fetishes
Explore common and little-known fetishes. Learn how to satisfy a fetish and how to interpret the fetishes of your partner.
Women's Darkest Fantasies Revealed
With Fifty Shades Freed hitting theaters over the weekend, I thought it would be the perfect time to delve into the dark fantasies of women everywhere. From romantic daydreams of a gorgeous man covering you in whip cream to scandalous visions of being tied up in leather, all sexual healthy beings love to imagine what they most likely aren’t getting in real life. Now not everybody is vocal about their dark desires, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t thinking about them. Trust me, behind closed doors and in the most intimate of moments, they are.
By Jus L'amore8 years ago in Filthy
CBT
CBT? Cock and bull torture... I will always remember my first CBT session, it was with a little old man on the out skirts of London. He had a wife, and a couple of children, he came across my profile on a FinDom community website and he approached me asking if I was interested in CBT. Being a fairly new Domme, I said that I have interest in it, but I have never had a session before… this made him even more interested. He wanted to be my first CBT session.
By Princess_JaeXxX8 years ago in Filthy
Intro to Findom
Firstly, let's explain what findom actually is. Findom stands for 2 words; financial domination. This is a fetish which involves the submissive to give away their money to their dominant. Findom may be accompanied by other practices such as BDSM, female/male domination, or erotic humiliation, but in some cases the relationship between the submissive and dominant may not include anything sexual. The communication between the two may be either through messages, phone calls, video calls, or meet ups.
By Mistress X8 years ago in Filthy
Call Me Daddy
I was never much into role play, but I am down for anything so when he asked me to wear white ankle socks with ruffles on it I obliged. He was tall and black and very muscular. He had a hard past and his present didn't seem too easy, but it was clear that this was the life he was comfortable living. The first time I came to his apartment, a two bedroom that at least three other men were living in, I was alarmed at the gas stove being lit, all four burners ablaze with nothing cooking on them. When I asked why the burners were on he looked at me like I was crazy and said "for heat." I knew Jamal, or "Furious" as he preferred to be called, wasn't a long time thing, I knew it would be fleeting, but I found myself caring about him, genuinely caring about his well-being. The first time he asked me about the little white socks I was taken aback. It seemed like an odd request. Slutty lingerie, crotch-less panties, even anal...but little white socks? I told him I'd see what I could do and tried not to think too much more about it. But then he asked me again, he was really wanting to see my feet in those socks, said it would turn him on.
By Meranda Watley8 years ago in Filthy
SubSays: Behaviour Modification and D/s Relationships
Hey again E/everyone! If you’re new to this series, SubSays, my name’s Lydia, an active submissive in my local BDSM community. I write to bring awareness to O/our lifestyle, encourage others to explore alternative means of relationships, and provide answers to kinky questions to the best of my ability. It was requested of me to produce the article mentioned in my last publication, “Ask a Submissive: Vol. 2” on the topic of behaviour modification. I’ll start by defining behavior modification, both in the BDSM world and in the vanilla world, including the definition, techniques and examples, then move into basic models of operant conditioning including positive and negative reinforcement, punishment, and extinction. Lastly I’ll dive right into how this all related to relationships and different D/s dynamics.
By Lorah Catherine8 years ago in Filthy
SubSays: How to Find a Dom
Hey you, with the submissive style and interests…yeah, you! Are you looking for a Dom? I’ve made this magical and practical guide to how to safely go about finding your specific D-type while surfing through this magical online fetish world. It can often be extremely dangerous for submissives or other s-types to go about finding a Dominant partner since many of those quote-unquote “D-types” aren’t really confident, safe, experienced, or educated about what it really means to be Dominant or to Dominate, even more so if you're a younger female in this terrifying world of pervy "Doms." Here are seven ideas to consider and read through before consenting to be owned, collared, or to play.
By Lorah Catherine8 years ago in Filthy
What BDSM Has Done for Me!
What Being a Sub Has Done for Me: So many myths about the world of BDSM are constantly being flung about, the vast majority by people who hide behind their ignorance of the subject. Often they have these ideas of what it is, but have never looked into it, never spoken to anyone in the lifestyle, or met anyone who is.
By Janie Knight8 years ago in Filthy
I've Submitted to Him
So what does that mean? As my readers know, my goal in writing is to bring awareness to the vast array of different lifestyles I and people in general are involved in. This article will specifically look at what it means to “submit” to a Dominant-type person in a Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship in the BDSM community.
By Lorah Catherine8 years ago in Filthy
