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Does Size Matter?
Recently, while pursuing through Facebook, I came across several articles focused mainly on the size of a man's penis; namely what constitutes as the average size.
By Tara Roberts8 years ago in Filthy
Ways to Incorporate Sex Into Your Daily Routine
You enter your front door after a long days work and all you can see is her. Looking all voluptuous and fresh and all you want to do is peel off your work clothes and climb right on top of her. Maybe even pour a glass of wine or two. I wish I could say I was talking about your partner, but I'm not. Unfortunately, I'm talking about your couch. What? You try and tell me with a straight face that the sight of your cool sofa after a long day doesn't make you all tingly inside. Does for me!
By Jus L'amore8 years ago in Filthy
Sex Tips for Older Virgins
Being a virgin is strange in our society. If you're a virgin as a teenager, people applaud you for it. If you're a virgin for too long, people start acting concerned. Even if you are a virgin and happy to do it, people will often stigmatize virginity after a certain age.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy9 years ago in Filthy
How to Keep Your Relationship Alive
It can be hard to stay interested in certain conversations for longer than 5 minutes, so how does one stay interested in their significant other for 50 years?
By Beth Gibbons9 years ago in Filthy
The Bullet or The Egg
The main issue for a woman cumming every time is that you need to get on top, cowgirl style, and get your clitoris pumped. One fast easy way is using a bullet or egg vibrator during sex.
By JUDITH D9 years ago in Filthy
Posing Nude
I am a large woman and as many of my friends and enemies know I am a rather frequent nudist. Now nudity isn't something all large women and men are particularly comfortable with. The majority of nudes we see in our society are in movies, porn or artist photographs; the bulk of these feature thin people frequently with medical enhancements. Doesn't make us thick-inclined types so sure anyone wants to see us naked and instills an internalized fear of our own nude bodies.
By Sarah Sparks9 years ago in Filthy
Sexiest Foreplay Tips
Like any good appetizer before a meal, foreplay is often neglected, underutilized, or, at worst, dismissed – but some foreplay can really make your nights hot and heavy.
By Bethany Tiamat9 years ago in Filthy
Nobody Gave Me an Owner's Manual for My Vagina
I've been thinking a lot about vaginas this week. I suspect anyone who owns one actually thinks and worries about it quite a bit. I also suspect those who don't own one think about them a lot too. Maybe I'm thinking about vaginas because I'm going in for clinical treatments again and that means I will have a lot of nurses and doctors poking around down there. Maybe it's because I'm reading feminist manifestos again. Maybe it's because my uterine lining is shedding, I'm bleeding like someone shived me, and it hurts like a sonuvabitch. Whatever the impetus for this train of thought is, I've been thinking about muffs, vags, minges, lady bits, pussies, cunts, twats, caverns, holes, carpets, mounds, vulvas, etc., etc. and now I'm gonna write about them.
By Sarah Sparks9 years ago in Filthy
The Danger Word
These days, everyone knows what a safe word is. It's a word, or a short phrase, you can say as a signal to let other people know you are no longer comfortable with an activity, and you need it to stop. The word originally comes from the kink community where participants would be engaged in scenes that might push boundaries, and trigger unwanted emotional responses. Bondage, whipping, consensual non-consent, etc. In some cases a person might even want the freedom to shout stop without their partner actually stopping.
By Neal Litherland9 years ago in Filthy
Learning Curve
Masturbation is a very important time in a young woman's life. However, it is very easy to get overwhelmed by the experience, especially when one is ready to upgrade to sex toys from fingers. There are so many different types, sizes, speeds, it can be a scary process. Well, have no fear. I am here to provide advice on how to pick sex toys based on the ones I picked out for myself all those years ago.
By J.C. Marie9 years ago in Filthy
How To Discuss BDSM With Your Partner
If you're curious about kink or are a major fan of it, you're probably well-aware of how hard it can be to talk about BDSM with your partner. It can be embarrassing to talk about that side of your sexuality. You might be worried that your partner will think you're a freak for it. In some cases, you might even get worried about your partner having a chip on their shoulder after you talk about it.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart9 years ago in Filthy
Sex, Viagra, Libido, Marriage & Divorce in the Millennium
Marriage and Divorce Married/committed couples & singles are re-shaping their lives in all areas; regardless of approaching milestone birthdays. “Forty is the new thirty” and people finally understand they don’t have to give into the stereotyping of certain age groups.
By Susan McCord9 years ago in Filthy