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Dating in today's age can be hard and easy at the same time. As the world is connected, it's very easy to find someone you like and make a move. But it gets really hard when you have self-doubt and don't know where to begin with.
Most of the time, self-doubt is about appearance and how you look? Maybe you've been friend-zoned by the women you tried to date before, and so you've developed self-doubt whether you'll be able to date women or not.
Fortunately, with the internet, you can easily get the advice you need to succeed. If you want to make that kind of misery a thing of the past, this post is probably for you.
These are the four most common dating frustration that single guys face and how to overcome them.
Why do Women's never approach you?
If you're waiting for women to come and talk to you, then probably you'll have to wait forever. Even today, it is believed that guy should be the one to approach the girl. It is said that if you want a girlfriend, then take the initiative.
Girls won't come to you unless you're really handsome or a celebrity. They won't make the first move as they don't want to give the impression that they're "easy," and because they're worried about appearing desperate.
Do you really and truly think you have something to offer a decent girl you might like?
If you think you have some good qualities to offer a girl, then go out there and talk to her. Are you scared? Too bad. Most of the time, so is she.
When it comes to women, all you have to do is be bold and believe in yourself. Of course, you'll get rejected many times, don't be afraid and don't think what others will think.
In the world of dating, all you need is little skill and luck. Approach more girls, talk to them. The more you approach, the more you'll have chances of success. For the fastest way to get out of this situation, check out Troy valance's method of finding a date.
You're really insecure about your ability to flirt with women's
When it comes to flirting, most guys usually fail miserably.
A lot of conversation starts with a guy approaching a girl, and then they talk for a while. The conversation is going well, but there seems to be no attraction, and the girl doesn't give any ques either. She doesn't give you any signal that she likes you. Soon the conversation starts to fade out, and you decide better to pull out of the interaction than risk facing awkward silences or run out of things to say.
If you don't know how to have small talks (conversations) in a fun, playful, and flirtatious way, then soon you'll bore her brains out, and she'll lose interest in you. And she'll leave the interaction to find some other dude who knows how to turn her ON "sexually" by being flirty and sexy.
The thing you need to do is learn how to flirt with girls and understand the cues to lead the conversation further. You can also start by simple texting and then moving on to meeting in person, you can take help from
You need to work more on your self-esteem and build confidence to talk to girls. The best way to build self-confidence is to talk to more girls, even if they are just friends. You can also start by simple texting and then moving on to meeting in person, you can take help from here. Building self-confidence isn't easy, it takes time, but soon you'll get the girl you like.
You're terrified of rejection and failure
If you're terrified of rejections? Too bad.
The truth is you'll have to face rejection no matter what. When you go up to a girl and talk to her, chances are maybe you'll ruin the conversation by being shy, not knowing what to speak and how to turn the conversation the way you wanted.
The girl will show you that she is not interested in you by giving you some lame excuse to get out of the conversation, or she will directly tell you no.
Most of the guys at this point don't know what to do. They wonder what went wrong and get depressed.
There is also a chance that you might never approach another girl because of fear of rejection. If you ever get rejected, you need to understand to move on. If you never ask a girl out, you will keep wondering what her answer could be. So it's better to ask rather than just wonder about her answer.
You can't get laid
If this is your problem, you seriously need to ask yourself why would a woman want to have sex with you?
It's not about how you look or how rich you are. It's more about how you present yourself, be hygienic, be confident, be engaging in conversation and meetings. Try to know her before thinking about sex. If you directly go for the instant kill: you want sex, it's not going to work. It's true most women like sex, but they want to get to know the guy first before going sexual with him.
There is also another problem where you end up becoming her friend rather than a boyfriend. Most of the decent guys end up in this situation; what you need to do is find a girl outside your friend circle. So just be a little patient, put in a little effort, and you might just start to see some results.
So if you're facing any of such problems and it seems your dating life is not working well. Maybe you need to take a little break and rethink how you can freshly start again?
In dating all, it comes down to little skills and self-esteem. It does matter how you can handle rejection and present yourself as not being desperate.
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