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Life of a Stay-At-Home-Mom
Life as a stay-at-home mom is not for the faint of heart. There will be lots of tears (you and them), lots of screaming, fighting, and of course, hugs. I am a mom of three wonderful, hateful monsters. They fill me with love, anger, sadness, joy, and so much happiness. Honestly, it is the hardest job in the world.
By Megan Godbey3 years ago in Families
Mom of 2 on Coping: “I Was So Afraid of Being Like My Mother”
Ani Anderson, who lives in New York City, still remembers what it was like growing up and seeing all her family look down on her mom. When she was a teenager, she vowed she wouldn’t ever be in such a position, and that decision changed her life. Even though she did everything she thought would give her a guarantee of being happy, she wasn’t satisfied.
By Amy Christie3 years ago in Families
You don't need a reason to love someone
She's been with a lot of guys. Act as a third party, pursue sister and brother love, want to marry rich, etc. Again and again twists and turns, a field of life and death separation, get covered with scars. At the age of 30, she finally settled down and wanted to find an honest man to marry and live quietly. So I knew him as a fitter.
By pomfret wise3 years ago in Families
Breastmilk
What is breastmilk? Breastmilk is a naturally produced hormone secretion that only woman generate for a child to have. A woman's milk is supplied with the antibodies and immunity for a child's growth and developmental stages from birth and after the years to come.
By Butterfly Nation 3 years ago in Families
Where is the source of child rebellion?
When we feel that the child has the feeling of "doing it against", the child will naturally feel that the parents are also doing it against their own. This has undoubtedly formed a class mindset. Parents feel that their children need to obey, and the parents’ words are correct. They constantly issue orders and feel that children’s disobedience is disobedience. In such parent-child interaction, there will be no equality, respect, multiple perspectives, love and wisdom. Therefore, as parents, we need to allow more children to have their own rhythm, whether it is behavior or Ta's inner process, the parent's framework should support the child from a broader perspective, rather than correcting the child.
By Jacqueline M Cohen3 years ago in Families
The child is fourteen years old, what should I do if I fall in love early?
I found that the first thing that parents think of in this situation is to stop, and basically ignore the methods and consequences, and regard puppy love as a flood. But it's better to be blocked. Fourteen-year-old children are in puberty. With the development of their bodies and the awakening of their gender awareness, it is normal for them to become curious about the opposite sex and have a vague favorable impression. The so-called young Muai. At this time, what parents should do is to provide correct guidance after communicating with their children, rather than directly and rudely stopping them. Let’s talk about the aspect of communication first. The first thing to do is to maintain an equal attitude, and then talk about other things. 1. Figure out why your child falls in love early. Is it because I saw other classmates or friends around me falling in love with each other, and just followed the trend to find a partner? Or because of curiosity about the opposite sex? Or did two people develop a good feeling because they have been together for a long time? Or other reasons. 2. Get to know your child's object. At least know the basic situation of the other party, such as family situation, personality, study and so on. As for how to guide puberty children in puppy love, you can find a lot of information on the Internet. I am only expressing my personal opinion. 1. On the premise of good communication, whether you want them to end the relationship, or maintain the status quo, let this relationship (let's call it a relationship) become a boost for the two of you. It is best to guide your child and his partner at the same time. You can invite two children together and communicate openly with them. 2. No matter what decision you make, please tell them the reason for your decision, don't say it's good for them in general. Although the child probably won't listen at this time. Then you can make a gentleman's agreement with them, and set a standard that can be achieved by study or other efforts. If they can't do it, then I'm sorry, you can justifiably say: It seems that your love is nothing more than this. 3. You also have to set a bottom line for them. Tell them clearly what not to do and why. 4. Let them know that love is not just about the beauty of two people under the flower field and the moon. There is also the responsibility for the other half and the future efforts of the two people. 5. Make it clear about the attitude of the other parent. It would be best if they can reach an agreement with you. That's about it, after all, I'm not a youth education, there may be many mistakes, just for reference, please forgive me! I had a puppy love in my second year of high school. Later, we were admitted to the same college together. Now we have been in love for ten years and got married. Most of the above is what my parents did at the time.
By Jacqueline M Cohen3 years ago in Families
When a game's more than a game. Top Story - August 2022.
My daughter recently turned 18 and is on the eve of her 10-year-anniversary of being diagnosed with Type-1 diabetes. She was just 8-years-old when her (and our family's world) was turned upside down, and it's hard to believe that she's lived now with the disease longer than she hasn't.
By Cheryl Wray3 years ago in Families
Is puppy love a bad boy?
