My Affair with a Married Man

It began like a modern fairy tale. I was 23 years old, young, curious, and full of dreams. Out of sheer curiosity, I signed up on a sugar dating website to see what the platform had to offer and what kind of people I could meet there. I never would have thought I’d meet someone who would turn my life upside down for over a year.

The Beginning of Our Relationship

He was 44 years old, wealthy, charming, and absolutely confident. His profile immediately caught my attention with its aura of success and power, which radiated from every word. His name was Alexander (or at least, that’s what he told me). He messaged me with a note that was neither cheesy nor pushy - it was perfect. He showed interest in my life, my dreams, and what motivated me.

After a few messages, he invited me to dinner at an exclusive restaurant. I remember how nervous I was when I arrived. But when he stood before me in his expensive suit, with that charming smile and a confidence that filled the room, all my doubts disappeared. The evening was magical. We talked for hours about everything—his work, my goals, our passions. It felt like we had known each other forever.

The Dream Life He Offered Me

With Alexander, I began living a life I had only seen in movies. He was generous, attentive, and knew exactly how to treat a woman like a queen. Expensive Gifts: Designer handbags, jewelry, clothes—I received things I could never have imagined before.

Exclusive Experiences: Our dates were in the city’s best restaurants; we spontaneously traveled to exotic places and stayed in luxurious hotels.

Attention: He listened to me, made me feel special, and always knew how to surprise me.

Intimacy: In bed, he was like a god. He knew exactly how to make me happy, and the chemistry between us was indescribable. I lived in a world I could have never dreamed of. With him, I felt alive, loved, and incredibly desired. Everything seemed perfect—until I found out the truth.

The Shocking Truth

After about three months, I began to notice that Alexander was sometimes more reserved. He started rescheduling dates or becoming unexpectedly unavailable. At first, I didn’t think much of it—after all, he was a successful businessman with a full schedule. But one evening, when he abruptly ended a phone call during our conversation, I became suspicious. I started asking questions. Why couldn’t I ever go to his house? Why was he sometimes so distant? Eventually, after another canceled date, I decided to do some digging. A photo of us, which he had taken during one of our trips, led me to one of his social media profiles—and there it was. He was married. His wife and children were all over his photos. My heart sank, and I felt utterly betrayed.

The Decision to Continue

When I confronted him with the truth, he was honest. He admitted that he was married and explained that he was unhappy in his marriage. He didn’t want to hurt his wife, but he needed something to make him feel alive again - and he found that in me. I was torn. I knew it was wrong, but the feelings I had for him were real. And I was deeply drawn into the world he had opened up to me. Against my better judgment, I decided to continue the relationship. He promised me he would leave his wife, and I believed him.

The Bitter End

Our affair lasted 14 months. They were wild, romantic, and unforgettable months. But like in so many movies, the day came when everything fell apart. His wife found out about us. How exactly, I still don’t know. But Alexander suddenly became a different person. He grew cold, distant, and seemed to do everything in his power to end our relationship without causing his wife any more pain. Our last meeting was short and painful. “I’m sorry,” he said as he hugged me one last time. “But I can’t do this anymore.” I knew it was the end. My heart was broken, but I also knew there was nothing I could do to bring him back.

Reflections on the Time

Looking back, this relationship was like a dream—intense, exciting, but ultimately not real. I learned that not everything that glitters is gold and that secrets in a relationship will always come to light. The dating website Mysugaraddy, where I met him, is a platform for exciting and extraordinary encounters. But it also reminds me of how important it is to be honest—with yourself and with others.

Would I repeat this experience? Probably not. But I will always carry the lessons I learned and the memories of this turbulent time in my heart.