The sign that a man truly loves someone: restraint

As we all know, there are only two states in love, like and love.

Liking is an instinctive desire to get close and take, like plucking a rose when you see it.

Love is the hand reaching out but drawing back, because blooming is a rose's dream.

From liking to falling in love, it is the process of slowly putting down self to fulfill each other. Liking can be very presumptuous, but love is restrained.

A man who truly loves someone will restrain himself in the following areas.

Resist temptations

A man likes a woman, must want and possess each other.

And a man falls in love with a woman, in addition to want and possession, but also for each other's sake, thus more restrained.

Duras said: a person loves you, his eyes will have pity, if not love, only desire.

For example, no matter what you are doing, a man who calls and asks you to accompany him is just asking for the value of your company.

A man who won't allow you to have any contact with the opposite sex, even normal communication, is just trying to satisfy his need for control.

"I'm doing this because I love you so much" is one of the biggest misunderstandings about love, and it hurts so many people.

It's also easy for girls to indulge in this feeling of being "cared about", but caring without a measure is a form of control.

Not every man knows how to love someone, but if a man does not care about your feelings, his love is superficial and deformed.

Love that is wholly self-centered is not true love.

Truly good love requires respect for the other person, consideration of their feelings and boundaries, and more importantly, measurement of the impact of your actions on the other person.

Forbearance does not mean that you are afraid or lack courage, but that you will be hurt if you do something wrong.

On a dating show, a girl asked two guys, "What would you do if I was menstruating and really wanted ice cream?"

Boy A said: Yes, if you want to.

Boy B hesitated a little and said, I won't buy it for you, but I'll wait a few days before I buy it for you.

We will be addicted to A's "good to me", and abandon the boy B "brains", but so missed the real love you.

If he around you, occasionally to you about to say but stop, occasionally to you "cold", although not with vigour and vitality, but may be another deep love.

Remember, love is straight to the point, love is a detour.

The man who falls in love with you from the bottom of his heart must know how to control his desires.

Control one's natural temper

When two people get along for a long time, they have to face the real parts of each other.

Used to like your quiet independence, now hate your cold and lonely. Once enamored of his humor, I now resent his glibness.

When the filter of love is gone, nature is exposed.

This time, is the test of love stage.

A indifferent man, will be free to release their temper, just for the sake of the diagram of a quick tongue, and even in life when the conflict, say some harsh words, hurt each other's feelings.

Most of the time, the heart is clearly love each other, but the outbreak of emotion held the nose.

If you have love in your heart, you must be able to express it. If you don't know how to control your temper, how can others feel your love?

Some people in the name of love, to love disorderly temper, throw things, it is not complimentary.

A man who knows love, and truly loves you, will care for you carefully, will be afraid of their anger to burn the loved one, will think twice.

Mr. A was also a very impulsive person, used to vigorous and resolute in the workplace, and easy to bring back the style of work.

During the first two years of our marriage, I did suffer a lot from his outspoken and casual temper tantrums. During those two years, our relationship was so strained that I felt he didn't love me at all.

He saw my dissatisfaction and sadness, we had a deep communication, he also made a deep reflection.

In fact, he loves me, but he doesn't know how to control his temper is so important to maintain a relationship. Fortunately, we both corrected in time and found our love for each other.

Psychologist Fromm said: love is not instinct, but a kind of ability.

When a man truly loves a woman, he stops to think about how his behavior makes him feel, controls his temper, and learns to love better.

Even if they are not happy, will restrain, will not bear their loved ones hurt.

Since love, two people are not completely separate individuals, but need to build a common world, you have me, I have you.

Only know how to control their natural temper, can see the extent of a man's love, such love, can also make people better.

Refrain from heterosexual relationships

Love has exclusivity, on the one hand, hope to become each other's preference, on the other hand, do not want each other to have the opposite sex close friends.

If a man says he loves you but has an affair with another man behind your back, he probably doesn't love you or isn't in love with you yet.

Two-dating behavior is repulsive, love a person will consciously do loyalty.

They understand, once not loyal to the feelings, will hurt each other, who really love you, how can bear to let you cry?

In today's society, because of the convenience of the Internet and the development of social media, romantic relationships are everywhere.

And the man who truly loves you, no matter how many attractive members of the opposite sex are around, he only cares about you, he will take the initiative to close the signal to others, and will deliberately keep a proper distance with the opposite sex.

He will refrain from chatting with the opposite sex but post pictures of you together.

He will refrain from using social media, but instead set his phone screen to take a picture of the two of you.

In short, a man falls in love with you, will be unbridled "show off" you, and extremely restricted circle of heterosexual friends.

Reader Zeng Jie used to be a womanizer. According to his description, he could "love" each other while feeling that he had never really loved each other.

Until he met Li Xin, he did not understand the feeling of really falling in love with a person.

According to him, he is not interested in other women instinctively, eyes are all Li Xin.

Action will also be very restrained, will refuse other opposite sex invitation, more won't do anything to let Li Core misunderstanding, the in the mind has an obvious "rules and regulations".

Fall in love with you from the heart of the man, must be doubly cherish you, carefully care for you.

There is no clear boundary between love and love, but love needs time to precipitation.

Everyone's language of love is different, and their understanding and mastery of love are also different.

If liking is presumptuous and love is restraint, as long as you treat it sincerely, you will wait for the day when he "restrains" you.

When he learns to control his desires, when he tries to control his temper, when he decides to control his relationship with the opposite sex, he truly loves you.

May you cherish the one who loves you.