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Why Do Dementia Patients Want to Go All the Time?

Understanding the Constant Desire to Leave: A Deep Dive into Dementia Behavior

By Rachel RandallPublished about a year ago 3 min read
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Most patients with dementia experience a chronic compulsion to leave their environment, a phenomenon that may be quite mystifying and stressful for carers. This phenomenon, which has been referred to as "wandering" or "exit-seeking," is due to various psychological and physiological reasons. Knowing the causes behind such behaviors can help ensure their care and safety.

Cognitive Confusion and Memory Impairment

Cognitive disorientation is one of the main reasons for which dementia patients want to go. Patients with dementia forget where they are and why they are there during the progression of the illness. This confusion makes them believe that they need to leave in order to return to a safe place, such as a childhood home. These patients think that they have to resume the former life of going to work or looking after a family member. As such, they often leave without proper authorization.

Anxiety and Restlessness: Emotional Patterns

Anxiety and restlessness often occur in the emotional expressions of patients with dementia. At times, they feel overawed by new surroundings or unaccustomed routines that provoke them to seek solace in familiar places. "Sundowning," the term for this behavior, tends to increase during late afternoon to early evening. Restlessness comes from their unfulfilled emotional needs, so constant urges to move or "go" prevail.

Environmental Triggers and Overstimulation

Dementia patients are highly susceptible to environmental stimuli. Bright lights, loud noises, and crowded rooms can easily stimulate reactions of anxiety and agitation. At their worst, they retreat into themselves to avoid their environment. A peaceful environment, with an orderly room layout, helps avoid wandering and creates more comfort for the patient to feel safe.

Boredom and Lack of Engagement

The second possible cause of exit-seeking behavior can be a lack of mental stimulation. When dementia patients do not have meaningful activities, they get bored and start roaming around in search of something to do. Tailor-made activities like music therapy, gardening, or even simple crafts make them less bored and consequently less likely to leave the facility.

Do Dementia Patients Sleep a Lot? The Link Between Fatigue and Wandering

While some patients of dementia act restless and want to leave, others may become excessively tired. The question is: do dementia patients sleep a lot? Yes, because sleep in patients suffering from dementia occurs in a really unsteady pattern. Broken sleep definitely contributes to daytime fatigue, confusion, and increased nocturnal wandering. After all, sleep disorders should be treated correctly by a doctor and, by adjustment of regime routines, reduce the tendency of wandering.

Medical Conditions and Medication Side Effects

Some medical conditions like UTIs, dehydration, or pain may exacerbate restlessness and induce wandering. Some medications that are used to treat dementia-related symptoms have side effects that may be related to increased anxiety or disorientation. Routine medical checks will help detect these risk factors and reduce them so that patients are well cared for.

Wandering Management: Tips for the Caregiver

Create a Routine

A routine daily program provides predictability and eliminates anxiety in patients with dementia. Consistency in timing of meals, activities, and rest periods helps patients anchor to their surroundings, lessening the need to leave.

Utilize Visual Cues and Signage

Visual cues, such as color-coded signs or familiar photographs, help the patient more easily navigate his or her environment. Labels on doors or specific areas can prevent confusion and deter wandering.

Provide Reassurance and Redirection

If the patient with dementia insists on leaving, then being calm and reassuring and refocusing his or her attention on another activity will help. Reassuring the patient while diverting the focus through phrases can avoid frustration and agitation.

Increase Safety Features

There may be installation of motion sensors, door alarms, and lockable doors to make patients understand that they should not wander out unnoticed. Even proper identification with GPS-trackers or medical ID-watches will help locate these lost persons sooner or later.

Role for memory care assisted living homes:

For families struggling to manage a loved one's wandering tendencies, memory care assisted living facilities offer specialized environments designed for dementia patients. These facilities provide 24/7 supervision, secure surroundings, and tailored care plans that address individual behavioral needs, ensuring both safety and dignity.

Conclusion

Dementia patients' persistent desire to leave is a cognitive-emotional and environmental phenomenon. Cognition, emotion, and environmental causes of this phenomenon require proper understanding and practical handling, and caregivers can very well manage wandering behavior as such along with their quality of life, with proper sleep, remediation of medical issues, and provision of a structured environment that reduces this behavior.

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About the Creator

Rachel Randall

Rachel Randall is a compassionate advocate in the field of senior care, specializing in Independent Living Cottages, Assisted Living, and Memory Care services. With a deep commitment to enhancing the lives of older adults.

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