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The Forgotten Man

The Resilience

By Victor Obanor Osagie Published about a year ago 7 min read
CHAPTER 3

Thompson’s life had been shaped by the relentless grind of poverty, by the weight of responsibilities far too heavy for a boy his age. But behind the struggles of his everyday life lay another story, one that was often pushed to the back of his mind; his father’s story.

Thompson’s father had once been a proud man, a provider who worked hard to support his family. He had been employed by a construction company in Lagos, a city far removed from the small town where Thompson and his family lived. The job had been tough, physically demanding, but it had paid well enough to keep his family afloat. For years, Thompson’s father had sent money home, his wages the lifeline that allowed them to survive. But then, everything changed.

The construction industry in Lagos was a brutal world, one where workers were treated as disposable, their safety often sacrificed in the name of profit. Thompson’s father had seen it happen to others—good men who were injured or killed on the job, their families left with nothing but grief. He had always believed that he was strong enough, careful enough, to avoid such a fate. But fate had other plans.

One day, without warning, the company laid off a large portion of its workforce. The news had hit Thompson’s father like a sledgehammer to the chest. He had been one of the unlucky ones, handed a small severance package that was barely enough to cover his rent for a few months. With no job, no steady income, and no prospects in sight, he found himself adrift in a city that cared little for the plight of men like him.

Thompson had been too young to fully understand what was happening at the time, but he remembered the letters his father would send home, the carefully worded notes that tried to mask the desperation behind them. The money had stopped coming, and with it, the sense of security they had once known. His mother had done her best to reassure them, to hold the family together, but the strain was evident in her eyes, in the way she would sit up late at night, staring at the walls as if searching for answers that would never come.

For his father, life in Lagos had become a daily struggle for survival. He had moved from one odd job to another, each one more grueling than the last. The work was hard, the hours long, and the pay barely enough to keep him fed. He had slept in overcrowded hostels, on the cold floors of unfinished buildings, wherever he could find shelter for the night. The city, once a place of opportunity, had turned into a nightmare of endless toil and unfulfilled promises.

The physical toll on his body was undeniable. The constant stress, the lack of proper nutrition, and the harsh conditions of his work led to the development of a painful ulcer. It gnawed at him from the inside, a reminder of the life he had lost and the dreams that had crumbled away. The pain was a constant companion, an ache that radiated through his body, leaving him weak and weary.

But the ulcer was not the only injury he sustained. There had been an accident at one of the construction sites where he had managed to find temporary work. It had been a simple mistake, a moment of inattention, but the consequences were devastating. A piece of heavy machinery had malfunctioned, and in the chaos that followed, Thompson’s father’s hand had been caught in the gears. The pain had been excruciating, the sound of his own scream still echoing in his mind as he watched blood pour from his mangled hand.

The injury had been severe. The doctors had done what they could, but one of his fingers had been damaged beyond repair. It healed stiffly, the joint fused in a permanent state of rigidity. It was a constant reminder of what he had lost not just his finger, but his ability to work, to provide for his family as he once had. The loss of his job had been a blow to his pride, but the injury was a blow to his very identity.

When Thompson’s father looked at his hand, he didn’t just see the physical scar; he saw the broken man he had become. He had been reduced to a shell of his former self, a man who once stood tall and strong but now found himself crippled by both circumstance and injury. He had tried to find work, but employers were reluctant to hire a man with a crippled hand and an ulcer that left him weak and often unable to work for days on end.

The distance between him and his family had grown, not just in miles, but in the emotional chasm that had opened up between them. Thompson’s father had stopped writing as often, ashamed of the man he had become, unable to face the disappointment he imagined in his wife’s eyes. He couldn’t bear to tell them how far he had fallen, how much he had lost. He feared they would see him as a failure, as a man who had been defeated by life.

For Thompson, the absence of his father had become a painful void in his life. He had always looked up to the man, had seen him as a pillar of strength, a figure who could weather any storm. But now, that pillar had crumbled, and Thompson was left to navigate the harsh realities of life without the guidance he so desperately needed. The letters that had once brought news and encouragement had dwindled to nothing, leaving only the silence to fill the space where his father’s words had been.

Thompson’s mother had tried to fill the gap, to be both mother and father to her children, but it was clear that the weight of it all was crushing her. The responsibilities that had once been shared now fell squarely on her shoulders, and the strain was taking its toll. She had aged beyond her years, the lines on her face deepening with each passing day, the sparkle in her eyes dimming under the burden of their circumstances.

And yet, through it all, Thompson’s father had continued to fight, even as the world seemed determined to beat him down. He had refused to give up, to surrender to the despair that threatened to consume him. There had been moments when he had been tempted, moments when the pain in his stomach and the ache in his hand had made him wonder if it would be easier to simply walk away, to disappear into the night and leave it all behind.

But something had kept him going, some small spark of hope that refused to be extinguished. He had made a promise to himself, a vow that he would find a way back to his family, that he would not allow the city to defeat him. He would rebuild, no matter how long it took, no matter how many setbacks he faced. He would find a way to provide for his family again, to be the man they needed him to be.

In the small, rundown apartment in Lagos where he lived, Thompson’s father kept a photograph of his family on the wall beside his bed. It was a faded, worn picture, the edges curling from age, but it was his most prized possession. It showed them all together, smiling, before the weight of the world had pressed down on them. He would look at it every night before he went to sleep, drawing strength from the faces of his wife and children, the people he loved more than anything in the world.

It was this love that drove him, that kept him moving forward even when it felt like the world was conspiring against him. He knew he wasn’t the man he had once been, but he was determined to become something new, something better. He would find a way to heal, both physically and emotionally, and he would return to his family, not as the broken man he had become, but as someone who had been forged in the fires of adversity and emerged stronger on the other side.

But the journey back would not be easy. Thompson’s father knew that he had a long road ahead of him, a road fraught with challenges and obstacles that would test his resolve. He would need to find work that could accommodate his injury, to save enough money to make the journey home, and most of all, he would need to find the strength within himself to face his family again after all this time.

As he lay in bed each night, staring up at the ceiling of his small room, Thompson’s father would whisper a prayer, a quiet plea to whatever higher power might be listening. He prayed for strength, for guidance, for the courage to keep going when everything seemed hopeless. He prayed for his wife and children, that they would be safe, that they would forgive him for the time he had lost, for the man he had become.

And he prayed for Thompson, his firstborn son, the boy who had inherited his strength and determination. He prayed that Thompson would find his own path, that he would not be weighed down by the burdens of their circumstances. He prayed that his son would succeed where he had failed, that he would rise above the poverty and hardship that had defined their lives.

As the days turned into weeks and the weeks into months, Thompson’s father continued to fight, his determination unwavering even as his body weakened. He knew that the road ahead would be difficult, but he also knew that he could not give up. He would find a way to return to his family, to be the father and husband they needed him to be. He would find a way back to them, no matter how long it took.

And in the quiet of the night, as he lay in his bed with the photograph of his family by his side, Thompson’s father made a vow to himself, to his family, and to the universe. He would not be defeated. He would not allow the darkness of the world to consume him. He would find his way back to the light, back to the people he loved, and he would rebuild the life that had been taken from him.

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About the Creator

Victor Obanor Osagie

As a Nigerian UK-based author,my pen transports readers into vibrant worlds rich with culture,tradition, & human depth.With an eye for detail & a heart attuned to Nigeria's pulse,I craft stories that echo life’s essence & its complex beauty

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