Meet the Sacred Sexual Healers, who use the power of the Divine to heal our genitals.

I began participating in Clubhouse rooms where people talked sex-related issues in July of last year. People would enter the rooms to ask questions of experts who sat on virtual panels.

I soon found myself on these panels as a BDSM specialist. As a former dominatrix, I advised newcomers on how to incorporate kink into their relationships and reassured numerous guys who thought they were weird for having BDSM fantasies.

I had no idea that I would get therapy for my personal sexual problems.

Though I've been open about my sex-work history, many people are unaware that I've struggled with shame as a result of it. I've been embarrassed by my want to learn more about my sexuality in general. And, despite the fact that doing sex work altered my sexuality, I'm still perplexed as to why I opted to do this taboo employment in the first place.

A portion of me has been filled with remorse.

As many of my readers are aware, when I initially began writing on Medium as "Mysterious Witt," I used an avatar to conceal my identity. I gradually felt more at ease with my own tale. I started posting pictures of my body on social media.

I didn't show my face, though. It takes a lot of guts to show up on social media wearing a mask.

Then I took off my mask.

Why?

I owe my gratitude to the divine sexual healers I encountered at Clubhouse, who assisted me in overcoming my shame.

What does it mean to be a holy sexual healer?

To begin, let me define a holy sexual healer. These professionals advise people on how to get more sexual satisfaction in their life.

They accomplish so through assisting their clients in overcoming barriers such as guilt, trauma, and repression. They do this, though, by channeling the divine.

At Clubhouse, I met Lucia Pavone, a holy sexual healer. She encourages her customers to "understand the interconnectedness of the mind, body, and spirit."

Yulia Rose, another holy sexual healer I met through Clubhouse, is another sacred sexual healer I met through Clubhouse. Rose helps her clients remove blocks, heal traumas, and reconnect to joy by accessing the divine spirit.

It's one thing to channel the divine. But how do holy sexual healers go about doing their work?

"Rituals are involved," Pavone explains. I start with breath practice and set up a sacred space."

Sacred sexual healers, on the other side, assist their clients by doing what other therapists won't: working directly with the genitalia.

What methods do holy sexual healers use to treat their patients' genitals?

Pavone believes that healing the body entails releasing the stored sexual repression and shame in the muscles. This includes the area between our genitalia.

Pavone helps her clients "understand what feels nice or painful to the touch, or what feels numb" by using contact to the genitals. These are sites where emotional and bodily trauma is stored when we find these points."

Pavone creates a safe environment for her clients to feel uncomfortable feelings in their genitals, allowing them to release pent energy and recover.

But how can genital healing take place? It was explained to me by Rose.

Rose starts with the breasts when mending vulva-owners. Her clients are instructed to massage their own breasts while avoiding the nipples. Rose tells me that a woman's breasts are frequently stroked solely for the enjoyment of others. As a result, she encourages women to touch their own breasts in order to develop their own self-pleasure practice.

Rose also uses quartz "yoni eggs" to help her vulva-owning clients relieve discomfort and numbness in their vaginal areas. The "egg" is placed in the vaginal canal, and the client breathes and dances with it inside them.

Rose helps her penis-owning clients relieve trauma by touching, stretching, and massaging their penises. Massage of the testicles is sometimes included. Rose massages the tender spots surrounding the crotch for someone who has premature ejaculation.

According to Pavone, our anuses store a lot of emotions. "Have you checked in with your asshole today?" she frequently asks her clients first during a meeting.

"When our assholes are tightened, we're holding in feelings there," Pavone explained.

Massage of the anus and the rest of the genitalia is an important part of the healing process. According to Pavone, people's genitals often seem "disconnected from the rest of the body."

Pavone's clients can "reconnect their nerves" via massage and mapping.

How sacred sexual healers assisted me in overcoming my shame.

