''Our Daughter Has Changed...''

➡️🛑A mother called me and said this. I am not talking about my problem but about our daughter..

🛑She is now 17 years old and studying for her A-level..

She used to be a very good child, she studied very well, got an A9 in the Ordinary Level. She is doing Maths in her A-level. She has a younger sister and a younger brother.

But recently she has been very different.

She gets really angry with us..

She doesn't bathe properly, I am ashamed to say this about a girl. But I will say this.

🛑Not only does she not bathe. She doesn't brush her teeth for days. She wears the same clothes for four or five days. She wears her underwear for days. She can't go near her because she stinks.

🛑When we say that she smells like you, she fights with us to take a bath and wash her body.

She is very restless and has a sudden urge. Things are always falling from her hands, cups and plates are breaking.

He gets hurt when he goes to do some work. For example, if he tries to cut something with a knife, his hand gets cut.

He forgets things. He doesn't remember what he said.

He does a lot of work halfway.

When asked something, he answers it with difficulty after remembering it well and mumbling. That is, I understand that he is very good at remembering things to say to what we ask.

If you ask him about class today..

Hmm.. I have to see that. Sir, he hasn't left anything yet. Maybe there will be. Hmm. Like that.

🛑He always likes to stay in his room. He goes to the room and closes the door. He closes the windows. He stays in the dark most of the time. He likes to stay in the dark. He always has his phone with his laptop.

He connects to online classes. He connects to them from his laptop but he doesn't keep the phone on the side, that's also in his hand.

The room is like a madhouse. If I don't clean it, it becomes like a devil's dance floor.

🛑He gets hungry like a devil. He stays there from morning till evening without even water. He comes to the kitchen and eats and drinks everything that is available. After eating, he goes to his room. He also eats while looking at the phone.

🛑He constantly bites his lips. He gets bruised. He bites his nails.

What happened to this child...

In the past two or three months, parents have told me about such children. Such children have come to meet me.

Most of them are between the ages of ten and twenty. Those who are studying secondary education.

After checking the information notes etc. I realized that all of them, regardless of gender, show characteristics and behaviors similar to the above child.

Some were.

🛑He categorically refuses to go to school.

He has no friends at all. He spends the whole day in his house and room. Some people stayed at home for a month and a half.

🛑A girl came to me. She says she is addicted to excessive masturbation. She masturbates eight times a day. She has set up the appropriate environment in her room. Slightly dark, the room is covered with curtains and doors. That environment makes her very good at masturbating and she gets a lot of stimulation from that environment.

🛑I love the smell that comes from my vagina. I feel it a lot. That feeling disappears after bathing. I really like the naked, naked, lazy look.

But there are some people who take a bath and stay clean and tidy.

So what is the real reason for this situation? Why have these people become like this?

I understood the main reason.

🛑Online class. Or online education.

Why is that happening.

Think about the difference between the education that a child receives in a classroom in a learning environment and the education that a child receives online in a room at home.

In a classroom, the teacher is seen. The other children are seen. The teaching aids are seen. They are mixed with these.

But is the situation in an online class the same? There, everything is seen through a screen.

One might think that the same thing happens in both.

No, it doesn't.

That difference strongly leads to such a situation. A child can become mentally confused and therefore develop mental and physical complications. Various addictions and behavioral and emotional distortions occur.

There are two ways in which a child relates to a physical class and an online class.

Preparation.

Mental and physical. Think about how.

Let's say a child usually has a schedule for his physical class. He needs to be ready to go to it. You need to take a bath, get clean, wear appropriate clothes. You need to comb your hair. You need to eat.

You need to go to class by bus or some other means. Then you are responsible for yourself. You cannot avoid that.

But you don't need any of that to join an online class in your room at home. Then how it affects your behavior and habits.

Reduced attention and memory. ⁣

The reason for the reduced attention and memory in these people is the lack of responsibility for themselves.

Then the things taught don't go into their heads properly.

That is also the reason for the dirtiness and disorder.

That is why they are very addicted to the phone.

These people are very susceptible to mental stress and depression. That is why they get angry quickly. They get sad quickly.