Sex loses its freshness, try blindfolding tips

Blindfolds, just to sleep, used to cover the light to ensure sleep? Today, let's talk about the little secret of blindfolds in sex - the room hide-and-seek!

1. why use a blindfold?

Because, we always rely too much on a certain sense to feel the world feel He/She, unintentionally lost too much fun!

If you try to shield the sense that you always rely too much on, you will find that you have no choice but to mobilize and strengthen the ability of other senses.

You may find that the eyes take up most of our lives, not to mention the "visuals" during intimacy.

So what's a good thing to do for "visual animals" who wear blindfolds?

When you stop visualizing, all the visual sense can only be ...... 'brainstormed'.

Believe me, it will be an interesting experience to see how the following senses can help you visualize and complete your imagination.

① Auditory

He/she is breathing, rapid gasping, slight moaning ...... Every moment, every moment, this kind of sound is silky to the ear.

② Taste

If kissing is a "delicacy," how should you taste it now? I used to see some people on the Internet arguing about whether you should keep your eyes open or closed when you kiss, but now you don't have to be so involved.

Now you don't have to worry about it at all. You just have to boldly enjoy the "food" in front of you. If he/she has just taken a bite of coconut oil, the mouth is slightly sweet, every contact is like running wild in the forest, he/she is no more moved today than he/she was yesterday.

③ Smell

Now you try to suck every bit of He/She's scent in the air, and use your sense of smell to feel the distance between you, there's still a few centimeters left.

④ Sense of touch

You may find that you hear more or smell more beautiful aromas than usual, but the most attractive may be the touch.

You can't see it at all, you just have to wait for it to pass over your skin. Such a touch, unexpected, not knowing the time or the space or the place, everything is new, "what part of you will He/She tease next".

Not being able to follow his touch with your eyes means that your only option is to lie back and pay attention to the sensation, using all your imagination.

Some people say that you can close your eyes without a blindfold.

The blindfold itself is a commitment, a solemn ceremony, like a ring in a marriage. Bringing it on is another big ceremony in your life, only this time you don't invite extra guests.

In fact, most partners may not be interested in SM itself, but just want a different experience. Blindfolding, which inspires new eroticism and fresh perspectives, fulfills that need.

2. What eye mask can you use?

When I say eye masks, it may not be necessary for you to actually buy an eye mask to get started. Ties, scarves, handkerchiefs, and other household items can be a great alternative. In addition to the eye masks, you may also want to have small erotic toys to increase the interaction, such as a Small Vibrator, or pink rose toys.

What you need to make sure of is that

① The eye mask is comfortable on your face.

So that your concentration is not affected by the blindfold being too tight, too loose, or sliding around. You can also find another material that feels tactile on your skin and eyes.

② Make sure the eye mask completely covers your vision.

If a ray of light or shadow passes through the slit of the eye mask, it may end up being more distracting. Your eyes must be completely covered.

3. What should you do when you are blindfolded?

Someone who is not blindfolded always has more initiative, so you want to make sure it's a pleasant experience. I suggest the creative party to operate first.

① Slow contact

I'm sure that if you were the one being blindfolded, you would never want to be suddenly grabbed or slapped; instead, you would want to be touched and feel the sensation of being slowly glided over your body.

Going a little slower will allow the blindfolded person to focus completely on the sensations of the moment and slowly feel your strength, love, lust, and impulses. ......

② Clear communication

Since he/she can't see you, you have to use clear language or just get on with it, moving each other's body parts and coordinating your movements.

This may not go smoothly at first, but you will need to be patient to clarify if he/she needs to cooperate with you in doing something next.

③ Introduce new sensations

A feather, an ice cube, a small massage roller, a leather glove, a silk scarf, or any other intriguing touch of material, start by letting him/her feel the object you are going to use in his/her hand.

Then, with the help of that object, fully develop your manipulation to create a different kind of touch sensation, and let him/her fantasize about a whole new episode brought about by that one touch.

④Let your hands explore

While he/she is blindfolded and exploring with both hands, you can lie down.

Take some time to let him/her get to know your curves, skin texture, and sensitive areas, and you can let him/her roam wildly, or guide him/her to touch your favorite parts.

This can help you to "see" each other's bodies in different ways.

4. Blindfolds, How Do They Increase Intimacy?

So far we've talked a lot about the joys of blindfolding. But many partners also long for connection in intimacy.

So, intimacy, can you get anything out of blindfolding?

① It's a new way to connect with your partner

When the man is the one who is blindfolded, you can focus on his pleasure by allowing his body to respond to your touch and find unexpected ways to arouse him. Pay attention to the oh-so-subtle sounds that come out of his mouth and the slight tremors of his body.

You may find that men also have so many sensitive areas.

For men, total control also makes them more aroused and committed to giving each other pleasure.

② He/She who is blindfolded must show trust

In general, sex is vulnerable.

For example, if you can't see what's going on, you're at the mercy of what's going on. You don't know what's going to happen, so you can't object or prepare in advance.

But if you trust your He/She, which is a beautiful thing in itself, you know that He/She will respect and take care of your body. When you trust Him with your whole being, He will give Himself to you with His whole being the next time. This sense of trust will carry over into living without reservation.

Try using a blindfold during lovemaking and sharing your thoughts with each other. If you're not used to it or really don't like it, you can always stop.

But chances are you'll find something interesting, intimate, and refreshing.