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3 Things That Before-Sex Glow Teaches You About Loving Your Body
Preparing for sex is more than just working on your external appearance. The process truly does begin from within. That before-sex glow can be the ultimate confidence booster and is just as important as the satisfaction you receive after. How? Check out these top three things that glow can do for you:
By Paige Vahla9 years ago in Filthy
Sex Positions That Use All Five Senses
Our world—be it our day-to-day conversations or sexual exploits under the covers—is a product of the five senses. So often, the sexual world remains restricted to tactile sensations. We long to touch and be touched, but so often we forget our bodies are host to a number of other senses. The masterful lover learns that, in order to fully satisfy his or her partner's needs, he or she needs to explore more creative methods to bring his or her partner to orgasm. The following sex techniques will explore ways we can utilize every one of our five senses to bring our greatest sexual fantasies to blazing life.
By Bethany Tiamat9 years ago in Filthy
8 Places to Have Sex Outside the Bedroom
There are times when conventional run of the mill bedroom sex doesn’t quite put the fizz in your soda, just like the British couple who went viral this week, after CCTV footage showed the randy pair getting hot and heavy at the counter in their local Dominos. Turns out they were hungry for more than just their 12 inch Pepperoni Passion pizza. Sometimes the jokes just write themselves. If you’re feeling adventurous, but maybe want to make sure that you don’t get arrested, here is a little help, with the pros and cons of having sex outside the bedroom.
By Katya Krakowska9 years ago in Filthy
How To Have A Threesome
Is Manage a Trois Pour Moi? Although it just so happens to be a generic male fantasy, the threesome is not limited to males alone. Now more than ever, all genders are more willing to embrace the taboo and jump aboard the ship of sexual (re)discovery. We can probably thank Fifty Shades for that one. Anyway, before you start putting together a list of possible partners, you first have to ask yourself if a threesome is really your thing?
By Katya Krakowska9 years ago in Filthy
What Is a Multiple Orgasm?
There often, as a woman, seems to be an unconscious rejection of the possibility of having more than one orgasm. If men can only have one, perhaps it seems greedy, aggressive, or challenging to want more when with a man. That was a very 20th century perspective uncovered in the informative Hite Report by Shere Hite. Perhaps a woman who does desire more, is "unnatural" or a "nymphomaniac." More Mad Men era hyperbole started by men who probably didn't want to work too hard.
By Alicia Springer9 years ago in Filthy
New Dating App, Luvidya, Celebrates Official Launch This Valentine’s Day
SAN FRANCISCO, CALIFORNIA—Digital technology and smartphones have definitely changed the way we date and establish romantic relationships in the 21st century. While popular dating websites and apps offer convenience, finding that special someone hasn’t necessarily gotten easier. Lucie Ebnerova, the founder of Luvidya, Inc., definitely knows this first hand.
By Nikki Gaskins Campbell9 years ago in Filthy
Relationship Stereotypes to Stop Romanticizing
Unless you have been living under a rock for the majority of your life, you have heard about some of the gender-on-gender crime that’s been going on within society. The sociological study of gender conflict has been a topic of interest throughout the past couple of decades, and scientists have come to the conclusion that gender is a socially constructed phenomenon that specifies gender roles that are expected from members of each of the sexes. Basically, society decided that women are the nurturers and men are the warriors/hunters of the human population. Many theories currently exist that attempt to explain the origin of the modern gender roles expected of men and women, and how they continue to be upheld in society. So without further ado, the following is a list of some of the most illogical gendered stereotypes that are customarily romanticized in our culture that you should no longer daydream about.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
How to Keep Romance Alive When You Live Together
You’ve taken the next step and you and your significant other have moved in together. This move can be an exciting and stressful time, and it can bring changes to your relationship. How do you keep romance alive when you live together, and see each other all the time?
By Dr. Harmon Love9 years ago in Filthy
Things to Know Before Getting Into an Open Relationship
Monogamy is not for everyone. The hardest thing for some people is settling down with one person. Although most of us were brought up being taught that you should be monogamous, this can be difficult for some people, who just aren't hard wired that way. For this and many other reasons, an open relationship has become the new trend in town.
By Yadim Shmaltz9 years ago in Filthy
Selfish Relationship Habits You Need to Stop
Selfish relationship habits are a lot more common than we realize. Romantic relationships can be messy and, most of us would agree, that is an understatement. Between forfeiting your bachelor lifestyle to accommodate your lover, establishing common grounds (and negotiating the not-so-common grounds), learning the different dynamics of your relationship, and working out what doesn’t seem to work, it’s ridiculously easy to get caught up in all of the different aspects of your relationship. Once the newness of a relationship passes and the chaos of adjusting to life as a couple has settled, you get comfortable with the way things are. Most of us don’t like change, and we often find ourselves stuck in our own ways. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but it can be if you get a little bit too comfortable with the way things are and you start to take them for granted. In this sort of mindset, it is likely that we will develop selfish behaviors. Too often, selfish behavior turns into a habit, which can turn your relationship from sweet to sour in no time at all. Selfish habits will ultimately destroy your relationship in one way or another, and unless you are able to identify them, there is no stopping their wrath of destruction. Don’t let your relationship fall victim to your selfish habits. Save yourself the heartbreak and use the following list of common selfish relationship habits as a guide to keep your behavior in check, and your relationship intact.
By Alicia Springer9 years ago in Filthy
Passion Killers In a Relationship and How to Avoid Them
Have you been in a relationship for a while now? Are you starting to realize that there are a couple of passion killers you're struggling to address? At the beginning of a relationship you can barely contain the passion! You're both really enthusiastic about this new journey that you're embarking on together and the potential routes it could take. It's all an intriguing mystery that you think will never end! However, every relationship has its struggles… and there are a few key passion killers which everyone should keep an eye out for and avoid.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