However, the question of how these mystical sexual healers assisted me remains unanswered. Despite the fact that I have not had an in-person or even a Zoom session with Pavone or Rose, they have both assisted me in healing.

It's not simply my shame about working in the sex industry that has made my vulva and vagina seem less sensational. Physically, childbirth was also terrible for me.

After giving birth, I suffered numbness in my vaginal area. I'd even go so far as to claim that this is one of the reasons that contributed to my sexless marriage.

After becoming a mother, I lost my libido. But I also lost feeling in my vaginal area. In that state, I didn't want to have sex. Penetration is often painful. When I went to the doctor to seek aid for this problem, I was told that there was nothing they could do.

Years later, when I began to experience difficulty in my clitoris, I was referred to a urologist, who subjected me to rigorous testing, believing I had a urethral illness. I only realized later that the problem was caused by stress.

The doctor made fun of me for being anxious and offered no solutions.

Traditional Western medicine has failed to help me with my sexual issues. I've been left to my own devices to fumble through life.

Finally, I landed on Clubhouse, and I consider myself fortunate that this let me sit on stages with holy sexual healers. I absorbed their nonjudgmental, loving vibe around sex.

This aided my recovery.

I became more aware of how I tension my anus after chatting with Pavone during our interview. I focused on relaxing my anus as well as my vagina, from my cervix to my pelvic floor, as I was making love to my lover recently.

As a result, I had more pleasure and a more intense (relaxed) orgasm during sex.

Given how effective this form of therapeutic work is, you'd think people would be more receptive to it.

That is not the case.

Are sex workers sacred sexual healers?

This work is stigmatized because holy sexual healers touch their clients' genitalia with their hands. People frequently confuse this form of treatment with prostitution.

Neither Rose nor Pavone consider themselves to be sex workers. Their work is unlike anything you'd get from an escort or a sensuous masseuse during a session.

Andrei Knight, a Tantric practitioner who specializes in vulva-owning clients, claims he does not consider his job to be sex work.

During my first session with a customer, he explained that there is no physical touch at all. And when he does touch a customer, it's to feel around the body, not to stimulate them.

He merely makes light contact with the client's body to see how it reacts. External work begins when he touches the vagina. Even when he begins working on the vagina internally, the purpose is not to induce orgasm in the client.

Even still, no one can deny that holy sexual healers' work is sexual in nature. During sessions, arousal can and does occur.

"If a person happens to have an orgasm during the session, that's okay," Rose says. Orgasms do occur from time to time. They are welcome in my sessions. I won't attempt to empower someone just to condemn them if they climax during a genital massage."

The purpose, though, is not to reach a climax. The goal of a session is to strengthen the client's relationship with themself.

This work of healing is misunderstood.

However, because this form of labor is frequently mistaken with prostitution, the general public continues to misunderstand it.

"On social media, we're shadow-banned," Knight explains. "There is no advertising."

Traditional therapist directories do not enable sacred sexual healers to advertise. They must place advertisements in the same directories as traditional sex workers, despite the fact that this is not what they do.

"This merely creates uncertainty for clients," Knight says.

In our world, there is also miscommunication. In most places, Pavone's work is unlawful, while it is permitted in California. In Canada and the Netherlands, it is also legal.

It is an injustice that this work is so vilified. I've witnessed directly how these healers assist others.

They have aided me.

If people could just locate them, they could help so many more people.

In closing.

Sacred sexual healing is a way for people to recover from trauma while also increasing their sexual pleasure, but it's so much more. Pavone believes that healing our bodies from sexual trauma and repression is our responsibility.

"When we repair our bodies via sexuality and sexual pleasure, we are giving healing to the earth," Pavone explained.

Such mending, according to Pavone, is "our contribution to humanity." When we recover sexually, it has an impact on more than just us. "It's an energy that travels around the globe."

When each individual cures their sexual scars, it causes a chain reaction that leads to even greater healing.

A dosage of divine sexual healing could be beneficial to anyone.