PREGNANCY

Motherhood start's when a girl came to know that she is pregnant, everything got changed in her life especially during the first pregnancy. That time the girl got really confused and nervous, as she actually don't know if she is ready for being a mother as it's a really big responsibility.

As from childhood, she is always dependent on her mother. Her mother choose everything for her, support her emotionally and only she knows her better than anyone else.

During pregnancy, the most important person is her husband or partner who should be very supportive, understanding and caring towards her. Everyone have different pregnancy journey, not even any female can understand the situation of another pregnant women as it is different for everyone.

Being angry, feeling alone, weak, tired, nauseous, hungry, need to pee and many more are the common symptoms during the pregnancy. Throughout whole pregnancy the girl actually need is love from her partner, as she goes through difficult time and goes through many problems. The baby in her womb is not only her own responsibility, but the father should have to be their for her whenever she feels weak.

She has to face so many situations where she feels guilty at some point for her child, as she is not taking good care of her or she feels burdened on her partner as he have to take extra care for her. Whole pregnancy her main priority is the safety of her child, for which she struggles 9 months to deliver that baby safely.

First Trimester is the time of excitement, feeling sick and being careful about her health as she is working throughout her pregnancy as well. She not only do the household work, but also doing their professional job as well and looking after her own health, managing her appointments, going for her regular checkups.

Till second trimester she got used to it, as she feels bit stronger and got ready to face the situation. But the third trimester is really challenging as everything become so hard, body's energy level start decreasing, feeling tired and sick all the time and the fear and nervousness of labor pain and delivery is always in the mind as the time come's closer.

No one can explain the labor pain, the time the mother spend in labor feels like she can die as well. But the miracle is when she finally deliver a child and the baby is finally in her arms, she forgot about her pain and just smile at the first glimpse of the child who grows inside her for 9 months.

Its not the end, but the beginning of the motherhood as she have to struggle alot to raise that child. She have to spend so many restless nights without proper sleep, for months to feed her child. So many mothers go through depression in that period and they actually don't know about it. Some knows but they don't want to admit it in front of anyone.

After being a mother, the life got totally changed as no one ever imagined about it. But the mother is so strong that she can do anything for her children, she always thinks about her kids first and they become her first priority throughout her life.

Second pregnancy is more challenging as you can't rest or take care of yourself properly as you have to look after your first child as well. According to my experience each pregnancy or having more kids makes you stronger and increase your patience level as well. The love you got from your kids change everything.