Gossip is an ability

Saying that a person is boring and not upscale, a word often used is "gossip". It seems that people who love gossip always have no taste, vulgar, gossip is the patent of silk. The rich and handsome white beauty is not gossip, even if gossip, said the silk is also used to pretend to be the topic.

So, those who do not want to admit that they gossip, feel that they are unique, especially elegant, but the heart is full of all the gossip topics like a virgin thumping heart. Gossip is harmless, to gossip to not let people feel long-tongued very annoying, but difficult, gossip or virtue and art. The point is, nowadays the test is not whether you can eight, but will not eight.

You can't talk to people about life and ideals, right? You can't drag the English language wherever you want to drink ice water and eat oil bars spray six, god, right? You can't tell him what brand of bag you use to turn the label out on the other person's face and curse him for not recognizing the logo, right?

Therefore, in many cases, pretending only for certain occasions, while gossip applies to a variety of occasions. Many things are most commonly spread through gossip. Having the ability to gossip will be the best taste.

Each office has so many special gossip colleagues, but in fact, with this gossip colleagues get along well, and more or less benefit. Our unit is, a little girl after 85, the news is particularly well-informed, especially will inquire, the whole company, there is no matter she does not know. Today the boss is in a good or bad mood, and departments are about to lay off staff, who is favored in recent days, who is out of favor, are well known. Once when chatting, she suddenly said to me seriously, you recently be careful, send an email copy to the BOSS, don't be afraid of trouble! At that time I did not feel anything, but later learned that the BOSS those days think we have nothing to do, the workload is not saturated, want to reduce some staff costs. After she reminded me of that time, I sent a few more emails, actually letting the BOSS see what I was doing, not only smoothly solving the suspicion but surprisingly that month also a few hundred more bonus.

Later once she said to me, you think I was bored to gossip is a trade-off, with the BOSS secretary eight, eight with the personnel department, and even with the cleaning lady eight, are not the same, but there are gains. It seems that she is a person who will gossip!

The other one in the office is a big sister in the business department. She is the company's business leader, the kind of people who want to take her with them when they go out to meet customers, wherever there are people, as long as she is there, it will never be cold. Go to the airport to pick up customers you've never met, this job sounds easy it is very difficult to do, a stranger, you have to know what to say to him, can not just sit there and ignore him! That big sister is the kind of jukebox, anyway, no matter what can find a topic to say.

When you meet a fashionable dress will talk about clothes, cosmetics, luxury goods, no woman does not like this; meet a simple slightly older, talk about children, milk powder, education, as long as there are children, who are willing to talk about their own children's affairs; meet the male, talk about the workplace, cars, women, news, weather, cell phones, encounter a moment to see the preference, ask him about the city in various situations, in short In a word, if you can talk, talk, there is drama, people and people are like this, feel close to you, will be subconsciously biased towards you, this is the subtle rules.

Gossip about this thing is everywhere. The workplace needs gossip, the love field needs more gossip. Such things as dating. You know, blind dates can be the coldest field can not. If the whole field has been quiet, not pretending to be able to solve, and the direct consequences may be, the other side is directly away. You still think people will sing to you "to your love has been very quiet" it!

Once a friend went on a blind date, and the other party is a very shy girl, or his mother came together. The parents were present, the atmosphere was already formal and tenser, then inadvertently talking about cooking, found that the girl seems to be quite good at cooking, and began to talk about cooking, introducing my male friend who likes to cook, what gourmet Wenyi microblogging, Betty's Kitchen, two dishes and a soup website, will be concerned about the food-related microblogging are introduced to her, and from this to what delicious restaurants, in the restaurant The girl then invited to do a "Pizza Hut" at home, so that the cultivation of feelings, from the success, will be far away!