fact or fiction
Learn the truth about common myths. Are they fact or fiction? In-depth explanations of the questions everyone asks and few know the answer to.
Girl # 3
Friday, June 22, 2018. Caligula. Austin, Texas. The first one approaches from my right, Coors Light on the small table in front of me, leans over and asks if I want company, seeping into my atmosphere, decent rack. Oh, I just walked in. Maybe later. She floats away. Nothing interesting on the stage, just the dimly-lit bump and grind.
By Conrad Ilesia4 years ago in Filthy
I Participated In A Wild Orgy And I Loved Every Single Minute Of It
In my ordinary vanilla life, I am a wife, a mom, and an employee. But this summer, I took a break from this role and lived out a few of my fantasies. One of these fantasies was to attend and participate in a real, bona fide orgy.
By Belle du Journey4 years ago in Filthy
Stop Being Nasty to Predators and Perverts
Here's an interesting little thought-exercise to get your brain woken up: Predators Why is the term, 'sexual predator' used, pretty much exclusively, as an accusatory and derogatory term? What, when you really bother to think about it, is actually wrong with being a sexual predator? Since the dawn of mankind, people have gone on the hunt for a sexual partner. They've had to. The survival of the species depends on such activities. Aren't nearly all of us sexual predators at some time in our lives? Don't nearly all of us, in our own ways, try to hunt down and ensnare a sexual partner?
By Robert Jameson4 years ago in Filthy
Handle With Care
The thing about a submissive is that she needs someone to look after her. She will give and give until she has nothing left. She will forget to eat, forget to sleep and she will get exhausted and continue to push herself. She is a perfectionist on a mission. That being said, she needs to be looked after to function. She will stand up to every enemy there is for you, but she needs to be reminded that there is a bedtime, and that she can't run on just Redbull-Oh but watch her try. It's not raising her like a child..it's looking after her because she is so selfless she will take care of everyone but herself. Just listening to her, reminding her to stop working long enough to eat, and not stay up until 0400, trying to right every wrong in the world..that is not looking after, not holding her hostage and never letting her out of the house like an unruly teenager. The more you restrict her freedom, the more she will not want you or if you ignore her, she will not chase you. That is not her job. If she has chosen you, and you have agreed you have a responsibility not to leave her in subdrop, it is a whole new emotional hell for her. She is multifaucted to say the very least but there is physical and mental response that will leave her in a fog- you can't right the world and then act as if you have no responsibility for her. She will just shut down. If she let you into her world, if she trusted you not to hurt you and you check out she feels exhausted and used. She is used to this in her professional life, but not from some one she trusts with her heart and body. How would you feel if someone did that to your daughter? She's not your daughter but once you have accepted responsibility for her, ghosting her will kill her. It's even worse for a submissive because we bond with our people. We need to be acknowledged and we need not to be used but be of use, in a way we consent to. We can't stand not having control of any aspect of our lives. Those things have to be surrendered willingly, and we should always have input. The person with the most power in a D/s dynamic is the submissive. Negotiation never stops, and she is not a play toy, she is a human being with dreams and desires, often big ones. When you just "disappear" she will not chase you, if you don't want to be present in her life willingly she will never force you, and she will never tell you exactly how much you have hurt her. When she lumps you in with every other person who has hurt her, it is all but impossible to gain her trust again, and if you want her to it is on you to make the effort to fix what you broke.
By Justice for All4 years ago in Filthy
Why are the Good Guys the Worst in Bed?
Nearly a decade ago, I went through a divorce and started dating for the first time as an adult. When friends suggested I write about my experiences, I started a blog. I have been "revisiting" some of my former exploits lately, and decided to share, using my real name, for the first time. This story is taken from two posts that were first published in March, 2013. Edits have been made for clarity and continuity.
By Allison Rice4 years ago in Filthy
In the barn
Carrie left the manor by the back door, fallowing the path she walked along the fence till she came to the barn. Standing there for a minute she stared at the structure raising before her, the dark red paint casting shadows with the contrasting white trim gleaming in the afternoon sun. she smiled when she saw the doors to the hayloft open, closing her eyes she relived the last time she had been up there. Moaning softly, she slid her leather gloved hands down the bodice of her royal purple riding dress, the corset she wore under neath making her breath come even faster. Would her be able to put his hands on her again? She wondered. Would it all be as wickedly intense as the first time? She groaned feeling his hands instead of hers smooth over her flared hips. Shuttering at the images running through her mind Carrie opened her eyes and began walking again.
By Marie Ross5 years ago in Filthy
The Sexual Repression Hypothesis
Author's preface: I will admit this one is going to be a tough call for the censors..oops...I mean moderators to judge. On the one hand it is full of graphic material, on the other hand it really isn't all that graphic. More importantly, it is intended and I believe does make a very salient point which is that the "theory" espoused by Umair Haque in the linked article is absurd and ridiculous just like my made up "sexual repression hypothesis" in this article. The fact that it can be made to sound so appealing and so sensical is a tribute to the ease with which words that play into our preconceived prejudices and biases lull us into agreement with them even when they are outrageous, unjustified, and just plain stupid. Umair is a master at that game. That is why he is so popular. Playing into people's prejudices, biases, and fears is a sure fire winner when it comes to popularity contests. Intellectually challenging satirical rebuttals of such material are massive losers in those contests which is why I continue to linger in obscurity while Umair enjoys massive online readership. But you know what, Frack him. I don't play the fear and prejudice game and I never will, but I will call out those who do, every single time I get a chance.
By Everyday Junglist5 years ago in Filthy