Maybe what you think is beautiful, but fragile in the face of real life. It is recommended that if you are really in a puppy love, you should not have an intimate relationship in the past. If the parent is enlightened, you can tell the parent. If you feel that your parents don't understand anything, are not enlightened, and follow the old ways, then forget it. Because such parents can't help you. The road ahead is still very long, and the oaths, sweet words, eternity and passion and romance in front of me are all short-lived. It is the most correct to take your own study, life and friends and family around you seriously. In fact, the mature love you are in occurs during the 18-30 years of your life. At that time, after you have graduated from university and entered the society, you will look at all this more objectively. Right now, you are not enough to bear a lot of things. I don't know if you understand what I'm talking about.
By Jacqueline M Cohen3 years ago in Families
Children fall in love early, how can parents guide?
For puppy love, parents are unwilling to see it, but today's children are relatively precocious, and more capricious and puppy love, the problem of puberty children in adolescence is inevitable for many parents. How can you tell if a child is falling in love? What are the manifestations of children's early love? 1. Will secretly write letters to the opposite sex and make some small gifts, so that parents will not see them. 2. Suddenly interested in literary works, movies, and TV depicting love. The appearance of puppy love has gradually become more common, and the age group of occurrence is getting younger and younger. So, why do children fall in love early? 1. With the continuous development of sexual awareness, boys will become curious about the body, life, psychology and attitude of the opposite sex. This is a psychological phenomenon of adolescents. Adolescent children are prone to sexual impulses, and thus maintain a sensitive attitude towards the opposite sex. In order to satisfy this curiosity, they make friends of the opposite sex. If they develop further, they are likely to become puppy love. 2. The role of adolescents' sense of independence. They blindly yearn and pursue the adult world, thinking that being able to fall in love represents their maturity, but neglect the cultivation, exercise and improvement of their own psychological quality, which is a manifestation of lack of reason. 3. Imitation is too strong. Today's children are actually very smart, especially their imitation skills. There are too many love series now, which makes them fascinated and overwhelmed. They are always looking forward to their own love, and when they meet the opposite sex they like I felt like in the TV series, I imagined that a very romantic love would happen to the two of them, so I tried to do it, which led to puppy love. Do you know the harm and consequences of children's early love? 1. Early love can easily hurt people. Adolescents have unstable attitudes, are prone to conflicts in love, are psychologically immature, fragile and have poor tolerance, and are easily hurt in emotional ups and downs. Some teenagers doubt their life due to the frustration of puppy love, which casts a shadow on their emotional life and even affects their future marriage life. 2. When young boys and girls in adolescence fall in love, most of them are carried out under the condition of immaturity in body and mind. In addition, they have no economic foundation, and most of their economic sources depend on their parents. Therefore, this kind of love has no firm foundation, and it is easy to die in the middle. When they first fall in love, they often swear and even make an oath. But as time goes by, they go from middle school to university, or go to society, their knowledge and experience are gradually enriched, their life experience is continuously accumulated, they really mature, and they have established their own world views and have new standards for mate selection. Some people have conducted follow-up surveys and found that the success rate of marriage for puppy lovers is extremely low, and those who fall in love in high school are not many who can form a family in the end. It's a pity to waste a lot of the best time in life for this "love" that ultimately has more bitter than sweet fruits. What should parents do if they find out that their child is in a puppy love? 1. Talk to the child about the conditions. If you can't control the child, you can choose to reach a consensus with the child, such as agreeing on what academic performance to achieve before falling in love, etc. If you can't stop it, you can urge the child to study in a different way. 2. Enough is enough. Generally speaking, for children, puppy love will end in failure. Even if the matter has passed, the scar cannot be opened. Don't mention the past of their puppy love on other mistakes of the children in the future, and don't use it as an occasional dinner table chat and so on. Letting that past event become the child's own secret and choosing to forget it is the most tolerant love for the child. 3. Strictly criticize and let the children know that puppy love is not good for them. In addition to delaying their own learning, it will also hurt the expectations of their parents and school teachers, etc. Criticism can sometimes play a role. effect. The problem of children's puppy love should not be regarded as "flood beasts" by parents and teachers. We should treat the problem of children's puppy love with a normal heart, guide children, let them learn to deal with immature love, form a correct view of feelings, do not affect learning, and do not cross the line.
By Jacqueline M Cohen3 years ago in Families
How to guide the child in early love?
I think parents don't need to be overly nervous. If the children are sincere, and both children are more motivated and able to make progress together, they can guide them: if they want to truly build their own family and live a good life in the future, Study hard now! Because the construction of a happy family is not just about love, but also financial support, and there will be conflicts and disputes~ If it is a girl, you should also remind the child to protect yourself~ Protect yourself and work hard to enrich yourself. Leave the choice to yourself, and you will live up to any good time!
By Jacqueline M Cohen3 years ago in Families
