Don't tell others what to do with their lives

　　I do not know when some articles on the platform are very fond of saying how life is how that kind of life is more dashing, flower arrangement hobbies, efforts to move up, struggle to persist, skills, no matter what is said, the back to add a sentence such a life will be more beautiful and so on blessing.

　　The fees for these articles are still quite substantial. But not quite willing to train themselves to write in these areas, three views do not match: hobbies and skills these things are like a romantic encounter, I can start making tea because I traveled to a place like the tea in the water village, can be used to seeing the landscape decided to draw them down like painting, but can not start hobby because it is purely a hobby. Because there is no emotional basis. Any hobby if there is a desire to share to show off immediately will become a chore, life once pleased to live to people, immediately tired.

　　Skills are the same, a happy person should not have a variety of skills, because they are often forced out by survival, such as salespeople stand a day Utah can work, smile to people, and do anything clean. As if the writer even if the flu fever will still knock out a short piece in front of the computer, this was trained out of something nothing good to be happy about. The true pride of the craft is often discovered and trained by themselves, just like the old man of the peach blossom would say: "not enough for outsiders." Anything with emotion is not very willing to be judged by others. It is like some kind of private treasure that is kept from people just to not hear harsh comments.

　　 Don't say something bad about what makes a person different, because that may well be that person's strength. He is hard-working and motivated and hard-working, don't change the tone with a wary voice to, "He's a very ambitious person." She's smart and agile and creative, don't use a tone of disgust and say, "She's a little weird." I've seen a lot of these little people, heard countless others say bad things about someone to me, and heard all kinds of fake nice things without any polite accusations.

　　If it's not particularly excessive, most will laugh it off, or else say, "Not, for example, cloudy." That person then silent down, very uncomfortable with me.

A lot of people around you, in fact, like to tell others what to do with their lives, as small as their fonts are neat, they think you write cursive is ugly. The big to their own life is restless, they feel that others are busy in the leisure are willing to mediocrity, life is not good. The chattering and chattering of your own life said quiet people are introverted, so how to integrate with others? And then they got married, they went around persuading people that this is the most important thing in human nature. Life is never short of all kinds of fiddling with people, sesame and green beans things far-fetched will sign up your character future.

　　A road is always a person walking, walking with their heads in the sand people still care to talk to the next person? I can not see this kind of people presuming to talk about friends, simply pull down the level of these two words!

　　The important thing is to know where you are going, how to go, other does not matter, age and geometry of achievement or this road is not the back way how does not matter.

　　You can go on without worrying about it, the people who tell you what to do are indifferent to it, after all, the people who sincerely guide you, there will not be a few in life, do not waste energy on people who do not deserve to care.

I prefer to classify these people as colleagues, classmates, rather than friends. Friends need to understand each other, not vilify you.