Finding a Sugar Daddy 101

When I was 25 years old I started my first Only Fans account. I was in the hopes of ending up like all of the other high dollar earners bragging on my TikTok just for you page. I didn’t realize however that I would earn most of my money from 1 person through some txt messages.

I spent my first week creating some pretty juicy content to schedule to be posted the next week and advertised with a mediocre self done boudoir photo shoot on TikTok. I set up tip goals to see who would spend the most money. I even advertised on my FetLife account I was on OF and looking for a virtual sugar daddy.

Within a few days time I found my guy! He was my highest tipper so I decided to be more friendly with him through messaging. Once he felt like I was into him I started talking about how attractive it was how much money he was spending on me. I put the marbles on the table. I told him I was married and not looking for any sort of emotional relationship but I wanted to find someone to spoil me. Making a point to let him know I was wanting something virtual and an allowance. In return he would have unlimited texting and a very personal online experience from me. I would talk to him and make him feel special and he would also get personal content. He agreed immediately.

To test the waters I asked if he could fulfill my tip request on my next post just so I had an idea with how much I would be able ask for. I set my tip amount for $450 the next day and he fulfilled the whole thing. In addition he sent me money and spent a few hundred in subscription boxes for me I had been wanting. I set up a contract for $1000 a week and he also continued to send extra through OF.

Now this is the FIRST AND ONLY time I have ever tried finding a Sugar daddy. It worked immediately and helped me with income as a stay at home mom. I made the expectations clear on what I could give him and also had great communication with my husband about evething.

Step 1. Make your OF account and upload scheduled content.

Step 2. Advertisement is key. You need to advertise on a platform to try to flock in at least your first 30 followers to help draw engagement to your posts creating a more established feel to your page. That's when you advertise on a more fetish inclusive site to flock in the prey.

Step 3. Find your highest paying follower and target them in your Messages to make things feel more personal.

Step 4. Be strait forward and honest! I can't stress that enough. In order for things to work long term you need to be straight forward with what you can provide and what your expectations are. The more you set expectations and meet those expectations tbe better sugar baby you are and that means more gifts.

Step 5. Make sure you uphold your morals and stay true to what you value. Just because you set an expectation and you are accepting money doesn't mean you get to be controlled. If you simply don't feel comfortable with something don't be afraid to say no.

Step 6. Have fun! Probably one of my biggest rules. If you wanted to feel obligated or resentment you would be working your 9-5 instead!

So If you are looking to find a Sugar daddy it can be as easy as melting a stick of butter if you have a good and honest strategy. Just remember to only ever do what is legal and you are comfortable with.