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These tips will make you fall in love with vibrators

By GraciaPublished about a year ago 3 min read

I ordered the toy with high expectations, received the delivery and immediately went home to try it out! However, did not feel the expected pleasure, even a little difficult to use, and then full of anger to rate a "not good at all!"

Great leakage sisters!

Toys are good, but not always good!

I bought rose toys, rabbit toys, dildos. After using them for a while, they can feel a little boring.How to use a rabbit vibrator?

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I have some insights.

1, why is it that small toys are not always good?

In fact, not because of the function of small toys, but other reasons: such as time, place, physical condition, and so on, and even the smell of the environment at the time, will affect our experience when we use the feeling.

Imagine if you only have a very urgent 10 minutes can be flushed, after finishing immediately to go out, then you in the whole process is not very nervous, only think of hurrying high, and can not focus on the process of feeling?

This is unable to feel the pure joy of "self-pleasure".

Sex is a broad art, it is integrated into the human emotional experience, physiological experience, a good state of mind, the environment can enhance the pleasure of sex.

2, especially for girls, sex is not easy.

Modern people in the era of rapid change, too much pressure often make people physically and mentally exhausted, some people think that through the pleasure can forget a lot of trouble, but often do not choose the environment and the mood of hasty pleasure, resulting in unexpected more trouble.

Regardless of what kind of pressure in life should be calm heart to solve, do not rely on sex to transfer, can not be solved as well as put aside, grooming themselves.

You can first go to the bathroom to take a hot bath, so that the dense and rising mist slowly infiltrate themselves, there is a bathtub, if it is better to bury themselves in the water, so that all the worries feel with the hot water faded away leisurely.

At this time you can meditate on yourself lying in the warm sea bathed in brilliant sunshine, all their own floating in the vast blue sky, relaxation. 20 minutes after you will be full of spirit, joyful mood, you will feel that life, although there is pressure, but beautiful.

First relax the body to let go of emotions, and then go to start doing things that make the body feel pleasure.

3, the fragrance of the mood has a better role in regulating.

When you are full of fragrance from the bathroom, step into the bedroom fragrance came, the whole person was dyed with love incense, this feeling is how wonderful.

Aroma candle is the best choice, will turn off the lights, watching the candlelight flickering warm and provocative, so that people can not help but want to do something, do not need other foreplay to help, the mood comes.

Recommended lavender, gardenia, chamomile, marigold, sage, mint ... And other natural plant scents, they all have the effect of relaxing the mood and relieving fatigue.

However, it is important to note that a scent that is too strong will put you in a more irritable mood, especially with chemically synthesized fragrances.

Pajamas are actually very important, choose a pajamas you like the best is silk or cotton, close to wear comfortable.

4. Or is a skirt more comfortable?

Many people feel that self-pleasure does not need to dress well, after all, no one to appreciate, big mistake, that is, you have not tried to self-appreciation!

Next time, try to look in the mirror and appreciate your beautiful moment!

The environment must be cozy, a bedroom where you want to unplug and sleep is the best choice.

Turn off the lights, spray some fragrant perfume so that the room is enveloped in a hazy mist of light and fragrance, you can choose a few chic art table lamps, respectively, placed in the quiet corners of the house to create the atmosphere, or the above-mentioned aromatherapy candles.

In the light of the soft light, pour yourself a glass of red wine, romance is not only with your partner, you need to communicate with your body. When you are slightly drunk, it is better to open up and concentrate on "feeling".

The smell and the sight are satisfied, but the sound is still missing, and the soft music will help you to concentrate more on the environment you are in.

If you play music in the background for a long time, it will become a conditioned signal in the sexual realm, and when the condition arises, it will remind you of what happened at that time and how it felt when you were having fun.

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  • Testabout a year ago

    well done

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