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Congratulations to the lone woman

Your unsociable, is the soul of the expensive.

By Brandy R AshbaughPublished 3 years ago 4 min read

Don't belong to your umbrella, don't shelter from the rain; Don't try to fit in when you're not in your league.

We always try hard to catch up with the bustling place, in the city, trying to be a talker, afraid of being forgotten.

After all, you will understand, gregarious is a group of people's loneliness, alone is a person's carnival. Not you want to fit in, will be accepted, others just play you as a monkey.

Smart woman, social is very casual, do not have suitable friends, would rather walk alone.

In a group, the person who impresses is not the one who keeps talking, but the one who is quiet.

One writer said: "In such a big city, the most beautiful thing is not the high-rise buildings, not the bustling traffic, but the quiet park, or a lake."

Bustling, quiet woman, is not that a pool of water?

It can also be imagined that there are out of the lake silt and not dyed lotus, free fish and shrimp, there are ripples from the breeze...... Terraces, Bridges, reflections on the water. Natural picture scroll, dignified and expensive gas.

Women who can "stand out from the crowd" are always quiet. At any time, you are a bystander, live fully.

Inner quiet, let a woman become more temperament. Like a book, open, not read, there is a bookish smell.

Dinner on the dirty, can be seen.

A lot of women, when they get drunk, are taken to where they don't know, and are at the mercy of others. In case of being bullied, also dare not make public, for fear of destroying their reputation.

Women who refuse to fit in, go home immediately after work, eat with the family, and read with the children. In your spare time, take a family trip to see the sights in your neighborhood.

There's no end to the money. It's not worth it. It would be foolish of you to try to squeeze yourself into the wrong circle for money.

Famous educator Suhomlinsky once said: "the power to establish and consolidate the family - is love, is the father and mother, father and child, mother and child between each other loyal, pure love."

Husband and wife return home, is the most beautiful scenery, than rich good ten thousand times.

Your antisocial, is clean and free.

What really limits a person is not money, not a house, not a job, but "the cage of the heart".

The circle is compared to a wall, people in the wall, will become a "prisoner" word.

The circle of strong fusion, not to help you go further and further, but to imprison you.

In the TV drama "Half Life", Lu is a pitiful woman who makes people feel sorry for her. After her father died, she became the breadwinner of the family, working as a dance girl to support the family.

During, and two men love, there is no ending. Out of youth, she married Zhu Hongcai. But Zhu Hong is not reliable.

In the field mixed habits of Man Lu, want to rely on their own life, but always in the fall.

In order to stabilize the family, Lu also designed her husband to spoil her sister.

Finally, Lu died of illness, leaving too many regrets in life.

Romantic place, lively, but mixed. When a woman's front foot goes in, there's no getting out. This is murky water.

If, the original Man Lu did not go to be a dancer, the outcome can be rewritten? Reality tells you, life is not "what if".

Smart women, who don't fit in, will definitely stay away from "murky" places. Even if they are poor to the point of begging, also won't injustice themselves, with a flattering way to survive.

You don't fit in, is to meet a better yourself.

If you go too far, you will forget the way you came. Only when you are alone, can you find it.

What do you need in this life? At the beginning, what lofty ideals? Calm down, think, the original oneself, is also a person with ideals, personality.

In this life, we will meet a lot of people, but will not meet yourself. We always stare at the dust on others' faces, look at others' faces to do things, quietly wronged themselves.

Women who don't fit in, leave a lot of time for quiet reflection. An old saying goes, "Sit still and think about your faults." Find their own strengths and weaknesses, the days after, the advantages and disadvantages, less fault, more beautiful.

No, always stare at others, learn to reflect on yourself, love yourself. Your unsociability is a healthy life.

"Three women at a time", in the group, the most chatting women, attracted the attention of others, but also easy to offend people, but the interpersonal relationship is messed up.

At dinner, the woman who was laughing so hard always got herself drunk, broke down and was taken advantage of.

In the workplace, no one can squeeze into all the circles, the woman who tries her best to join others is always "thankless". Offended any group of people, it is not a good thing, career can not be healthy development.

Women, they get older. When the prosperity is gone, a healthy body, a comfortable life and a warm family are your greatest wealth.

Congrats to misfits. You look really cool when you're on your own.

May you, in your alone time, live a simple and simple life.

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About the Creator

Brandy R Ashbaugh

I have many stories to tell as I navigate the seas of spiritual awakening and my journey of self-realization. I just want to dedicate my life to writing, so I'm going to submit stories to as many communities as possible.

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