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Drinking and flirting are really good, but I'm afraid penis won't be erect

Jane Li

By Jane LiPublished 8 months ago 3 min read

Have you ever wondered, "Why does alcohol seem to have this magical power to unlock desires and shut down rationality?" It turns out this has to do with substances inside our bodies.



Our brains are incredibly complex and somewhat mysterious, with a nervous system that secretes various neurotransmitters. These neurotransmitters act like messengers, helping the brain send signals to other parts of our body. Among them is "endorphin," often called "natural morphine," which is closely linked to our feelings of pleasure.



The Mysterious Neurotransmitter That Brings Happiness



When alcohol enters the body, it stimulates the brain. The rational part of our brain weakens, reducing our rationality and willpower. At the same time, the brain releases a surge of endorphins, creating a feeling of euphoria. As rationality fades, our emotional thoughts and inner desires easily emerge, making us feel happy and carefree. For example, when we fall in love or have a crush, endorphins play a crucial role. Similarly, phenomena like "alcohol-fueled mistakes" or "speaking one's mind when drunk" are also due to the effects of endorphins. Understanding this explains why alcohol, which stimulates the release of endorphins, is so beloved by humans.



The Pursuit of Desire and Pleasure Is an Innate Human Instinct



The pursuit of desire and pleasure, much like sexual urges, is an innate human instinct. Often, people lament how happy times fly by and beautiful moments are fleeting. This leads to various activities aimed at relieving stress and seeking pleasure, with alcohol often playing a key role. As one of the greatest human pleasures, sex naturally pairs well with alcohol to enhance the experience.



A Drink Can Set the Mood, but Too Much Might Leave You impotent



Men, take note! Alcohol can enhance your libido, but only in moderation. If you drink without restraint, the effects can backfire. For most people, a small amount of alcohol or low-alcohol beverages can slightly elevate mood and create a sense of well-being. In sexual situations, it can also boost libido and heighten sensory awareness, which is why many people enjoy the slightly tipsy feeling during intimate moments.



Drinking a little can help those who are usually reserved open up and embrace intimacy. It can also create a romantic atmosphere. However, if men drink excessively with the sole intent of unleashing their masculine instincts, they might achieve the opposite effect. We’ve all seen people become embarrassed or make fools of themselves when they’ve drunk too much. Not only does this damage their image and charm, but it can also ruin the sexual experience, leaving one passed out before any real pleasure begins. This is counterproductive and a waste of effort. Let’s explore some awkward situations that can arise from drinking too much:



1. **No Pleasure, Just Endless Thrusting**: For many men, a little alcohol can slightly suppress physiological sexual excitement without affecting sexual function. This can delay ejaculation and prolong intercourse. However, drinking too much can numb the nerves, making it hard for the genitals to become erect. Sensitivity drops significantly, and the experience becomes less comfortable. If your partner needs longer intercourse to be satisfied, this might be a problem. Otherwise, the extended time might lead to discomfort, dryness, or even pain for your partner, and you might not enjoy it as much either.



2. **Physical Numbness and Loss of Control**: When you’re drunk, your body feels foreign, and your strength becomes difficult to control. Good foreplay requires gentle and focused attention. If you can’t control your movements and力度, you won’t satisfy your partner and might even cause them pain, leading to disappointment for both of you.



3. **Stomach Bloating and Discomfort**: Alcohol can cause bloating. Drinking too much can make certain positions uncomfortable during sex. In some cases, the pressure from specific positions might even trigger nausea or vomiting, ruining the mood.



4. **Calling the Wrong Name or Saying the Wrong Thing**: This one’s self-explanatory! If you’re drunk and accidentally call the wrong name or say something inappropriate during sex, the consequences could be severe. Those who tend to speak without thinking when drunk should definitely avoid overindulging.



In summary, while alcohol can enhance sexual experiences and make both parties happier, it’s crucial to drink in moderation. If you drink too much and can’t get an erection, all your efforts to have sex will be in vain.

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