Accepting children is more important than praising them
Several psychologists have been studying the issue of "attachment" in early childhood. Attachment" to the mother is an instinct of the child. When a baby comes into the world as an individual, the first thing it needs to do is to survive. A newborn baby can't do anything, so it needs to rely on something to survive, and the mother is the main thing, and the mother's love is the main thing. For the baby, the mother's embrace is the warmest and safest, when the mother must give this feeling to the child. The child has this feeling, there is a stable psychological foundation, will not encounter something will be afraid, on the anxiety, so the child will be easier to adapt to changes in the environment. For example, my child, in kindergarten and elementary school, adapted relatively quickly, with nothing too big hurdles, because he grew up with a sense of security, and a sense of trust in people.