grief
Losing a family member is one of the most traumatic life events; Families must support one another to endure the five stages of grief and get through it together.
A Horrible Accident Of My Grandma's
It was a rainy afternoon in April, the kind of day when the sky can't seem to decide whether to cry or rest. My grandmother, Lillian, had just left the community center where she volunteered every Tuesday, helping children with their reading. She loved those kids like they were her own, even at 72, and insisted on walking to the center daily, no matter the weather.
By Muhammad Ahmar 8 months ago in Families
The Silent Strength of Sara(A loyal lady)
In a quiet village tucked between hills and olive trees, lived a woman named Sara. She wasn’t known for her beauty, though her dark eyes spoke of depth and devotion. Nor was she famous for wealth or words. What made Sara unforgettable was her loyalty — a quiet, fierce flame that never wavered.
By Dr Gabriel 8 months ago in Families
7 Ways to Turn Heartbreak into Power
Heartbreak is a highly personal experience. No matter whether it has been brought on by a sudden break-up, betrayal, or failed engagement, the emotional hurt can be debilitating. In most cultures—Nigeria not being an exception—there is often pressure to "get over it" quickly or to hide your pain for the sake of appearances. But the truth is, you don’t have to stay broken. With the right mindset and steps, heartbreak can become a stepping stone to personal power. Here are seven real, research-backed ways to turn your pain into purpose, drawing from experiences familiar to people both in Nigeria and beyond. 1. Allow Yourself to Feel and Heal In cultures where strength is mistaken for silence, it's easy to suppress emotions. But healing starts with honesty. Let yourself cry, journal, pray, or reflect. Whether you’re in Lagos, Nairobi, London, or Atlanta—emotions are universal. Don’t let society rush your process. As the Yoruba proverb says, “ọjọ́ kan kò mọ'gbón ṣe” (wisdom doesn't come in one day). Take your time. Healing is strength. 2. Cut Off Contact and Cleanse Your Space Delete that number. Unfollow them. Remove shared photos or gifts. Your environment has power over your emotions. Many people—whether in Enugu or Edmonton—find peace through spiritual or emotional cleansing. This could mean prayer, therapy, a solo trip, or simply rearranging your room. Create a new atmosphere that reflects your future, not your past. 3. Reconnect with Your Identity Heartbreak has the ability to erase your sense of self. Go back to your origins—whatever that may be for you, whether that's time with your family, getting lost in your culture, or grounding yourself spiritually. In many African cultures, it was said by the elders: "What happens to a man also happens to a woman." Heartbreak is not a lack—it's human. Retake your sense of self. 4. Channel Pain into Purpose Heartbreak has inspired music, businesses, books, and careers. Turn that pain into fuel. A woman in Port Harcourt used her canceled wedding funds to launch a catering business. Today, she runs a thriving restaurant. Whether it’s launching a side hustle, returning to school, or writing your story—create something meaningful from your experience. 5. Give Attention to Your Physical and Mental Health This is your cue to prioritize self-care. Get to the gym, walk far distances, eat healthily, hydrate, sleep more. Mental well-being is no different—talk to a therapist, counselor, or trusted friend. In cities such as Abuja, Nairobi, or New York, mental wellness support groups are becoming increasingly popular. Healing isn't just emotional—it's holistic. 6. Build a Support Network Pain grows louder in isolation. Reach out to friends, family, or support communities. From WhatsApp groups in Lagos to healing circles in Johannesburg or online forums in Canada—people everywhere are choosing to heal together. Find your tribe. Talk. Share. Listen. Let others remind you that you’re not alone. 7. Reinvent Yourself Let this be the chapter where you reintroduce yourself to the world. Switch careers. Learn a skill. Relocate. Change your wardrobe. Start a new routine. Glow up on your terms. One woman said, “This pain birthed my power.” Let your heartbreak shape a newer, stronger version of you—one who rises, not despite the pain, but because of it. Final Thoughts Heartbreak doesn’t have to be the end of your story—it can be the beginning of your evolution. Whether you're in Nigeria or anywhere else in the world, your pain is valid, but it doesn’t define you. With each step you take toward healing, you reclaim your power. You are not weak. You are not broken. You are rising. Let your heartbreak be the spark that ignites your greatest comeback.
By Chinonso Kingsley8 months ago in Families
🌧️ Kindness in the Rain
The rain didn’t just fall that night—it attacked. It slammed against the pavement with a fury, turning streets into rivers and umbrellas into crumpled messes. People rushed by, heads down, eyes averted, chasing warmth and dry shelter. No one noticed the little girl on the bench at the bus stop. Soaked to the bone. Shivering. Silent.
By Ahmad Malik8 months ago in Families
Life Is Like a River: Its Nature Is to Keep Flowing
Life, in its essence, is a continuous journey — ever-changing, ever-evolving, and ever-flowing like a river. The comparison between life and a river is both poetic and profound. Just as a river begins as a small stream and gradually grows, meandering through various terrains, so does life start from infancy, flowing through childhood, youth, adulthood, and eventually old age. It encounters challenges, obstacles, and beautiful moments along the way, but the most important thing is motion—the flow.
By Niranjon Chandra Roy8 months ago in Families
