"Perfection Is an Illusion"

"Perfection Is an Illusion"

As a child, Sarah had always been ideal. That is what her parents expected her to be, anyway. She had received accolades for her academic success, her well-behaved manner, and her capacity to perform exceptionally well in all she attempted throughout her early years. However, Sarah had a weight that no one ever saw beneath the smiles. She feared failing.

The pressure increased with Sarah's age. She had the same attitude when she started college: excellence was the aim and anything less was not good enough. She never gave herself a break or a chance to enjoy herself; she studied nonstop. Her incessant urge to perform kept her up at night, obsessing over every aspect of her homework, every discussion with her teachers, and every encounter with her classmates. She was so terrified of making a mistake that it influenced almost every choice she made.

Soon after, Sarah started to see flaws in her seemingly ideal existence. She began to have anxiety attacks, which were occasionally brought on by the slightest things, such as a typo in an essay, a friend's remark that she misunderstood, or the fear that someone would think less of her. She felt empty despite her accomplishments, as if something significant was lacking. But she was unable to identify it. Was not she accomplishing all that she was meant to?

Sarah found herself in a tiny café one evening, attempting to get rid of the crippling strain that had gripped her. After aiming for an A+, she recently obtained an A-, a mark she was not totally happy with. As she considered the ramifications of that negative, her heart raced. It was an indication of failure in her mind.

An older woman at the next table noted her concern as she sat there, deep in meditation. "You seem like you are bearing the weight of the world," the woman said softly, her face wrinkled with years of experience. Could you tell me what is on your mind?

After hesitating, Sarah suddenly felt compelled to share. "I simply... I have no idea what is wrong with me. Even though I have been working so hard for so long, it never seems to be enough. I feel like I am never reaching my full potential, even if I make all the correct decisions and have decent marks. I feel as though I am not permitted to make mistakes.

The elderly woman nodded sympathetically and smiled gently. "You know, I had the exact same thinking when I was your age. I tried to be the best at everything. I believed it would be the end of the world if I made a mistake. However, as I grew older, I saw that perfection is a myth. It is nonexistent. Additionally, your fear of failing will keep you imprisoned in a situation that you created for yourself.

Unsure of how to react, Sarah blinked. She was unfamiliar with the concept. How was she ever going to quit trying to be perfect? How was she ever going to let herself fail?

With a gentle yet forceful tone, the woman went on. "I am not saying do not give it your all. However, you must acknowledge that errors are inevitable in life. These are the times when we develop and gain knowledge. You will miss out on the joy of finding your true self if you are constantly preoccupied with avoiding failure.

Sarah experienced clarity for the first time in a long time. She had so meticulously created an ideal of perfection in her head, but it was really a trap. She was not supposed to be perfect. She was supposed to be human, to have both successes and setbacks. Her intrinsic value came from simply existing; it was not based on her accomplishments or grades.

Sarah arrived for class the following day in a new frame of mind. She attended the talk without attempting to win anyone over or caring about what other people might think of her. She relaxed her tight hold on every aspect of her life. She deliberately tried to enjoy the times when things did not go as planned. She did not punish herself if she made a mistake in class. She told herself that it was acceptable if her grade was not nearly as good as she had planned.

Sarah eventually discovered how to treat herself with more kindness. She began to see every mistake as a chance to improve rather than as a sign of failure. Instead of continuously worrying about the outcome, she discovered delight in the process. The fear that had held her captive started to fade with every day. She started to see that real freedom came from accepting herself as she was and appreciating her imperfections rather than striving for perfection.

Not only was Sarah achieving the grades she had always aimed for by the conclusion of the semester, but she was also at last content with who she was. She no longer felt as though her own expectations were holding her captive. Rather, she had learned the most important lesson of all: being true to herself and accepting her humanity was more important than striving for perfection.

Sarah experienced a wave of peace as she crossed the graduating stage. She had finally reached a position of self-acceptance, rather than perfection, for the first time in her life. As she was, she was sufficient. And she knew that was the biggest accomplishment of all.

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