to you. Love is not an exhausting emotional place but a comfort place. This security which is based on respect helps the two partners to relax and trust the relationship even more.
By Hayley Kiyokoabout a month ago in Filthy
How to Stop Misunderstandings From Breaking Your Bond
No relationship would go without instances of a misunderstanding or miscommunication but when misunderstandings accumulate, it may start to tear apart even the most strong ones. The little misunderstandings may develop into emotional distance when unaddressed. Most couples do not understand the destructive nature of repeated misunderstandings, at least until there is a loss of trust. This is a problem that needs to be taken care of at an early age since the wrong perception does not vanish on its own, it only increases with neglect. The first step on how to improve your relationship and maintain your connection on an emotional safe side is to recognize how easy it is to cause miscommunication.
By Hayley Kiyokoabout a month ago in Filthy
Why Some Couples Stay Strong Through Every Season
There are those couples who would remain strong in all seasons as their love knows how to bend rather than breaking. They realize that life is ever changing and relationship also has to change with it. They do not fight change but rather they give their bond time to develop. This ease of the relationship makes it not to be weak when put under pressure. In learning to bend love becomes stronger and more flexible and can withstand uncertainty better. These couples accept life as a process rather than an indication to quit or surrender and such a state of mind keeps them attached over the years.
By Kellee Bernierabout a month ago in Filthy
When You Find Someone Who Loves You Like a Partner, Not a Project
There is urgent transformation when you understand that somebody loves you as a partner, not as a project. Love ceases to be conditional, and your value ceases to be dependent on the self-improvement work that is participant-imposed by another person. Rather than being shaped, fixed, or controlled, you are valued to be who you are at present. This type of love establishes an emotional security, which enables you to take a deeper breath as in the relationship. It is a love that beckons sincerity other than acting and is easier and more natural to connect with.
By Kellee Bernierabout a month ago in Filthy
When Two People Choose Growth Instead of Ego
It is something transformative when two individuals decide to grow instead of growing their ego. The relationship ceases to be a battlefield in which pride rules and transforms to be a refugium of evolution. Love is a place where the partners are expected to grow, recover, and develop. This turn makes the relationship emotional coloring quite different. Both individuals start to lean towards maturity, as opposed to hanging on to the old patterns. Love, which is growth oriented, fosters self awareness and forms a foundation that can stand its ground regardless of the challenges.
By Grace Smithabout a month ago in Filthy
When You Stop Comparing Your Relationship to Others
In the modern world it is not hard to judge your relationship against other people channels--especially when social media provide us with ideal moments. However, comparison tends to give unrealistic expectations. It helps you forget the beauty in your relationship and causes unnecessary doubt or discontent. As you keep comparing, you end up judging your partner or yourself negatively undermining the emotional connection.
By Grace Smithabout a month ago in Filthy
How to Show Up Emotionally for Your Partner
Love is not about feelings of affection, time together or even romanticism but the willingness to be emotionally present to your partner. Emotional presence comprises lending a shoulder to lean on, empathy, and compassion towards each other in a manner that brings about a feeling of safety and closeness. It is not about solving all the problems but being ready to be next to the partner at the times of joy, stress or confusion. A trusting relationship is founded on the emotional presence.
By Grace Smithabout a month ago in Filthy
